Subs! Do you ever intentionally do things to or around your Dom to "get in trouble?" (If you do, you know what I mean.) ;)

Contributor: Tart Tart
I enjoy being a bully, being challenging. Saying things like "Oh yea?" "That's what you think" or twisting and turning while I am tied up to try to get away. They usually get me spanked pretty hard.
10/21/2010
Contributor: RemusHalifax RemusHalifax
I love instigating. <3
It tends to lead to more fun.
12/19/2010
Contributor: Luce Luce
I tend to do things to see how far I can push buttons. Pretty much so testing the waters/limits.
12/20/2010
Contributor: RammaJamma RammaJamma
I'm guilty of this... I'm a switch but my partner is full on Dom so when I'm in the mood to top I occasionally act out. He always puts me right back in my place when I'm like this.

Admittedly, I have acted badly to get attention. Even the punishments he gives are enough sometimes. He gets so busy and (even though I know I shouldn't) I'll misbehave just to force his attention back to me.
03/12/2011
Contributor: LavenderSkies LavenderSkies
I am guilty of misbehaving...
03/13/2011
Contributor: charip charip
I try my best to make sure my Mistress is always pleased with me.
03/13/2011
Contributor: RosesThorns RosesThorns
I do sometimes, its fun.
03/13/2011
Contributor: (Re)tired Stripper (Re)tired Stripper
I go through phases. If I'm PMSing, I can be vindictive and bratty. I won't take care of house work whatsoever, or I'll say something completely rude. Sometimes I'll grab one of our impact toys and smack my partner, which ALWAYS leads to trouble.

We are dabbling in lifestyle D/s, and for instance once when I accused him of cheating on me (he had boxers lying in the backseat of the car and was late coming home--the story has a happy ending and it was just a bizarre fluke), and he threw me on the bed, grabbed a wooden spoon (hefty one!) and went to town on my poor ass. He did say he loved me the whole while, and that it hurt him that I never seemed to trust him.

It worked well. Sometimes I do act like a brat on purpose, and get punished accordingly. Other times, I don't mean to be insolent, but something rude slips out of my mouth.
03/16/2011
Contributor: Happy Camper Happy Camper
As a masochist I do this. I do this a lot. We call them SAMs which stands for Smart-Assed Masochists. They are...somewhat of an acquired taste I suppose. Maybe not acquired, but it's not everyone's cup of tea. Sadists handle it well, doms can be hit and miss. But I don't identify as a sub per say, so maybe I'm not a relevant voter.
03/16/2011
Contributor: TheSinDoll TheSinDoll
Sometimes I'm a brat, but only until put in my place, and only when I get in the mood to be. I just tease. I don't know why, but the more I like you, the more I have to aggravate you.

Once I'm put in my place though, I will be good... promise!
03/16/2011
Contributor: Epicurean Epicurean
I don't get any pleasure out of the "punishment" that comes with being bratty, so I don't do it.
03/17/2011
Contributor: Chilipepper Chilipepper
Update: still working details out with my Master. He's in Britain and I'm in the US, and we won't really know until we meet in May.
03/22/2011
Contributor: Taylor Taylor
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Originally posted by Epicurean
I don't get any pleasure out of the "punishment" that comes with being bratty, so I don't do it.
Same here
03/22/2011
Contributor: P'Gell P'Gell
Quote:
Originally posted by Chilipepper
Update: still working details out with my Master. He's in Britain and I'm in the US, and we won't really know until we meet in May.
Well, good luck. I hope things work out well.

In our relationship, I do this when we're being really playful. If he's "in a mood" I probably wouldn't intentionally provoke him (although I have a bratty (aka bitchy) mouth when I get angry, and I've been known to throw furniture.)

When things are playful, I do a lot of stuff to make him laugh or he pretends it's pissing him off, but I know him well enough to know the difference. I'll grab his ass, or tweek his nipple or flip him off as I walk through the room, things like that. Or just look at him when he asks me to do something, "You talkin' to me?" or "WTF? Do I look like your slave?" LOL! Yeah, but only if he's not "in a mood."
03/22/2011
Contributor: sexyk515 sexyk515
no
03/22/2011
Contributor: PunkyB PunkyB
I dont have a lot of experience with a dom/sub relationship, but I dont think I could take it beyond the sexual aspect. Real life things I am a control freak. I have to be in charge of everything in my house. Sex though its a completely different story with me. I get moments when I want to take charge, but I really want someone who dominates in the bedroom.
03/23/2011
Contributor: SexyStuff SexyStuff
Only in fun
03/24/2011
Contributor: Redboxbaby Redboxbaby
The D/s aspect of our relationship is our "play". We tease or pick at each other from sun up til sun down. Some people might think I am being a brat, but we are both Leo's. We both demand attention equally and when we feel like we are not getting it, from the outside looking in, I am sure it probably looks worse than we intend. We nit-pick each other. We smack each other on the ass or grab each other everytime we walk past one another. We doubt each others abilities and sometime stoop to name calling - that is how we tease and most of the time, it is all in play.

