When did you know you were kink inclined?

Contributor: Love Perpetua Love Perpetua
I put teenage years, but it was really around the age of 19 that my boyfriend and I experimented with bondage, and I got wet immediately.
09/17/2011
Contributor: Bignuf Bignuf
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Originally posted by Tart
I knew that I was kinky around the age of 16, but I know of people who knew long before that, or much later is life. Color me curious, and tell me about your story into kink.
Sorry....I realize now, as a not TOO young person, that there is no such thing as KINK. My hubby and I are into all kinds of "fun" and as long as we BOTH enjoy it, WHO ON EARTH is there to call it "kink"? To US what we do is NORMAL. More to the point, reading all the posts at EF, one quickly finds that things that were once thought of as "kink" are either pretty mainstream now, or really always were..and no one spoke about them. All that has really changed is people SPEAKING about it. If you want to know how OLD all this is, just look at the "activities list" at a thousands of year old "bordello" in Pompeii, where oral, anal, vaginal, group, and all kinds of other sexual "offerings" were "standard" and available.

It's only KINK if you THINK it is.

Enjoy!!!
09/18/2011
Contributor: Valentinka Valentinka
I've chosen the wrong answer, sorry. It was supposed to be "during adolescence... teenage years".
09/29/2011
Contributor: padmeamidala padmeamidala
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Originally posted by Tart
I knew that I was kinky around the age of 16, but I know of people who knew long before that, or much later is life. Color me curious, and tell me about your story into kink.
I knew I was a bit different during my teen years but didn't really get into kink until my mid-twenties.
09/29/2011
Contributor: LadyDarknezz LadyDarknezz
I was sexually abused a lot when I was younger, so I harbored a lot of guilt about kink. I'm currently working through my misconceptions and guilt over the issue. I knew I was into that sort of thing in my late teens, but my ex-boyfriend wasn't. In fact, he scolded me about it so I got very discouraged and even more insecure.

Note to self: Find a boyfriend with similar interests as myself.
09/30/2011
Contributor: Love Bites Love Bites
I'm 18, but I was looking into it around 16 and 17. I'm open about it though, now, with my boyfriend, who is also kinky. I don't know when he found out.
09/30/2011
Contributor: FemmeFlo FemmeFlo
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Originally posted by KnK
I can so relate to that. I remember in high school that my friends were so picky and grossed out by just about everything. It wasn't until I got to college that I found friends that had the same kink level if not a higher kink level than myself. ... more
I still have friends even in college who refuse to do certain things that I don't find to be a big deal at all. I have few friends who are kinkier than I am. And I have one friend who refuses to even give oral sex because she thinks it's degrading and it's not real sex. I pity her boyfriend.
10/19/2011
Contributor: Stinkytofu10 Stinkytofu10
around 14ish
10/20/2011
Contributor: unfulfilled unfulfilled
I'm just now starting and it's very basic beginner stuff but I really do like some aspects of BDSM.
10/20/2011
Contributor: Kitka Kitka
Didn't fully realize I was kink inclined until about a year and a half ago.
10/20/2011
Contributor: Vanille Vanille
I knew I was in my teens, didn't really fully explore it until I was in my 20s though.
10/20/2011
Contributor: hyacinthgirl hyacinthgirl
I actually identified as asexual until I was in my mid-20's (seriously the first time I ever masturbated was a bit before my 18th birthday, and it was because a friend had told me it was the only way to stop spontaneous orgasms. I didn't fantasize or anything - was just completely clinical and detached about the whole process), then changed to demisexual after my husband left me and I realized that I could be interested in people other than him. I knew I liked light bondage, occasional breath play, spanking, and taking charge, but I figured I was fairly vanilla.

