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Lvstoplay Lvstoplay
Any ideas for rewards in a BDSM relationship? We're currently looking for more ideas that would be romantic or sexual in nature. We've got a few but any ideas you'd be willing to share would be greatly appreciated.
05/12/2015
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Lvstoplay Lvstoplay
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Originally posted by Lvstoplay
Any ideas for rewards in a BDSM relationship? We're currently looking for more ideas that would be romantic or sexual in nature. We've got a few but any ideas you'd be willing to share would be greatly appreciated.
Anyone? Someone on here has to have a few ideas.
05/15/2015
unoriginalgirlyid unoriginalgirlyid
What my partner and I did was made "punishment" and "reward" boxes and talked about what should go into either box, then filled out pieces of paper with the respective acts. Everyone is different so what would be considered a reward to some, may not be so great to another. Ultimately I would say communicating about what may be a reward with your partner would be the best route. Or if you pay enough attention there has to be some things that your partner either likes that you don't do often which could possibly be rewards. Hope this helps.
06/05/2015
Lvstoplay Lvstoplay
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Originally posted by unoriginalgirlyid
What my partner and I did was made "punishment" and "reward" boxes and talked about what should go into either box, then filled out pieces of paper with the respective acts. Everyone is different so what would be considered a ...
Anything you found particular good? We are trying something like a reward box but we don't have enough ideas for in it.
07/22/2015
OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
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Originally posted by unoriginalgirlyid
What my partner and I did was made "punishment" and "reward" boxes and talked about what should go into either box, then filled out pieces of paper with the respective acts. Everyone is different so what would be considered a ...
Great idea !
07/22/2015
Lvstoplay Lvstoplay
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Originally posted by OH&W, Lovebears
Great idea !
Any ideas on what to include in it OH?
07/24/2015
Rossie Rossie
Quote:
Originally posted by Lvstoplay
Any ideas for rewards in a BDSM relationship? We're currently looking for more ideas that would be romantic or sexual in nature. We've got a few but any ideas you'd be willing to share would be greatly appreciated.
The punishment: no sex for one week.
The reward: sex at least once a day for a whole week.
07/24/2015
OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
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Originally posted by Lvstoplay
Any ideas on what to include in it OH?
Ummm Ok, I'll spill some beans. Punishment: Person gets tied up so as to def not be able to get loose and has to watch the other pleasure her/himself royally.

Should last over an hour. Some good sound effects should be included.


That could be a reward or punishment.

Lvs, will that go in the box ?
07/24/2015
symbiasin symbiasin
Quote:
Originally posted by Rossie
The punishment: no sex for one week.
The reward: sex at least once a day for a whole week.
lol
07/25/2015
symbiasin symbiasin
Quote:
Originally posted by OH&W, Lovebears
Ummm Ok, I'll spill some beans. Punishment: Person gets tied up so as to def not be able to get loose and has to watch the other pleasure her/himself royally.

Should last over an hour. Some good sound effects should be ...
Good one!
07/25/2015
OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
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Originally posted by Lvstoplay
Any ideas on what to include in it OH?
And I'm sure there should be some" spanking" slips in your box. Some with how many love taps, to which part of body and what type of instrument or with bare hand.

Also I would think you would definitely want some plug play included. Slips can say how long person is to wear it, in public, private and which types. Including parading bare in the house with wagging tails or gems.

Lvs, I'm sure you already have these in our box. Right ?

Can you share some of your favs ? I'm aware you have quite the arsenal.
07/25/2015
Inquisitor Inquisitor
Mmmn, don't forget about the vibrating plugs as well. They must be used in a public setting...

How bout Oral for X minutes and no orgasm allowed? That could be either a Reward or Punishment.
07/26/2015
Lvstoplay Lvstoplay
Quote:
Originally posted by OH&W, Lovebears
Ummm Ok, I'll spill some beans. Punishment: Person gets tied up so as to def not be able to get loose and has to watch the other pleasure her/himself royally.

Should last over an hour. Some good sound effects should be ...
Not sure, we're not big on tying things in front of each other, more to or with each other. Over an hour huh?
07/27/2015
Lvstoplay Lvstoplay
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Originally posted by OH&W, Lovebears
And I'm sure there should be some" spanking" slips in your box. Some with how many love taps, to which part of body and what type of instrument or with bare hand.