When we are having rough sex and he's being dominate he will bring up all those times I was bratty and he will indeed "punish" me for it (spankings, tying me down, all the things I like, and whatever else he can think of). He counts and he remembers all the times I was pushy and trying to assert my dominance. I love it that he remembers all that stuff. It tells me that he is listening at least some of the time.

This is not something we do in public however, we would never want someone looking in on our relationship and thinking we were being disrespectful toward each other. Don't get me wrong, there are times when he just pisses me off (and vice versa) and I will lose my head.
03/24/2011
Contributor: MaryExy MaryExy
I'd never do anything intentionally to get in trouble. My guy is serious about it when I'm in trouble. If he's in a good mood I may tease a bit, but as soon as he asserts control I'm 100% his. And only veeery light teasing, just to show I'm in the mood.
04/21/2011
Contributor: Pixel Pixel
My Sir is really tolerant of my being a bit of a bratty sub. I can be mouthy, provided I am amusing him. (For example, referring to him as 'Sir Bite-y McFangypants' is not amusing to anyone but me, apparently, and ended in not fun pain. ) But for the most part, I don't try to be deliberately antagonistic for the sake of getting punished. If I want pain, I ask for it nicely and am usually obliged.
04/21/2011
Contributor: Kake aka PoeticErotica Kake aka PoeticErotica
It's completely unintentional, but I can be quite the brat & even a bit of a SAM. Luckily, I tend to gravitate towards Doms who enjoy that kind of sub. My current Dom loves it, though of course, there are certain lines, and if I cross them, I know it, & I know the outcome won't be pretty.
04/22/2011
Contributor: Boyqueen Boyqueen
Sometimes I'll just act very difficult or disobey purely the see what will happen/what my punishment will be.
07/15/2012
Contributor: Zandrock Zandrock
I like punishment. So yes I occasionally try and get in trouble
07/15/2012
Contributor: Falsepast Falsepast
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Originally posted by Sir
I hate it when submissives do this. It's called "topping from the bottom," because the submissive then has control over the situation.
XD I don't know why but that phrase makes me laugh.
07/15/2012
Contributor: Voluptuous Vamp Voluptuous Vamp
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Originally posted by P'Gell
I think it's self explanatory.
Tee-hee, I can be a very cheeky sub sometimes, not during play but before and after and that usually gets me into trouble *grins*
07/17/2012
Contributor: little miss kinky little miss kinky
I just have a smart mouth
07/17/2012
Contributor: TheirPet TheirPet
I tend to be a bratty sub, less so now than how I used to be.
07/18/2012
Contributor: itismedi itismedi
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Originally posted by P'Gell
I think it's self explanatory.
PGell,
Like yours, ours is primarily a D/s bedroom relationship, but over time it has trickled. He works, I am in school so I do all the housework, yardwork, fix his lunches, etc...I would be mortified if he came home and the house was trashed or he needed a uniform (he is a paramedic) and they were all dirty, etc... I pay the bills, but again it is with the money he makes.

As far as pushing his buttons, I am not above asking if he will spank me or "fuck me", etc... It usually means more than usual because he will point out that you should be careful what you wish for, but I am not one to complain LOL.

We will also role play from time to time so if I am in need of some attention, so to speak, I will send him a text admitting so some imaginary indiscretion..."Sir, you know that huge proposal that I was suppose to have out by five yesterday? I am so sorry, but I was in a hurry to get off and go to the club with my friends that I forgot. I really am sorry. I came in early to try and get them to take it, but they said I was too late"...Something along those lines. He will reply with instructions, such as what he wants me wearing (or not wearing), how he wants me positioned (bent over something with my skirt up, or on my knees with my hands behind my back, etc...)and I am usually running around trying to get all the stuff done before he wallks in the door wondering what I was thinking. LOL

You are right, there are so many different relationships! It is fun reading everyone's input.
08/11/2012
Contributor: Layenna Layenna
Most of the time my play is only in the bedroom, as if you didn't know me I seem like I'd never have a sub side. But no, I don't ever do anything they don't tell me to do or ask me not to. The most I've done is sneak a grope
08/11/2012
Contributor: pirata pirata
i do stuff all the time, but my boyfriend never responds to it lol and then he responds to things i didn't think were bad xD
08/11/2012