Topping from the bottom

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Topping from the bottom

Aesenthia Aesenthia
My boyfriend and I try to keep the lines of communication open so that he is always aware of what I need and I am aware of what he needs. Often times I feel like I am being too demanding as a Sub. I tell him "I'd really like you to use your fingers on me" or "you need to tie me up more often."

He's new to the whole Dom/sub dynamic so I want to tell him the things I want/need, but I don't want to be 'topping from the bottom'. Is there a good balance between the two?
10/07/2014
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Originally posted by Aesenthia
My boyfriend and I try to keep the lines of communication open so that he is always aware of what I need and I am aware of what he needs. Often times I feel like I am being too demanding as a Sub. I tell him "I'd really like you to use your ...
The fact you communicating to him is a good thing, if you discuss during negotiation then you both can get what you want with out him feeling he's toping from the bottom.
02/10/2015
Salesstar987 Salesstar987
I've topped from the bottom before. It was quite an experience.
Aug 8, 8:44 pm
Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
I can sympathize - a reluctant D seems to need encouragement. My wife is always worried about hurting me - so when she amps up the strength of her paddle or crop, I'm sure to make plenty of noise about how much I like it.

As with our whole relationship - I have to guide her - but also have to respect her limits. I know that over time I can expand those limits - the good news is that gets easier because she realizes that it's her orgasms that matter most. Nothing like multiple orgasms to motivate a reluctant woman!
Aug 11, 4:27 pm
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