What was your 1st BDSM toy?

Contributor: tickle me pink tickle me pink
A pair of fuzzy red wrist cuffs, though we barely use them.
04/02/2011
Contributor: sexyk515 sexyk515
Wrist Cuffs
04/02/2011
Contributor: indiglo indiglo
Handcuffs were the first.
04/07/2011
Contributor: Lilgirlsunshine Lilgirlsunshine
Quote:
Originally posted by StrawberryEve
I'm very curious as to what everyone else started out with, because my own first toy came to me in a rather amusing way.
My first toy was actually a flogger that I made with the help of my then-boyfriend. It was completely for show and was never used for any actual flogging (for goodness sakes...I actually put little silver beads at the end of the falls! I can't imagine how much that would have hurt if I'd ever actually used it. LMAO).
04/22/2011
Contributor: Kitt Katt Kitt Katt
Early in my marriage, I went with my sister to a sex toy party and on a whim, I purchased a nice starter set that includes wrist, thigh, and ankle restraints. My husband was pleasantly surprised when I showed him and we still use the set today.
04/22/2011
Contributor: Ms. Paprika Ms. Paprika
Technically speaking, nylon rope. But I braided it into my first flogger.
04/23/2011
Contributor: SirTouchAlot SirTouchAlot
Mine was a wrist and ankle cuff set
04/23/2011
Contributor: Pixel Pixel
Mine was a collar my first dominant partner gifted me.
04/24/2011
Contributor: Shellz31 Shellz31
Mine was a pair of plain metal cuffs. I'm not really interested in them now - there's too many other nice ones I prefer.
04/25/2011
Contributor: ac0313 ac0313
I bought multiple items initially: flogger, velcro wrist and ankle cuffs, and rope!
04/25/2011
Contributor: Cedarlooman Cedarlooman
I just recently bought my first actual "toy". Most of them have been given to others, but I have a wrist and ankle cuff set that I will be trying out soon. About 15 years ago I would use neckties for ropes and that was the first foray into BDSM play, gradually introed some cuffs, but I still like getting out the neckties...I am a very infrequent player, but look to try some more out in the future.
04/25/2011
Contributor: sexyintexas sexyintexas
Quote:
Originally posted by StrawberryEve
I'm very curious as to what everyone else started out with, because my own first toy came to me in a rather amusing way.
First was a paddle then cuffs and it has just grown from there.
04/25/2011
Contributor: k3 k3
A collar! I have had multiple collars for long before I got any other BDSM toys. :3
04/29/2011
Contributor: Lady Marmelade Lady Marmelade
Crops, whips, blindfold and more.
04/30/2011
Contributor: Dawn (Lilac Distraction) Dawn (Lilac Distraction)
Hmm. I actually don't think I've had a "real" toy of this nature till coming here. Till now, I just improvised!
08/09/2011
Contributor: ScarlettSeraph ScarlettSeraph
My first item was a crop I guess I did have a cheap pair of fluffy cuffs before that, but they never saw any action, so they don't count, lol
08/10/2011
Contributor: Ava5 Ava5
black rope
08/12/2011
Contributor: DixieDoo DixieDoo
Clamps were my firsts.
08/14/2011
Contributor: Princess-Kayla ♥ Princess-Kayla ♥
Mine were fuzzy pink handcuffs.
08/16/2011
Contributor: Vanessa Weiss Vanessa Weiss
Quote:
Originally posted by Sir
Mm, I want to go there so badly this upcoming year.
I've lived in San Francisco for several years and still have yet to make it to Folsom Street Fair. I keep saying "maybe this year."

My first BDSM accessory was a collar. Admittedly I bought it because it was pretty and fit my gothy aesthetic but I definitely used it for "nefarious purposes."
08/17/2011
Contributor: Scott Ghost Scott Ghost
A scarf haha lots of uses.
08/19/2011
Contributor: carenautilus carenautilus
Quote:
Originally posted by StrawberryEve
My first toy came to me when I went to a Renaissance festival with a large group of friends. I was mooning over this small black leather cat-o-nine-tails style flogger, but I was out of cash. So one of my friends offered to spot me the cash. He had ... more
The two best things in the world -- kink and Ren fairs!
08/20/2011
Contributor: ToyBoy ToyBoy
Vegan jaguar cuffs
08/20/2011
Contributor: padmeamidala padmeamidala
Quote:
Originally posted by StrawberryEve
I'm very curious as to what everyone else started out with, because my own first toy came to me in a rather amusing way.
Our first bdsm toy was a crop from a store downtown Vancouver
08/24/2011
Contributor: Kake aka PoeticErotica Kake aka PoeticErotica
My first bdsm toys were all pervertables - a wooden hairbrush very similar to this one if not this exact one]; both this style and this style clothespins; toy handcuffs; a variety of sizes of binder clips; tiny hair clips; and the twisty rod from a set of blinds.

The first official bdsm toys I purchased were this fur-lined paddle; these tong-style nipple clamps; and this cheeky slapper crop.

I've loved every single one of these toys (with the exception of the rod from the blinds) and continue to use most to this day.
08/24/2011
Contributor: P'Gell P'Gell
Q: What was your 1st BDSM toy?

A: My Man's hand smacking my butt.
08/24/2011
Contributor: caligaliber caligaliber
I didnt read everyone's posts before voting but I voted for other because I bought the undermatress bed straps, but then remembered for my 18th birthday my friends bought me some fuzzy hand cuffs. Completely forgot about those before voting, lol.
08/24/2011
Contributor: Miss May Miss May
Quote:
Originally posted by StrawberryEve
I'm very curious as to what everyone else started out with, because my own first toy came to me in a rather amusing way.
Collar! And it is still my fav one! *_*
08/25/2011
Contributor: Screen Door Screen Door
A collar that my friend's older sister got me when I was 13/14.
08/25/2011
Contributor: Collogue Collogue
yay for ebay XD

they served their purpose well though! Need some sturdier things though. Maybe by an artisan instead of a company
08/31/2011