What age were you when you first engaged in BDSM with a partner?

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What age were you when you first engaged in BDSM with a partner?

LavenderSkies LavenderSkies
Title asks it all! When was your first bdsm "session" with somebody else? Who initiated it?
04/07/2012
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unfulfilled unfulfilled
I wouldn't consider my sessions to be BDSM sessions, but I started experimenting with restraints and spankings at 30.
04/07/2012
Ghost Ghost
15. I've since given it up.
04/07/2012
humblepie humblepie
16! It took some trial and error but in a few months we'd found things that worked for both of us.
04/07/2012
underHim underHim
It was mutual, I think he was interested but was waiting for me to vocalize my interest before doing anything about it. Handcuffs before I was 18, more serious restraints maybe around 19 and everything else just followed.
04/07/2012
gsfanatic gsfanatic
18. I initiated, but she was willing to try it and fell in love with it quickly.
04/18/2012
catsin catsin
Quote:
Originally posted by LavenderSkies
Title asks it all! When was your first bdsm "session" with somebody else? Who initiated it?
Lol, funny story.

I was 18 and living in the dorms. My traditional values chinese roommate walked in the room with me tied and gagged---I had forgotten to put the classic sock on the door knob. Whoops It was mutual interest that spurred the occasion for me and my mate.
04/18/2012
Chilipepper Chilipepper
Thirty-three ... yeah, not too long ago. Had an idea I was a sub, but never mentioned it. Master and I met on an online dating site (his screen name was 'knotty_or_nice'), eventually it got to the point of long-distance D/s. When we did meet in person (two months into the relationship), it was very mild acting out since we were still getting to know each other.
04/18/2012
Phantom2291 Phantom2291
Quote:
Originally posted by LavenderSkies
Title asks it all! When was your first bdsm "session" with somebody else? Who initiated it?
21, I initiated it
08/05/2012
novanilla novanilla
18, and I can't remember exactly, but I think it was sort of mutual.
08/06/2012
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Unique posters: 10