What was your 1st BDSM toy?

Contributor: rdytogo rdytogo
Wrist cuffs. Ankle cuffs followed shortly after that.
01/06/2011
Contributor: Mr. & Mrs. Peg Mr. & Mrs. Peg
I made a bunch of paddles and floggers for our own use before buying anything in that category. The first purchased BDSM toy was tweezer style nipple clamps.
01/08/2011
Contributor: Gallowraven Gallowraven
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Originally posted by StrawberryEve
I'm very curious as to what everyone else started out with, because my own first toy came to me in a rather amusing way.
my first was furry hand cuffs. purple leopard print, lol. I found them to be mostly useless, and very uncomfortable. so I started looking into ropes and straps with cuffs that were made of a sturdy but more comfortable material.
01/10/2011
Contributor: DuchessFaye DuchessFaye
Quote:
Originally posted by StrawberryEve
I'm very curious as to what everyone else started out with, because my own first toy came to me in a rather amusing way.
My first BDSM toy was a straitjacket!! My boyfriend enjoys being very accurate for Halloween and one year before he met me he dressed as a mental patient. Known for going all out, he decided to buy a medical grade straitjacket.... After he learned that I was into BDSM he decided to test the waters and try putting me in it. I didn't really take much convincing. I love that thing. While it used to be used primarily for dominance play, it's not more like my security blanket, and a reward. If I've been a good girl, I'm allowed to snuggle up to him in my jacket and fall asleep against him. It's far more relaxing than I ever would have imagined.
01/10/2011
Contributor: Redboxbaby Redboxbaby
Under the Bed restraints and Spartacus crop.
01/22/2011
Contributor: Xavier7 Xavier7
Quote:
Originally posted by StrawberryEve
I'm very curious as to what everyone else started out with, because my own first toy came to me in a rather amusing way.
Mine was a collar. I've always loved collars.
01/23/2011
Contributor: TheSinDoll TheSinDoll
I bought them while on a trip to New York. I wore them off and on for a few days. I was so excited. I still have and very much love them.
01/25/2011
Contributor: Mr.Skillfu Mr.Skillfu
Mine was clothes pins nipple clamps.....oh so good
01/25/2011
Contributor: TheSinDoll TheSinDoll
Quote:
Originally posted by TheSinDoll
I bought them while on a trip to New York. I wore them off and on for a few days. I was so excited. I still have and very much love them.
Wrist cuffs, that is.
01/26/2011
Contributor: Miss T Miss T
Rope and still a fav!!
01/27/2011
Contributor: Mr. E Mr. E
Many years ago, early in our marriage, my wife attended a toy party and purchased Rachel's Play-Pak

It was actually a pretty nice starter set. Wrist, ankle and thigh restraints along with a pair of tethers. It was perfect for us at the time. We used it in every possible configuration. Good times.
01/27/2011
Contributor: Naughty Student Naughty Student
It was a light bondage kit. We don't use it much anymore, I'm thinking of getting some plushy cuffs with a paddle to rekinddle interest for my partner.
02/01/2011
Contributor: Miss Madeline Miss Madeline
Quote:
Originally posted by StrawberryEve
I'm very curious as to what everyone else started out with, because my own first toy came to me in a rather amusing way.
I guess you could consider it a paddle of sorts...

My first BDSM toy was a 5 gallon paint stirrer stick from Home Depot. I still love to be spanked with those.
02/02/2011
Contributor: Red Vinyl Kitty Red Vinyl Kitty
Oh wow. I actually have no idea! It was so long ago that I really can't remember. It was *probably* a collar or leash.
02/03/2011
Contributor: ellejay ellejay
Wrist cuffs. I'm a sucker for a pretty/strong pair of cuffs.
02/03/2011
Contributor: TboyTy TboyTy
I got an underbed restraint kit by sportsheets. They had it at Spencer's when I was about 15, I HAD to have it! And so began the trip down the twisted slippery slope
02/04/2011
Contributor: A Closet Slut (aka nipplepeople) A Closet Slut (aka nipplepeople)
It was a kit: a blindfold, cuffs and a rubber whip.
02/19/2011
Contributor: Epicurean Epicurean
Plain ol' handcuffs.
02/19/2011
Contributor: IrishLassie IrishLassie
The 1st thing we got was wrist cuffs that connected to a leather collar. We recentely just bought our 1st crop.
02/19/2011
Contributor: BadassFatass BadassFatass
My first was handcuffs...seems like forever ago, haha.
02/19/2011
Contributor: toxie m toxie m
Lame metal handcuffs were where I started out
02/20/2011
Contributor: RammaJamma RammaJamma
My first was a crop, I still love using it. After that came a collar.
02/20/2011
Contributor: kinky dude kinky dude
My first toy was a humbler with crusher attachment I was 16 and me and my best mate thought we would like to try it as it looked interesting never looked back and shes still my best mate even after some of the stuff i have been through
02/23/2011
Contributor: Scarlette Scarlette
Wrist and ankle cuffs, that tied to the bed. Escape wasnt an option, lol.
03/05/2011
Contributor: leanright69 leanright69
I made our 1st toy. It was a flogger. I formed the handle out of an erotic peice of wood that was in my father-inlaws shop. I made the handle about 8 inches long and formed it with ridges for gripping but also for sensation play if inserted. The lashes are made out of flease that is braded together. There are a total of 13 lashes one for each year of marrage. That was 12 years ago and we still break it out once and a while. Is a very cool toy, and oh so soft but oh so naughty.
03/05/2011
Contributor: Airplane Airplane
Technically, my first toy was a nylon rope from the local grocery/hardware store back in my freshman year of college. With only a debit card and a paranoia of someone seeing my purchase history, I didn't want to buy anything from a sex shop or online, Ha. It was good for practicing knots, but horrible actually put into practice (ouch!), but it was a learning experience. Tied myself to a desk and couldn't get out of it on my own, missed one of my lectures. So, safety scissors were my next purchase.

Fast forwarding a few years, my first actual BDSM toy purchase was a roll of bondage tape, which I still have fun with to this day. Disposable, versatile, and you can make outfits out of it, blindfolds, or gags, which is fun. While I can't tie any knots with it, it still gets pulled out of the toy box more often than my rope, simply because it's quicker and easier to play with in the dark, my Dom knows I like rope, but he's still learning to tie knots.
03/06/2011
Contributor: RosesThorns RosesThorns
an collar shortly followed by a rubber flogger
03/13/2011
Contributor: Anjulie Anjulie
Clothespins--a classic!
03/13/2011
Contributor: Enchantedkitty Enchantedkitty
Quote:
Originally posted by StrawberryEve
I'm very curious as to what everyone else started out with, because my own first toy came to me in a rather amusing way.
cuffs
04/02/2011
Contributor: tigerkate tigerkate
The first BDSM toy I bought for myself were the etherea silk cuffs. They aren't terribly rough and tumble though
04/02/2011