Safe word / Action

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Safe word / Action

Just Jen Just Jen
When doing BDSM, do you have a safe word or action to let your partner know to ease up some? Our word is "AppleJacks" and our action (For use when choaking) is 4 pokes in the side.
09/02/2010
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Darkness Withinus Darkness Withinus
Yes, I think safewords are great things and should be used 99% of the time at least. I have always let my partners pick their safe words because I think it is easier for them to remember them that way.
09/03/2010
Tart Tart
Most of what happens in my scenes are negotiated before hand, and I usually talk rather openly with the Dom I play with. If I have a problem I am very expressive about it. Example: I say something like "That is too hard on my back" instead of waiting for the "Red" bomb to fall (my safeword). I like preventing using my safeword so if there is something I can speak up about before it gets to that point I will say it. If I am going to be gagged then some kind of "action" needs to be specified. It depends on the situation.
10/28/2010
Trashley Trashley
Quote:
Originally posted by Just Jen
When doing BDSM, do you have a safe word or action to let your partner know to ease up some? Our word is "AppleJacks" and our action (For use when choaking) is 4 pokes in the side.
It's different for every person, but I do the poke in the side thing, but usually three pokes or just FRANTIC TAPPING haha
10/28/2010
Destri Destri
(Reminds me of the old BDSN joke: 'STOP! is not a safe word) Our word is rigatoni. Just a word that would never, ever come up during a session. Frantic tapping is what is used if talking is not an option.

I would never, ever play with anyone without a good safe word in place. I am a firm believer in safe, sane and consensual.
10/28/2010
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