What got you into kink?

Contributor: pirata pirata
I put spanking and a partner because I pretty much went into kink as soon as I got a boyfriend and realized I liked biting and being held down and the spanking is fun.
07/02/2012
Contributor: Heatherbipoly Heatherbipoly
i got my bf into it
07/03/2012
Contributor: unfulfilled unfulfilled
Restraints!
07/03/2012
Contributor: SubmissiveFeminist SubmissiveFeminist
An event I attended in NJ years ago, Wicked Faire. Great stuff!
07/04/2012
Contributor: MrPink MrPink
Other: I have mild nerve damage making giving me reduced sensation across my body. I barely feel most cuts and heat needs to be extreme. In order for me to get anything out of sex I need a lot of pain or other mind-games so bondage gear just works for me. I enjoy being gentle with others but really need them to hurt me to have any fun.
07/04/2012
Contributor: MissLoren MissLoren
when i was 14 i got a pair of handcuffs and that was that
07/06/2012
Contributor: RomanticGoth RomanticGoth
I've always had submissive tendencies. I dreamed about finding the right man to own me and treat me like a spoiled pet kitten for as long as I can remember. I do have a more dominant side the comes out around sissy boys.
07/06/2012
Contributor: HippieFeet HippieFeet
I feel like for as long as I've been exploring my sexuality, I've just known
07/07/2012
Contributor: Eugler Eugler
I have known that I am kinky since being in kindergarten. Once I saw a tied woman in a Mickey Mouse Comic and I loved it. I couldn't resist looking at the picture over and over again.

I have fantasized being tied up for that time.
11/26/2012
Contributor: ginnyluvspotter ginnyluvspotter
This has always been my boyfriends thing and I'm just getting into it for the 1st time but it is a lot of fun.
11/26/2012
Contributor: linnlinn linnlinn
Quote:
Originally posted by Roz W
Some kinksters start participating in BDSM because of a specific kink, act, or fetish. (For example, I've seen a lot of BDSM 'scene' people whose primary 'thing' is rope bondage.) What got you into it (or was it someone)? Multiple ... more
I got into it as a result of a bad poly breakup where I just needed answers on why it didn't quite work out for me. Bdsm has brought me a great deal of peace, healing and even closure from a bad situation.
11/27/2012
Contributor: Aishiteru Aishiteru
A partner and some of my friends were into BDSM.
11/27/2012
Contributor: nosrslylol nosrslylol
The idea of roleplaying and mental dom/submissive stuff... I don't know. It wasn't the idea of being bound, or anything like that.
11/29/2012
Contributor: Mrs.Tee Mrs.Tee
Quote:
Originally posted by Roz W
Some kinksters start participating in BDSM because of a specific kink, act, or fetish. (For example, I've seen a lot of BDSM 'scene' people whose primary 'thing' is rope bondage.) What got you into it (or was it someone)? Multiple ... more
not really into all that
11/29/2012
Contributor: tami tami
Quote:
Originally posted by Roz W
Some kinksters start participating in BDSM because of a specific kink, act, or fetish. (For example, I've seen a lot of BDSM 'scene' people whose primary 'thing' is rope bondage.) What got you into it (or was it someone)? Multiple ... more
hand cuffs got it all started for us
05/21/2013
Contributor: ArcaneBlast ArcaneBlast
My friends and I use to put each other in chokeholds, and I got addicted to the adrenaline
05/24/2013
Contributor: lilswitch lilswitch
I'm one of those people that think that they were born kinky and I would have turned out this way no matter what. Reading porn helped though.
05/26/2013