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No word, relate to sex?
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"No" and variations of "stop" don't work during BDSM scenes. It has to be something that would not be used in the normal discourse of play that will snap the dom/domme out of the scene and realize the person really needs them to stop what they're doing.
Originally posted by
Elnoa
"No".
09/16/2011
I've used two. "Rumpelstiltskin" is my favorite. I like it because it is so totally absurd, especially during a BDSM scene. It's a good multi-syllable word that won't be confused with anything else when you say it.
I also like the disappointingly unoriginal "time-out." This isn't realy a NO word. We use it when the scene is getting a little intense and one of us needs a moment or two to pull it together before carrying on. This is usually just a 10 second count (or a preagreed length of time) so it doesn't break the scene. It just slows it down for a few seconds.
I also like the disappointingly unoriginal "time-out." This isn't realy a NO word. We use it when the scene is getting a little intense and one of us needs a moment or two to pull it together before carrying on. This is usually just a 10 second count (or a preagreed length of time) so it doesn't break the scene. It just slows it down for a few seconds.
09/17/2011
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To be honest, no is always a safeword. Legally, it can be defined as rape if a "no" is ignored. I keep this as a safeword ALWAYS, meaning I will never deny my Dominant unless something is wrong, in which case He knows He needs to stop right away.
Originally posted by
Stormy
"No" and variations of "stop" don't work during BDSM scenes. It has to be something that would not be used in the normal discourse of play that will snap the dom/domme out of the scene and realize the person really needs them
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"No" and variations of "stop" don't work during BDSM scenes. It has to be something that would not be used in the normal discourse of play that will snap the dom/domme out of the scene and realize the person really needs them to stop what they're doing.
Keep in mind that some people have hard times with safewords. You may need to reconsider "no." You don't want to ignore it and subsequently rape your submissive. I say this out of concern, not rudeness.
03/11/2012
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