Soon after my divorce, I began cybering with an old friend who admitted he had always had a thing for me, and he mentioned that he had a submission fantasy that had never been fulfilled. I decided to give it a try, and underwent a sexual awakening of my dom-ness. That happened July of this year, and I was almost 27.
10/22/2011
Contributor: 131231e43 131231e43
Young teenager. So pretty young.
01/14/2012
Contributor: panthers panthers
When I was a kid I always enjoyed playing tie-up games. Later in life I learned how much fun and sexual it can be.
01/16/2012
Contributor: Liz x420x Liz x420x
I found out a lot about myself when i was a teenager, more experimenting gets more answers
01/16/2012
Contributor: momma22js momma22js
exbf got me into it I took a break from it after some trauma but I am back into it now
01/16/2012
Contributor: Rey Rey
born this way. I can't remember ever not feeling that 'kinky' suited me!
06/13/2012
Contributor: MidnightStorm MidnightStorm
I knew by the time I was in high school that I was a little more "open minded" than most of my friends. I grew up in a very honest environment though! My parents were always open and answered any questions I had about anything. Nowadays my mom and I talk about just about everything.

I was in to BDSM by the time I was 15 or 16, but recently my kinks have expanded pretty wide. Sometimes I even surprise myself!
06/15/2012
Contributor: Envoutes Envoutes
I'd been exposed to porn online when I was around six, but I never got into the BDSM thing until more recently. I'd always been sort of drawn to the idea of being in a Master/slave relationship since I'd seen a Japanese show based on a similar idea (minus the sex), and I'd looked it up on a forum I frequented when I was fourteen/fifteenish. I'm only recently getting to the point where I'm going to actually do it though, so that's good.
06/18/2012
Contributor: Noelle Noelle
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Originally posted by Tart
I knew that I was kinky around the age of 16, but I know of people who knew long before that, or much later is life. Color me curious, and tell me about your story into kink.
I probably have been for a long time, but I'm 42 now and would LOVE to get kinky w/ my husband, but he isn't one for the kink unfortunately. So I'm off to the bedroom for some vibrator time before he gets home!!
06/18/2012
Contributor: Chami Chami
im not sure really but i would say around my teen years i think
06/18/2012
Contributor: ViVix ViVix
Quote:
Originally posted by Tart
I knew that I was kinky around the age of 16, but I know of people who knew long before that, or much later is life. Color me curious, and tell me about your story into kink.
I knew I was into kink at age 12 when I saw a male couple with collars and other gear on. This was also my first interaction with a same-sex couple.
06/20/2012
Contributor: amazon amazon
Just started fooling around more and more
06/21/2012
Contributor: Ilovelingerie Ilovelingerie
Quote:
Originally posted by Tart
I knew that I was kinky around the age of 16, but I know of people who knew long before that, or much later is life. Color me curious, and tell me about your story into kink.
I was a teenager, but I don’t remember the exact age.
06/21/2012
Contributor: thisisadeletedaccount thisisadeletedaccount
I had fantasies that involved punishment when I was quite young, but it wasn't until high school that I really put all the pieces together and realized I was kinky.
06/23/2012
Contributor: Greenleaf Greenleaf
Around 20 (middle of college) ... I was a late bloomer. Very recently started acting on it though (last year or so).
06/23/2012
Contributor: Yaoi Pervette (deleted) Yaoi Pervette (deleted)
I recall having fantasies about bondage and watersports (!) as early as age 12. I have no idea where or why it started. Then, I saw a movie called Lipstick that had a graphic rape scene that involved bondage and a knife. I found myself aroused rather than horrified. At 16, I talked my boyfriend into tying me up. Everything was great until my mother walked in on us. It was bad enough for her to catch me having sex, but I think she nearly had a heart attack seeing me tied up.
06/23/2012
Contributor: CadmiumKitty CadmiumKitty
when i was very young
06/27/2012
Contributor: Claire-Bear Claire-Bear
Early twenties, I guess. Though, this ballerina used to ask me to spank him everytime I saw him when I was in my teens. I didn't get it at the time. lol
06/27/2012
Contributor: SubmissiveFeminist SubmissiveFeminist
I honestly didn't have a clue until I was about 18, then it hit me like a ton of bricks. There was there moment where I was like, "Oh my god, I suddenly want this, all of it!"
06/27/2012