How do you use a Safe Word if you're gagged?

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gsfanatic gsfanatic
Tap signals, 2 for slow and 3 for stop
08/21/2012
Ryuson Ryuson
I've also seen hard-to-make hand signals being 'safe words.'
08/21/2012
Badmew Badmew
Yea, as the others have said, you can do hand signals, such as thumbs up for more, or thumbs down for slow down, or tapping out if it becomes too much.
08/21/2012
SMichelle SMichelle
We use hand signals.
08/22/2012
ellieprobable ellieprobable
Hand signals can work. A series of grunts in a certain pattern are often used. Sometimes the top give the bottom an object to hold and dropping it counts as "red".
08/25/2012
geekkink geekkink
Hand signals, if your hands are free, complex nods also work, breathable gags, or bits you can mumble through are also an option.
08/25/2012
Billie Bones Billie Bones
I use the tap out method. Two firm taps means stop and check in with me.
08/25/2012
Taylor Taylor
I hold a bell, if I want the gag off then I ring the bell
08/25/2012
The Kitty The Kitty
a tap out, thumbs up or thumbs down, a bell, or holding something like a setr of keys and dropping if its too much, also allowing your body to go limp is often a sign to stop.
08/27/2012
Gdom Gdom
This one hasn't been mentioned but it's fairly common (at least in the BDSM porn industry): make any noise three times in a row (a muffled "mhh mhh mhh" will work). Obviously that has to be specified a little more so that muffled moans don't come across as a safeword (and even more importantly, so that an attempted use of a safeword isn't misinterpreted as mere moaning), but it's easy enough to specify (although a little hard to describe in text).
08/29/2012
inkky inkky
Quote:
Originally posted by thickmami
How are to use your safe word if you are gaged?
Hand Signals
08/30/2012
SavingMyself SavingMyself
Hand signals, hold a ball in your hand that you drop if you need to stop, tapping.
08/30/2012
Pixel Pixel
If I'm up close to the person, I use two firm taps on their body (think tapping out in martial arts). If they're not close to touch, I hold onto something that's going to be loud if I drop it.
09/01/2012
itismedi itismedi
I tap the headboard. One tap, he stops
09/02/2012
Mylo Mylo
Quote:
Originally posted by thickmami
How are to use your safe word if you are gaged?
I would say a tap signal would be the best way!
10/06/2012
IrishLassie IrishLassie
We have a hand signal and when he is up close and can't easily see my hands, two firm taps on his arm works. Once we used blinks of the eyes for a specific scene where i was bound and gagged and couldn't give a hand signal
12/02/2012
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