What is you favorite safe word?

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What is you favorite safe word?

FruityCloudPuff FruityCloudPuff
Sometimes bondage and dominating someone can get a little rough, out of curiosity, what type safe words do most of you use?
Since the poll only has categories, comment below with your word if you'd like, or ideas of words you think would be good safe words!
(Good safe words are words that one would likely not say during sex role play)
Answers (public voting - your screen name will appear in the results):
I haven't thought of one yet
BobbiJay , DreamWolf , Stagger13 , darthkitt3n , Jon S , Hadespark , Girly Girl , tom fay , sneako , TrophyWife , TheGreat , sktb0007 , dks210 , Vanille , Fleurs Violettes , Tangles , HannahPanda , megan1987 , Sex Positivity , Mew , xxjoel , Waterlily , MistressDandelion , jennifur77 , little miss kinky , collifornia , sweetpea12 , ghent529 , unfulfilled , friendswithfangs , cricket , MissBre , Pinkshirt , AshMegYo , HusbandandWife , PeachCandy , Mrs.Intensity , jjdd , Incendiaire , bh253
40  (47%)
A type of food
FruityCloudPuff , DiamondKoala , Heatherbipoly , SexysaurousRex , MrGoodTool , PolyLove , Amelia Stone , hall5885 , WildDreamer , Collogue , All His , Mitzuki , humpday , Lavendar , Bethy Cassatt , Ashley B , g- , SecretKinksters
18  (21%)
A type of animal
Interesante , Mwar , blixa , reinkaos , keka3 , JackRaiden , SubmissiveFeminist
7  (8%)
A type of object
finnimbrun , GoneBabyGone , tern , LavenderSkies , pokefan15 , padmeamidala , Gone (LD29) , starryeyedangel , KinkyKatiya , quantumspork , Modern^Spank^Anthem , Boyqueen , TheirPet
13  (15%)
I say "Stop" in another language
Loriandhubby , pestilence , MeliPixie , Airen Wolf , TransMarc , Bignuf , Nacht Stern
7  (8%)
I make a series of noises
SadoMas
1  (1%)
Total votes: 86
Poll is closed
03/05/2012
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GoneBabyGone GoneBabyGone
I said a type of object but that isn't exactly accurate. We use the common color code system. Like a stoplight: if we say yellow it means we really need them to ease up, but we don't want to stop yet. If we say red it means we can't take anymore.

Neither of us have really needed to use either word.
03/05/2012
FruityCloudPuff FruityCloudPuff
Quote:
Originally posted by GoneBabyGone
I said a type of object but that isn't exactly accurate. We use the common color code system. Like a stoplight: if we say yellow it means we really need them to ease up, but we don't want to stop yet. If we say red it means we can't take ...
That's really smart. I like that! :]
03/06/2012
Taylor Taylor
I usually say something along the lines of "I can't take it" or "you're hurting me" I feel like a special word just complicates things for me. We've used them before, but when things get intense I tend to forget to use them.
03/06/2012
Interesante Interesante
Capybara
03/06/2012
Roz W Roz W
I like red/yellow because they vary by degree. I know someone who added "orange" for "I need to stop this activity, but I don't want to end the scene."
03/07/2012
FruityCloudPuff FruityCloudPuff
Quote:
Originally posted by Taylor
I usually say something along the lines of "I can't take it" or "you're hurting me" I feel like a special word just complicates things for me. We've used them before, but when things get intense I tend to forget to use them.
Ah, that wouldn't work for a lot of people (especially me) because of dominating role play scenes where "Stop" normally gets a "Be quiet".
But, I'm glad it works for you. :]
03/07/2012
FruityCloudPuff FruityCloudPuff
Quote:
Originally posted by Interesante
Capybara
That'll definitely never come up during sex.
I like it!
03/07/2012
tern tern
Wasn't sure quite which to pick... our safe word right now is "Darth Vader". It used to be "Tennis", but I kept forgetting it for whatever reason.

The new one came about after watching the Phantom Menace together one night and dissolving into a fit of raunchy Star Wars jokes...
03/09/2012
LavenderSkies LavenderSkies
Quote:
Originally posted by GoneBabyGone
I said a type of object but that isn't exactly accurate. We use the common color code system. Like a stoplight: if we say yellow it means we really need them to ease up, but we don't want to stop yet. If we say red it means we can't take ...
Ditto.
03/10/2012
FruityCloudPuff FruityCloudPuff
Quote:
Originally posted by tern
Wasn't sure quite which to pick... our safe word right now is "Darth Vader". It used to be "Tennis", but I kept forgetting it for whatever reason.

The new one came about after watching the Phantom Menace together one ...
Definitely unique. :]
03/10/2012
Ciao. Ciao.
Cacao...
03/10/2012
DiamondKoala DiamondKoala
Had a friend who used to shout, "apple sauce!" all the time. Unfortunately they never agreed it was a safe word. Luckily it was just because cuffs were too tight.
03/15/2012
Girly Girl Girly Girl
i really don´t say words
03/15/2012
tom fay tom fay
maybe chicken
03/15/2012
tom fay tom fay
seems a bit simplistic, oh well
03/15/2012
Mwar Mwar
Ours is Bumblebee
03/22/2012
TheSinDoll TheSinDoll
I stick to the regular - yellow & red.
03/22/2012
MeliPixie MeliPixie
I voted "I say stop in another language," but it's not really another language, just nothing I would ask for: My safe word is "Mercy." I would never really ask for mercy, which is why an alarm would go off if I ever did say it.
03/22/2012
FruityCloudPuff FruityCloudPuff
Quote:
Originally posted by tom fay
maybe chicken
Tehehe. That could definitely work. xD
03/22/2012
FruityCloudPuff FruityCloudPuff
Quote:
Originally posted by Mwar
Ours is Bumblebee
Awww, cute!
03/22/2012
FruityCloudPuff FruityCloudPuff
Quote:
Originally posted by TheSinDoll
I stick to the regular - yellow & red.
I still need to try that, it really sounds like a good idea.
03/22/2012
FruityCloudPuff FruityCloudPuff
Quote:
Originally posted by MeliPixie
I voted "I say stop in another language," but it's not really another language, just nothing I would ask for: My safe word is "Mercy." I would never really ask for mercy, which is why an alarm would go off if I ever did say it.
I should have put an "other" down, my apologies.
03/22/2012
FruityCloudPuff FruityCloudPuff
Quote:
Originally posted by DiamondKoala
Had a friend who used to shout, "apple sauce!" all the time. Unfortunately they never agreed it was a safe word. Luckily it was just because cuffs were too tight.
*chuckles* That's amusing. :p
03/22/2012
Heatherbipoly Heatherbipoly
bannana...like on family guy...lol
03/23/2012
blixa blixa
"Wendigo", though "mercy" sounds like an awesome idea.
03/23/2012
dks210 dks210
I haven't used a safe word, but "lawsuit" would be pretty convincing. lol
03/23/2012
Vanille Vanille
We haven't come up with one yet, but we will once we're together in person. :3
03/23/2012
FruityCloudPuff FruityCloudPuff
Quote:
Originally posted by dks210
I haven't used a safe word, but "lawsuit" would be pretty convincing. lol
That'd be amusing.
03/26/2012
Gone (LD29) Gone (LD29)
Haven't needed one in some time, but it used to be "doorbuzzer". We were in an apartment where the buzzer was kind of hard to hear, and people would end up ringing it quite a bit. It was just as likely I was telling him someone was at the door as I was trying to stop for other reasons!
03/26/2012
Total posts: 97
Unique posters: 69