What positions do you prefer your sub/bottom to be in during impact play (spanking, caning, etc?) Subs/bottoms, answer what position you prefer to be in. :)

Red Vinyl Kitty Red Vinyl Kitty
I was just thinking about this the other day, for those of you who enjoy impact play with your kink, how do you like to give or recieve that play? For me, it depends on what is being "hit". If we're doing spanking, I almost always prefer being bent over Master's knee, or laying down. If it's another part of the body like my tits or clit, I like laying down or kneeling. What about you?
Answers (public voting - your screen name will appear in the results):
Standing up
Sammi , Darkness Withinus , Blinker , alayamae , Sir , MastersXKittenXSlave , Carrie Ann , Persephone Nightmare , Tart , sissyramie , lucymalfoy , Redboxbaby , Angel deSanguine , IrishLassie , LavenderSkies , RammaJamma , Daniel & Brittany , Brandi Rouxxx , Kitka , Ivy Wilde , harryboy1967 , AndroAngel , Talena
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Bent over
Sammi , 00 , Miss B Haven , Darkness Withinus , Blinker , Alura Une , alayamae , Sir , Hannah Savage , MastersXKittenXSlave , Kayla , clp , Madeira , Trashley , Apinkjellybean04 , DeliciousSurprise , Persephone Nightmare , lunapixie , Shiloh , Pixel , gothikstars , Raggedy Andie , Tart , SexyTabby , Batty Harlot , KnK , Mistress Kitty , lucymalfoy , dv8 , Miss Madeline , AussieSarah , Angel deSanguine , pinkcupcakes , *Huxley* , IrishLassie , LavenderSkies , Happy Camper , Collodion , RammaJamma , Dame , MaryExy , girl next door , miamortis , Daniel & Brittany , cobiffle , Sohotdinosaur , The Curious Couple , Lio , Brandi Rouxxx , potstickers , newfoundlust , Elnoa , kendra30752 , Ava5 , AmberM , collette777 , Girly Girl , Hibangel , sissymorwen , sktb0007 , Kitka , Equinegoddess3 , harryboy1967 , Amber88 , GoneBabyGone , CAKES , Jroc , biancajames , AndroAngel , Princess-Kayla ♥ , TheHardOne , SMichelle , Ms. N , humblepie , pirata , Heatherbipoly , pokefan15 , PropertyOfPotter , gsfanatic , Talena , Strider
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Kneeling
Red Vinyl Kitty , Sammi , Blinker , alayamae , Sir , sugarOne , Calis666 , Madeira , Persephone Nightmare , DustBunny , gothikstars , Raggedy Andie , SexyTabby , Batty Harlot , MeliPixie , AussieSarah , Angel deSanguine , LavenderSkies , RammaJamma , Brandi Rouxxx , Sex'и'Violence , Vanessa Weiss , ijako9 , Hibangel , Kitka , harryboy1967 , (k)InkyIvy , AndroAngel , Princess-Kayla ♥ , Th8405 , humblepie , pirata , Heatherbipoly , PropertyOfPotter , gsfanatic , Talena , Strider
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Laying down
Red Vinyl Kitty , Sammi , 00 , Miss B Haven , deltalima , Alura Une , alayamae , Hannah Savage , MastersXKittenXSlave , Madeira , Trashley , Carrie Ann , Apinkjellybean04 , DeliciousSurprise , Persephone Nightmare , Raggedy Andie , Midway through , KnK , Mistress Kitty , lucymalfoy , Redboxbaby , Angel deSanguine , pinkcupcakes , IrishLassie , TheSinDoll , Collodion , (Re)tired Stripper , MaryExy , miamortis , Daniel & Brittany , Lio , Brandi Rouxxx , newfoundlust , Sex'и'Violence , Vanessa Weiss , BlackxxxRose , AmberM , Kitka , Collogue , 12345678 , harryboy1967 , GoneBabyGone , AndroAngel , solita , planetrees , Chami , Missmarc , solitudinarian , SMichelle , elli , humblepie , Heatherbipoly , Talena , Strider , karenm
55
Over the knee
Red Vinyl Kitty , 00 , bend over hottie , Darkness Withinus , Airen Wolf , Blinker , deltalima , PrincessKrissy , Sir , Hannah Savage , MastersXKittenXSlave , clp , Madeira , Trashley , DeliciousSurprise , Blow Baby , Persephone Nightmare , lunapixie , Pixel , gothikstars , Raggedy Andie , SexyTabby , Mistress Kitty , lucymalfoy , Lady Marmelade , Miss Madeline , Angel deSanguine , pinkcupcakes , IrishLassie , LavenderSkies , Happy Camper , CSEA , Armsjlove , (Re)tired Stripper , Taylor , Enchantedkitty , queertastic , MaryExy , ellejay , miamortis , The Curious Couple , k3 , Lio , CoffeeCup , newfoundlust , Elnoa , moose1120 , misslibralover , Ava5 , AmberM , sissymorwen , FemmeFlo , Kitka , harryboy1967 , KyotoAngel , AndroAngel , TheHardOne , solitudinarian , SMichelle , elli , humblepie , pirata , Heatherbipoly , gsfanatic , Talena , padmeamidala , Strider
67
Other
KnK , sbon , TboyTy , sexyk515 , mistre$$ , Miss Morphine , harryboy1967 , (k)InkyIvy , Melan!e , Masokisti , AndroAngel , Siekarr , Heatherbipoly , Talena
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Total votes: 277 (135 voters)
Poll is closed
07/27/2010
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Blinker Blinker
Gah!I couldn't pick just one. My owner always has me over his knees, or on my knees. It's damn near perfect
08/10/2010
alayamae alayamae
Quote:
Originally posted by Blinker
Gah!I couldn't pick just one. My owner always has me over his knees, or on my knees. It's damn near perfect
i couldn't pick one either!!!
08/24/2010
P'Gell P'Gell
Hmmm. No choice for suspension?
08/26/2010
Sir Sir
Over my lap, kneeling, standing up, or bent over are all good ways. My favorites, though, are bent over my lap or kneeling. Standing up is only done if the wrists are suspended - it's not something that I engage in often, but I do like it. Standing and kneeling are my two interrogation positions, they're the ones that I like most for that.

