Subs! Do you ever intentionally do things to or around your Dom to "get in trouble?" (If you do, you know what I mean.) ;)

I enjoy being a bully, being challenging. Saying things like "Oh yea?" "That's what you think" or twisting and turning while I am tied up to try to get away. They usually get me spanked pretty hard.

I love instigating. <3
It tends to lead to more fun.

I tend to do things to see how far I can push buttons. Pretty much so testing the waters/limits.

I'm guilty of this... I'm a switch but my partner is full on Dom so when I'm in the mood to top I occasionally act out. He always puts me right back in my place when I'm like this.

Admittedly, I have acted badly to get attention. Even the punishments he gives are enough sometimes. He gets so busy and (even though I know I shouldn't) I'll misbehave just to force his attention back to me.

I am guilty of misbehaving...

I try my best to make sure my Mistress is always pleased with me.

I do sometimes, its fun.

I go through phases. If I'm PMSing, I can be vindictive and bratty. I won't take care of house work whatsoever, or I'll say something completely rude. Sometimes I'll grab one of our impact toys and smack my partner, which ALWAYS leads to trouble.

We are dabbling in lifestyle D/s, and for instance once when I accused him of cheating on me (he had boxers lying in the backseat of the car and was late coming home--the story has a happy ending and it was just a bizarre fluke), and he threw me on the bed, grabbed a wooden spoon (hefty one!) and went to town on my poor ass. He did say he loved me the whole while, and that it hurt him that I never seemed to trust him.

It worked well. Sometimes I do act like a brat on purpose, and get punished accordingly. Other times, I don't mean to be insolent, but something rude slips out of my mouth.

As a masochist I do this. I do this a lot. We call them SAMs which stands for Smart-Assed Masochists. They are...somewhat of an acquired taste I suppose. Maybe not acquired, but it's not everyone's cup of tea. Sadists handle it well, doms can be hit and miss. But I don't identify as a sub per say, so maybe I'm not a relevant voter.

Sometimes I'm a brat, but only until put in my place, and only when I get in the mood to be. I just tease. I don't know why, but the more I like you, the more I have to aggravate you.

Once I'm put in my place though, I will be good... promise!

I don't get any pleasure out of the "punishment" that comes with being bratty, so I don't do it.

Update: still working details out with my Master. He's in Britain and I'm in the US, and we won't really know until we meet in May.

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I dont have a lot of experience with a dom/sub relationship, but I dont think I could take it beyond the sexual aspect. Real life things I am a control freak. I have to be in charge of everything in my house. Sex though its a completely different story with me. I get moments when I want to take charge, but I really want someone who dominates in the bedroom.

Only in fun

The D/s aspect of our relationship is our "play". We tease or pick at each other from sun up til sun down. Some people might think I am being a brat, but we are both Leo's. We both demand attention equally and when we feel like we are not getting it, from the outside looking in, I am sure it probably looks worse than we intend. We nit-pick each other. We smack each other on the ass or grab each other everytime we walk past one another. We doubt each others abilities and sometime stoop to name calling - that is how we tease and most of the time, it is all in play.

When we are having rough sex and he's being dominate he will bring up all those times I was bratty and he will indeed "punish" me for it (spankings, tying me down, all the things I like, and whatever else he can think of). He counts and he remembers all the times I was pushy and trying to assert my dominance. I love it that he remembers all that stuff. It tells me that he is listening at least some of the time.

This is not something we do in public however, we would never want someone looking in on our relationship and thinking we were being disrespectful toward each other. Don't get me wrong, there are times when he just pisses me off (and vice versa) and I will lose my head.

I'd never do anything intentionally to get in trouble. My guy is serious about it when I'm in trouble. If he's in a good mood I may tease a bit, but as soon as he asserts control I'm 100% his. And only veeery light teasing, just to show I'm in the mood.

My Sir is really tolerant of my being a bit of a bratty sub. I can be mouthy, provided I am amusing him. (For example, referring to him as 'Sir Bite-y McFangypants' is not amusing to anyone but me, apparently, and ended in not fun pain. ) But for the most part, I don't try to be deliberately antagonistic for the sake of getting punished. If I want pain, I ask for it nicely and am usually obliged.

It's completely unintentional, but I can be quite the brat & even a bit of a SAM. Luckily, I tend to gravitate towards Doms who enjoy that kind of sub. My current Dom loves it, though of course, there are certain lines, and if I cross them, I know it, & I know the outcome won't be pretty.