Newbe looking for infomation

Contributor: Loriandhubby Loriandhubby
Hello, I am very new to all of this. IDK even know if BDSM is really what we like. But we are very courisuse. Is there any web sites for newcomers? Maybe some terms and definations, how to use items ( such as we were looking at the figure 8 ball strap but have no idea how this item will work. We looked on line for a few hours trying to find a pic of it in use with no luck), how to tie some basic knots.

Also I have one item in mind but when I do do a key word search on the net I don't get any results I"m sure I can't be the only one who thought of this. Maybe my key words IDK.. " Clit Paddle" any sugestions how I might be able to find this online?

Thank you for everything.

Lori
02/25/2012
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Contributor: KyotoAngel KyotoAngel
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Originally posted by Loriandhubby
Hello, I am very new to all of this. IDK even know if BDSM is really what we like. But we are very courisuse. Is there any web sites for newcomers? Maybe some terms and definations, how to use items ( such as we were looking at the figure 8 ball ... more
You could join FetLife, there's lots of information to be had in the groups on there.

link
That group seems like a pretty good place to start as far as definitions and such go.

link
Also you should give this one a look over, safety plays a huge part in anything kinky.
02/26/2012
Contributor: bmann bmann
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Originally posted by Loriandhubby
Hello, I am very new to all of this. IDK even know if BDSM is really what we like. But we are very courisuse. Is there any web sites for newcomers? Maybe some terms and definations, how to use items ( such as we were looking at the figure 8 ball ... more
link
02/26/2012
Contributor: LavenderSkies LavenderSkies
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Originally posted by KyotoAngel
You could join FetLife, there's lots of information to be had in the groups on there.

link
That group seems like a pretty good place to start as far as definitions and such go.

link
Also you should give this one a look over, ... more
Thanks for the links!
02/27/2012
Contributor: TheSinDoll TheSinDoll
Try this Jay Wiseman link and see if any of those help you.

Fetlife.com is also a good site.

You can Google BDSM checklist and see if any of the fetishes listed appeal to you or your partner. If you don't understand the terms, look them up.

Educate yourself, enjoy y'alls new experiences and don't forget... Have fun!
02/27/2012
Contributor: Loriandhubby Loriandhubby
Thank you all so much for the links. Finding good information seems to be a real road block.
02/28/2012
Contributor: LusciousLollypop LusciousLollypop
Fetlife.com is a really good way to learn about a lot of stuff, really fast. If you ever have any questions.. send me a message. I'd be more than willing to answer what I can. xoxo
02/29/2012
Contributor: Loriandhubby Loriandhubby
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Originally posted by LusciousLollypop
Fetlife.com is a really good way to learn about a lot of stuff, really fast. If you ever have any questions.. send me a message. I'd be more than willing to answer what I can. xoxo
thank you . HUGS..
03/21/2012
Contributor: TheGreat TheGreat
Fetlife is where I started!
03/22/2012