Sadists/Dominants/Tops : Do you get sexually aroused when spanking, flogging, whipping, caning, etc?

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Sadists/Dominants/Tops : Do you get sexually aroused when spanking, flogging, whipping, caning, etc?

CandidKinkster CandidKinkster
I'm trying to ascertain how often there is a sexual component in inflicting pain on bottoms.
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
Always
22
Usually
25
Occasionally
12
Rarely
1
Never
1
Total votes: 61 (59 voters)
Poll is closed
05/01/2011
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MaryExy MaryExy
I know my guy likes the idea of leaving marks. I think that's the main reason he does stuff that causes pain.
05/01/2011
IrishLassie IrishLassie
My husband who is my Dom, loves our flogger, the feeling of it in his hand, the marks it leaves on me, the sound of it as it smacks against my skin. Yes, Im not the only one who gets aroused by such, he enjoys it very much.
05/14/2011
Dyma Dyma
Yes, always.
05/14/2011
Vanessa Weiss Vanessa Weiss
My partner is the dominant one in our relationship and he is very much a sadist.

It not only turns him on, it satisfies part of his sexual appetite that absolutely nothing else can.
07/19/2011
kendra30752 kendra30752
So far we're only into light play, but I always get turned on with being spanked. Love it!
07/20/2011
Miss Voluptuous Miss Voluptuous
As a bottom I get sexually aroused. I know my partner enjoys sadism. I can't speak to the intricacies of his experience, but he does get pleasure out of it.
07/25/2011
Errant Venture Errant Venture
I do love a good spanking! It's not so much the pain I enjoy, but seeing her reaction.
07/25/2011
mariedoll mariedoll
I adore it.
07/25/2011
SizeQueenAndProud SizeQueenAndProud
Sometimes it's just so exciting to see the surprise and pleasure in her face when she's having her hair pulled, being whipped, spanked, etc. It is definitely exciting.
04/03/2012
dks210 dks210
My partner enjoys it, and so do I.
04/04/2012
Boyqueen Boyqueen
Loveeee itttt
07/07/2012
butts butts
sometimes my partner likes to get slapped or spanked (in various areas, not just the butt), it's super hot. :0
07/07/2012
ScarletFox ScarletFox
Pretty much every time, there have been a few times where it hasn't happened but 9 times out of 10.
07/07/2012
gsfanatic gsfanatic
Kind of, though for me I think it's mostly about the control, rather than the pain
07/08/2012
Zandrock Zandrock
We switch for each other. We both prefer to be bottoms actually. So I do not get a kick out of topping per se. I just get a kick out of seeing her enjoy it. Still lots of fun, just no added fun from say oral or fingering or massaging.
07/08/2012
TheHardOne TheHardOne
I have always enjoyed a bit of spanking but not the kind that inflicts too much pain.
07/23/2012
Gdom Gdom
Always. The feeling of control, my partner's reactions, and everything else are an incredible rush.
07/24/2012
chicagobearsfan chicagobearsfan
My top says he loves to see me helpless. I think it's more my reactions than actually inflicting pain.
01/02/2013
LavenderSkies LavenderSkies
Quote:
Originally posted by CandidKinkster
I'm trying to ascertain how often there is a sexual component in inflicting pain on bottoms.
Usually, yes!
01/02/2013
Leather & Lace Leather & Lace
I have a spanking fetish!
01/02/2013
nimr nimr
Always to some degree, but not always to a really intense degree -- it depends on what I'm doing.
01/02/2013
TheirPet TheirPet
My top loves to spank me.
01/02/2013
Roz W Roz W
Quote:
Originally posted by chicagobearsfan
My top says he loves to see me helpless. I think it's more my reactions than actually inflicting pain.
Hah, this.
01/02/2013
Bittenflame Bittenflame
Depends on how much pleasure from the pain she is getting
01/02/2013
Tangles Tangles
I have before, and if my partner is enjoying it then I am receiving pleasure.
01/03/2013
Love Perpetua Love Perpetua
He seems to enjoy it (I certainly do) but I've never straight up asked - do you like this? He suggests that we do it though
02/12/2013
SecondStory SecondStory
It turns me on, but in a background sort of way. I'm usually concentrating too much on making sure my sub is doing okay and enjoying herself and i don't think about if I'm aroused or not until afterwards.
02/16/2013
Genderfree Genderfree
I absolutely love her little moans and whimpers when I flog her. Her moans are half enjoyment, half pain (that's just the right amount)

It does get me very aroused. As long as I'm in my dom mood. If I'm in a sub mood, it just makes me jealous!
02/16/2013
Dear Ruby Dear Ruby
Sometimes, it depends on how worked up I am before he starts laying into me. When I get to play dominant, it does turn me on a bit!
02/17/2013
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