Also I would think you would definitely want some plug play ...
We have a few ideas.

One thing I really like that he'll try as a reward or special treat type of thing for me is actually pretty simple. Normally when he tries touching me sexually he'll rub my clit with small circles, however when he's touching me as a reward he'll rub up and down the entire length of my clit along the sides of it. When I get close he'll rub directly over the clit itself too. It feels nice and he'll let me come for him that way a few times in a row. I like it.
07/27/2015
Lvstoplay Lvstoplay
Quote:
Originally posted by Inquisitor
Mmmn, don't forget about the vibrating plugs as well. They must be used in a public setting...

How bout Oral for X minutes and no orgasm allowed? That could be either a Reward or Punishment.
I don't actually like having oral performed on me. I've had a few boyfriends try it but I don't like it.
07/27/2015
Lvstoplay Lvstoplay
Interesting ideas so far, keep them coming. Thanks!
07/27/2015
OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
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Originally posted by Lvstoplay
Interesting ideas so far, keep them coming. Thanks!
Besides some of the items you already have reviewed and mentioned here and there, do the two of you use dils and/or harnesses ?If so then members may give you suggestions on those.
07/27/2015
Inquisitor Inquisitor
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Originally posted by Lvstoplay
I don't actually like having oral performed on me. I've had a few boyfriends try it but I don't like it.
It might be a Reward for him, if you so choose. It's just a thought...
07/28/2015
Lvstoplay Lvstoplay
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Originally posted by OH&W, Lovebears
Besides some of the items you already have reviewed and mentioned here and there, do the two of you use dils and/or harnesses ?If so then members may give you suggestions on those.
No harnesses and we have like one dildo though we don't use it often. Still looking to add more toys that are interesting.

Basically we're trying to find things we could do as a reward or special treat for each other - something sexual, something they'd like a lot and that would be enjoyable for both of us, and that would be ok to reserve for something more special.
07/28/2015
Lvstoplay Lvstoplay
Quote:
Originally posted by OH&W, Lovebears
Besides some of the items you already have reviewed and mentioned here and there, do the two of you use dils and/or harnesses ?If so then members may give you suggestions on those.
No harnesses and we have like one dildo though we don't use it often. Still looking to add more toys that are interesting.

Basically we're trying to find things we could do as a reward or special treat for each other - something sexual, something they'd like a lot and that would be enjoyable for both of us, and that would be ok to reserve for something more special.
07/28/2015
Lvstoplay Lvstoplay
Quote:
Originally posted by Inquisitor
It might be a Reward for him, if you so choose. It's just a thought...
True enough, thanks! I'll need to discuss it with him later.
07/28/2015
OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
Quote:
Originally posted by Lvstoplay
I don't actually like having oral performed on me. I've had a few boyfriends try it but I don't like it.
Well, there you go. For your punishment slip, you get tied up and he performs oral on you for 30 mins.

As a reward, he gets tied up and you perform on him.

Or for his punishment, he gets tied up and u perform but do not allow him to O. Stop and squeeze tight !
07/28/2015
Lvstoplay Lvstoplay
Quote:
Originally posted by OH&W, Lovebears
Well, there you go. For your punishment slip, you get tied up and he performs oral on you for 30 mins.

As a reward, he gets tied up and you perform on him.

Or for his punishment, he gets tied up and u perform but do not allow him to ...
Any special ways to touch each other?
07/29/2015
OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
Quote:
Originally posted by Lvstoplay
Any special ways to touch each other?
You know, the worst punishment is to be tied up and tickled ! Talk about torture !
07/29/2015
Inquisitor Inquisitor
Quote:
Originally posted by OH&W, Lovebears
You know, the worst punishment is to be tied up and tickled ! Talk about torture !
True, good point! You can have him pick his device to be tickled with for the punishment. Feathers, Fingers or other tools could be used to tickle. Thats good for a 2 in one punishment. First he draws the tickle card and then he has to draw the tool to be tickled with.
07/29/2015
Lvstoplay Lvstoplay
Thanks, any more ideas?
08/07/2015
Lvstoplay Lvstoplay
There are a few ideas in this tread currently, but I'm still looking for more if anyone has any. Thanks!
Jun 14, 4:55 pm
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