What got you into kink?

Roz W Roz W
Some kinksters start participating in BDSM because of a specific kink, act, or fetish. (For example, I've seen a lot of BDSM 'scene' people whose primary 'thing' is rope bondage.) What got you into it (or was it someone)? Multiple choices including "other," if you care to elaborate
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Total votes: 24 (17 voters)
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Feb 18, 7:28 pm
LusciousLollypop LusciousLollypop
My boyfriend in college got me into BDSM. We started slow, some spanking here, some flogging there. I guess I just got more extreme after that. And it has been BDSM all the way since then. I like it rough.
Feb 18, 7:37 pm
punkstar283 punkstar283
My partner is into it
Feb 18, 7:46 pm
BlooJay BlooJay
My girlfriend likes a little flogging.
Feb 19, 12:46 am
LavenderSkies LavenderSkies
Quote:
Originally posted by Roz W
Some kinksters start participating in BDSM because of a specific kink, act, or fetish. (For example, I've seen a lot of BDSM 'scene' people whose primary 'thing' is rope bondage.) What got you into it (or was it someone)? Multiple choices including ... More
I've always felt submissive
Feb 19, 2:49 am
bayosgirl bayosgirl
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Originally posted by LavenderSkies
I've always felt submissive
Same here.
Feb 19, 3:02 am
mistre$$ mistre$$
Just sort of felling into it. Worked out really well with one of my ex's, then jsut progressed from there. I am naturally dominant, often.
Feb 20, 2:59 pm
Kayla&JJ Kayla&JJ
I always had a thing for handcuffs. I don't even remember when that started. I think that kind of kicked off kink for me, but I think another big part of it was that my fiance just randomly spanked me once while we were making out. It was amazing.
Feb 20, 5:04 pm
spineyogurt spineyogurt
I was born this way!
Feb 20, 9:29 pm
dks210 dks210
My boyfriend introduced me to light bondage, and I've enjoyed it ever since. :]
Feb 22, 11:25 pm
RemusHalifax RemusHalifax
I probably first discovered BDSM through reading fanfics. I was a bit of a sheltered child before I figured out there was porn and smut on the internet.
Feb 24, 12:57 pm
KyotoAngel KyotoAngel
DiD, pretty much every Disney movie I saw as a child had the princess or main female character all helpless and in peril at some point so I got curious and decided to try it. I tie my ankles up and pretend that some handsome prince would come and rescue me from the imaginary bad guy.
I never had siblings so I grew up with a lot of imaginary friends.
Feb 24, 4:51 pm
TheSinDoll TheSinDoll
I've always had submissive desires (I won't say tendencies - because I'm very dominant in most every area of my life).

I can remember being in kindergarten and enjoying playing the "locked up princess" who was stuck in a cage. I would just sit there in that wooden "cage-like" piece of play equipment begging for the boys to "let me out".

Another one was running from the boys and letting them tackle me and struggling to get away. That was always fun, getting captured and whatnot.

Even in my teens, I enjoyed make-out sessions that were rougher - more cat and mouse, hold me down, etc. I *liked* aggressive boys.

Later on - I liked older, more aggressive men.

It wasn't until my early 20's that I discovered the term "BDSM" and that there were other people out there who enjoyed REAL activities that made sense and that these fantasies weren't just made up in my head.

It was like a light switch being turned on inside my head.
I haven't turned back since.
Feb 24, 5:46 pm
CoffeeCup CoffeeCup
I dunno... for some reason it always seemed "normal" to me. *shrug*
Feb 24, 8:27 pm
kawigrl kawigrl
interesting poll
Feb 24, 8:36 pm
Total posts: 15
Unique posters: 15