Whats your safeword :)?

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Whats your safeword :)?

pleasurehunter pleasurehunter
Sorry i dunno if this has been asked before, i'm just curious to hear all the different responses. Ours is pineapples
11/05/2011
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submissive.sweetheart submissive.sweetheart
So i don't really have a safeword since i made the transition from sub to slave. What this means for me though is that my Daddy will respect my limits and will respect if i call out red (my old safeword system was the color system), however he chooses whether or not to stop. He has never pushed me too far, and often i underestimate just how far i can go, so it's nice to know that he can read me really well and make sure i am taken care of, that i can be pushed to the breaking point and at the same time kept very safe. It also helps that all my limits are things he is not even interested in!

We are still learning as we go and finding what works and does not, but the way we feel is that if i am wanting to give myself over completely, a safeword is my holding onto some control. It is not my choice to stop, rather his, and i always trust that he will never harm me (although hurt me is another story hehe).
11/05/2011
AndroAngel AndroAngel
We use the color system, although after another thread on here, I think the best I've ever heard is "lawsuit".
11/05/2011
Toys in Love Toys in Love
We don't have one. And I for one don't want one. When I'm at her mercy, I want to be at her mercy... She's never brought it up either.
11/05/2011
sissymorwen sissymorwen
Mine is red, with a yellow warning. I have yet to have to use it, but I like that I have it just in case..

Oh, and with gags, it is three quick grunts in a row
11/05/2011
Kkay Kkay
Pizza. We also use color-code as a general check-in.
11/05/2011
Annemarie Annemarie
Hippopotamus.

My significant other and I don't participate in BDSM, but there are times when one of us wants the other to stop doing what they're doing, period. I've used it in disagreements too, to basically say, "look, you need to shut up."
11/05/2011
Vanille Vanille
Don't have one yet as we're LDR D/s, surely we'll come up with one once we're SD.
11/05/2011
pleasurehunter pleasurehunter
Interesting points for those who chose not to have a safeword, I understand where you're coming from and I might explore that eventually. Also LOL at lawsuit XD. Interesting responses thanks everyone
Btw good luck vanille, i was in a long distance relationship for a long time and now we're together, hope you enjoy SD too, moving just south SD soon over the border, great place.
11/06/2011
K101 K101
We've never needed any other word besides "stop" or "ouch" or a certain face I get when somethign's uncomfortable. For 5 years now the word "ouch" seems to work just fine. Usually I don't even have to say anything and he's able to tell quickly if I'm uncomfortable doing something. The good thing is, he's never really crossed a line and since we like the same things and trust each other sooo much, it works out well. The only times I've ever really felt uncomfortable are when I have a bad moment where I get a sort of flashback of things and he knows right away by the look on my face and we stop for a minute and go back to it. Other than that there's not been a reason for a safe word besides no or stop.
11/06/2011
Kitka Kitka
We usually go with the color system if it's needed, but our safeword if it's really necessary to use it is "toaster".

So far I haven't needed to use my safeword because we've been together for 12 years and I completely trust in Daddy. I do let him know if something feels like it's going to go numb or if he's hitting too hard, etc. He likes to have the feedback from me and it's been working for us so far.
11/06/2011
Mistress Jezebel Mistress Jezebel
Quote:
Originally posted by AndroAngel
We use the color system, although after another thread on here, I think the best I've ever heard is "lawsuit".
LOL. That's great.
11/07/2011
Pixel Pixel
*shrugs* Don't have one, and haven't felt the urge to ask my Owner for one.
11/08/2011
Kendrir Kendrir
Color system
11/12/2011
Ivy Wilde Ivy Wilde
"Avocado" because of a funny story a friend of ours told us.
11/12/2011
SomeGirl SomeGirl
My safe word was once "armadillo" but I was young at the time, and didn't really understand much about the BDSM world, and, when my first scene got too intense for me I forgot my safeword.

Now, I just stick to the color system.Easier to remember that way.
11/13/2011
BlackxxxRose BlackxxxRose
We just use yes, no, speed up and slow down. We take those seriously and don't say them in the same tone we would for any kind of roleplay. Ex, saying no in a cheesy, b-horror or bad porn way means yes. Saying no with a serious face and flat tone means stop no and no. We always discuss it beforehand to make sure we're on the same page and know what's to take place.
11/17/2011
A Woman And Her Wand A Woman And Her Wand
Ours is "pickles"
11/17/2011
Shellz31 Shellz31
With my current Master I don't have one - originally he gave me one even though it was online.
But he knows how to read me and knows what my limits are.
11/17/2011
GoneBabyGone GoneBabyGone
We usually use the color system yellow being ease up but don't stop.

Never had to use any of them. Lawsuit as a safe word made me, my partner and two friends all LOL.

I can still spit out or speak around the gags, but generally he knows by the noises I make. Or he stops and asks me if I want to keep going.
12/05/2011
shcoo shcoo
Bananapoodle.

Don't ask, lol.
12/06/2011
LavenderSkies LavenderSkies
Quote:
Originally posted by A Woman And Her Wand
Ours is "pickles"
Lol!
12/06/2011
Iron Man Iron Man
'Red light'. I'm thinking about changing mine to 'bumblebees' though.
12/12/2011
Snozzberries Snozzberries
Banana. Because you can say banana with a gag in and still be understandable. Mostly.
12/13/2011
RemusHalifax RemusHalifax
Pineapple. Or red. It depends on who's scene-ing me.
12/14/2011
llellsee llellsee
Ours is just Red.
12/14/2011
Owl Identified Owl Identified
We don't have "safe words" per se; we just use every day language and always interpret it literally. In other words, if someone says "stop" or "no more" or "I don't like this" then we interpret that literally and stop all action. I realize this doesn't work for those that play with consensual non-consent. Some may regularly say "stop" throughout play, but not mean for the word to actually indicate a desire to stop. However, for us, our play allows for literal interpretations.
12/14/2011
woodsdragon woodsdragon
Pirate is our safeword. mainly cause i dont see it ever being used during sex. lol.
12/16/2011
bunnygrl bunnygrl
Quote:
Originally posted by AndroAngel
We use the color system, although after another thread on here, I think the best I've ever heard is "lawsuit".
that's awesome.
12/17/2011
Love Perpetua Love Perpetua
Ours was daisy - definitely not something I would normally say.
12/24/2011
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