It's almost the same as you though, Kitty - the position depends greatly on the area that I feel like hitting and the reason for the impact play. Over my lap is the most loving impact play, but the others are usually for punishment or to please my more sadistic urges.

P'Gell: That's exactly what I was thinking!
08/26/2010
Kayla Kayla
We prefer bent-over positions as to standing up ones since the boyfriend is a tad bit bony and hitting him anywhere but his butt can cause unneeded hurt because there isn't any padding. If we had a spanking bench, I'd be in heaven.
08/28/2010
sugarOne sugarOne
I always enjoy kneeling in the presence of Master, even when I am getting spanked.
08/29/2010
Calis666 Calis666
Quote:
Originally posted by Red Vinyl Kitty
I was just thinking about this the other day, for those of you who enjoy impact play with your kink, how do you like to give or recieve that play? For me, it depends on what is being "hit". If we're doing spanking, I almost always ... More
Yeeah, get on your knees!
That's real submission.
08/30/2010
clp clp
Quote:
Originally posted by Calis666
Yeeah, get on your knees!
That's real submission.
'Real submission'?

I prefer over the knee, myself. Leaving the bits open for exploring!
08/30/2010
Trashley Trashley
Quote:
Originally posted by clp
'Real submission'?

I prefer over the knee, myself. Leaving the bits open for exploring!
Yes yes yes! This ^^^
09/21/2010
Shiloh Shiloh
My dom doesn't really spank me, hand or paddle, but he does use a whip. He likes to bend me over and chain me to this big concrete block he has in the basement. I lay face down with my arms shackled above my head. The block is really tall so when my legs hang down they don't touch the floor.
10/17/2010
Naughty Student Naughty Student
I like being on my back and lifting my legs perpandicular and having him slap under my thighs and the bum in that fashion.

