What do you wish you knew?

Contributor: TheSinDoll TheSinDoll
I believe that EF has a varied range when it comes to the basic knowledge of kink. Here's where I believe that educating others is a great way to get people on the right path, or at least save them from a bad one.

So, what's some of the things that you WISH that you could have known, that someone would have told you when you were brand new, out of the kink gate?
02/16/2012
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Contributor: SmutGeek SmutGeek
Hmm probably a lot of things.

I guess that some of my fetishes were more common than I thought like furries and age play. When I first started looking into those I had no idea what to look for and came across some very scary sites that had nothing to do with furries...way too many bestiality sites >.<

Also I wish I had had a guide to online Doms. Looking back I was very lucky I was never physically hurt or even killed as I wasn't very careful about my information or checking out people I talked to online at the time and the guys I spoke to weren't exactly angels.

So yea...those are the main things. I'm sure there's more but thats what came to mind first.
02/16/2012
Contributor: Mistress Jezebel Mistress Jezebel
Too not knock people's kinks, even if they were something that I was disgusted by because EVERYONE has a fetish that could be considered gross or disgusting by someone else no matter how innocent it is.

I was very naive when I first entered the kink world.
02/17/2012
Contributor: TheSinDoll TheSinDoll
These are good answers, Keep 'em coming. If y'all have websites that have helped you in the past, feel free to post them here too. I'm sure it will help some of the kinky newbies.
02/17/2012