I also like it when we I am on my knees. But honestly I think my partner has no preference, he loves it all
11/04/2010
Midway through Midway through
I make my subs lay down usually, so I picked that option. I haven't had any sub tell me a preference really.
11/04/2010
Tart Tart
I am often bent over a kneeling bench or standing with my wrists bound suspended above my head. I think I enjoy standing more, my Dominant can get to any part of my body that he wishes, and I love being bound.
11/04/2010
Shiloh Shiloh
Quote:
Originally posted by P'Gell
Hmmm. No choice for suspension?
Yeah, really.
11/08/2010
MeliPixie MeliPixie
I like it best on my knees, bent forward... I'm always hoping when I do that, after he spanks me a little he'll slip inside me and keep going...... I like to do the same to him too, spank, caress, spank, Feeldoe or probe!
11/20/2010
KnK KnK
I like spanking him when he's laying on his stomach or on his knees. I actually really like it when I'm tangled up with him, laying on my side and he's spanking me.
11/24/2010
sbon sbon
I put other for "all of the above."
12/13/2010
Miss Madeline Miss Madeline
Quote:
Originally posted by Red Vinyl Kitty
I was just thinking about this the other day, for those of you who enjoy impact play with your kink, how do you like to give or recieve that play? For me, it depends on what is being "hit". If we're doing spanking, I almost always ... More
I love anything over the knee, but especially spanking and paddling in that position! Then there is bent over, my preference is bent over my desk, interrupted during an intense homework or work session. Nothing takes your mind away from homework like a good caning or flogging.
02/02/2011
TboyTy TboyTy
Quote:
Originally posted by P'Gell
Hmmm. No choice for suspension?
I agree!
02/03/2011
IrishLassie IrishLassie
I picked them all but kneeling. My husband likes it all. However recently its been me on all fours on the bed or laying down.
03/07/2011
LavenderSkies LavenderSkies
Quote:
Originally posted by Red Vinyl Kitty
I was just thinking about this the other day, for those of you who enjoy impact play with your kink, how do you like to give or recieve that play? For me, it depends on what is being "hit". If we're doing spanking, I almost always ... More
All of the above
03/08/2011
TheSinDoll TheSinDoll
I really love to be laying down so that I can fully 'float off' into sub space and not worry about falling over...lol.
03/08/2011
Collodion Collodion
I tend to fall into the "laying down" category, but that's mainly because (for me) impact play comes in as an interlude during penetrative sex. So it's like: pull out, flip me over, spanking/flogging/padd ling, flip back over, resume sexin. *laughs*

When I'm bottoming for spankings, I prefer to be bent over the knee; when bottoming for paddlings, though, I have a preference for standing and bending over to support myself on something. I guess the different positions change the sensations and experience to a degree...but I can really be quite adaptable when it comes to the position. *grin*
03/09/2011
RammaJamma RammaJamma
I like being put in a wide variety of positions, my favorites always force me to concentrate or are very restrictive and confined feeling.
03/12/2011
(Re)tired Stripper (Re)tired Stripper
I enjoy the disciplinary, constricting feeling of OTK. For some impact implements, that's just not possible, in which case lying down is great.

Standing is distracting for me, as is being bent over (hurts my neck eventually).

But really, it's up to my partner Sometimes he's nice, sometimes he's not...
03/14/2011
queertastic queertastic
Depending on what body part is being spanked it depends on the position that I'm in. Laying down is also an okay position but I enjoy the intimate feeling of an OTK spanking. I like the ability for my partner to hold me as I float off into "sub space" so OTK tends to work well for that. =)
04/03/2011
MaryExy MaryExy
OTK is all intimate and fits well with our Daddy/girl dynamic. Bent over has a similar feel, but has some advantages. Laying down would be more relaxed. Standing and kneeling I'm just not sure about...
04/03/2011
sexyk515 sexyk515
Bent over
04/03/2011
miamortis miamortis
i like bent, laying down, or over the knee, i dont like impact on my back so its bottoms up for me.
04/05/2011
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