Where do you draw the line?

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Where do you draw the line?

PonyPlay PonyPlay
So I have been thinking and wondering where you draw the line in you BDSM play? For example I personally draw the line at suffocation, I don't want to not be able to breathe. Other than that everything is pretty much free game. But what about you what thing will you not do?
08/10/2010
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Darkness Withinus Darkness Withinus
You know I think I draw the line at a couple of things, blood being the biggest, I should not be drawing blood in any quantity for any reason. Suffocation is another one, along with a lot of your bathroom play. Other than that I am willing to talk about most things.
08/10/2010
PonyPlay PonyPlay
I also draw the line at drugs and alcohol during my BSDM. It's just dangerous especially if it's a session that is already a little risky. I am want to be 100% conscious during my playtime just in case something goes wrong.
08/12/2010
Envy Envy
No humiliation and if there's pain, very minimal. No blood drawing, either. I'm not into it real hardcore, just light stuff and all.
08/12/2010
Kayla Kayla
Scat and urethral soundings. Acky. Aside from that, (and taking off limbs), I'm okay with most everything else. So's the subbie.
08/12/2010
gone77 gone77
I'd draw the line at anything that causes severe injury and/or scarring.
08/12/2010
Tori Rebel Tori Rebel
Any bathroom play is totally off limits for me, and basically any pain/torture that is severe enough to require medical attention afterward. But bruising, welting, and some bleeding is OK.
08/12/2010
Tori Rebel Tori Rebel
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Originally posted by Tori Rebel
Any bathroom play is totally off limits for me, and basically any pain/torture that is severe enough to require medical attention afterward. But bruising, welting, and some bleeding is OK.
Oh, and no asphyxiation, thank you.
08/12/2010
PonyPlay PonyPlay
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Originally posted by Kayla
Scat and urethral soundings. Acky. Aside from that, (and taking off limbs), I'm okay with most everything else. So's the subbie.
I can deal with urine to some degree but no crap thank you, that's just dirty and not in a good way.
08/12/2010
YoungCouple YoungCouple
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Originally posted by Kayla
Scat and urethral soundings. Acky. Aside from that, (and taking off limbs), I'm okay with most everything else. So's the subbie.
But sounding is awesome! And probably one of the easiest ways to get an infection if done improperly.

Scat and Puke is where i draw the line. Piercing / Blood have their place in my mind.
08/18/2010
MsTryska MsTryska
hmm..i have a couple of lines...definitely toilet tricks, vomit, blood etc.

In general I'm not a fan of additional partners in my bed. One is more than enough.

I refuse to do any sort of "forced" homosexuality - if you want real cock go on down to the gay bar and get you some - thousands of braver men than you have done just that.

Also don't believe in cuckolding. It doesn't fit with my paradigm - for me you are on lucky SOB to have a made it to my bed in the first place. If you are that useless to me, there's no point in you staying.
08/22/2010
Liz Liz
I don't mind a little blood and bruising, but I draw the line at humiliation, asphyxiation, and anything to do with scat or urine.
08/22/2010
DeliciousSurprise DeliciousSurprise
I won't do roman showers, I can't do scat, and I don't prefer blood involved in my play.

Beyond that, I'm very open to the possibilities.
08/22/2010
Eeyor89 Eeyor89
I draw the line at a few things..

Blood being present, serious bodily harm, choking, and basicaly any body fluids other then sperm and other fluids that are normaly present during sex. (no crap, urin, puke, ect..)

But anything else I'm pretty much good for. I do like to have some pain involved.
08/27/2010
Darkness Withinus Darkness Withinus
I think I have to add Drugs and Alcohol but for me those are no brainers. I just really would never consider intoxicated in any way when I play.
08/29/2010
Blinker Blinker
No pee or poop. And because of my boyfriend's history, no needles, pins, or intense medical play (which I am into...it's hard to compromise).
08/29/2010
Blinker Blinker
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Originally posted by Kayla
Scat and urethral soundings. Acky. Aside from that, (and taking off limbs), I'm okay with most everything else. So's the subbie.
HAHA! I sounded a guy with a toothpick once. Fun times.
08/29/2010
Madeira Madeira
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Originally posted by PonyPlay
So I have been thinking and wondering where you draw the line in you BDSM play? For example I personally draw the line at suffocation, I don't want to not be able to breathe. Other than that everything is pretty much free game. But what about you ...
If it's not SSC (safe sane consensual, for those of you who hate acronyms) I don't do it, I don't do scat, water sports, or roman showers. I don't enjoy anal. I don't like being cut, and I don't do anything potentially seriously injurious
09/18/2010
P'Gell P'Gell
Hmm, no blood (although period sex is fine) pee, poop. I also can't physically tolerate things on my throat. My vagus nerve is very sensitive and I start to sweat, become nauseous and pass out, if I even wear a cloth collar. I have even panicked, just from wearing jewelry too tight on my neck. Too bad, because I would LOVE this, (wearing a collar) if I didn't have this reaction.

No needles or cutting, either.
09/18/2010
Viktor Vysheslav Malkin Viktor Vysheslav Malkin
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Originally posted by gone77
I'd draw the line at anything that causes severe injury and/or scarring.
i got to agree with Kristi on this in'
09/18/2010
Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
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Originally posted by PonyPlay
So I have been thinking and wondering where you draw the line in you BDSM play? For example I personally draw the line at suffocation, I don't want to not be able to breathe. Other than that everything is pretty much free game. But what about you ...
I don't do suffocation either, or blood play. Pretty much anything else is fair game
09/18/2010
Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
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Originally posted by P'Gell
Hmm, no blood (although period sex is fine) pee, poop. I also can't physically tolerate things on my throat. My vagus nerve is very sensitive and I start to sweat, become nauseous and pass out, if I even wear a cloth collar. I have even panicked, ...
Try having a collar fitted to rest on the collar bone I find that this helps quell the 'I'm choking' response. I had a collar that was thick in the back around the neck but then dipped in a v shape to rest in the hollow where the collar bone meets at the throat. Never had the panicky feeling from that one.
09/18/2010
LittleBoPeep LittleBoPeep
No bathroom play, blood, suffocation or severe pain. Me and my partner are only into very light bdsm play
09/18/2010
~LaUr3n~ ~LaUr3n~
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Originally posted by PonyPlay
So I have been thinking and wondering where you draw the line in you BDSM play? For example I personally draw the line at suffocation, I don't want to not be able to breathe. Other than that everything is pretty much free game. But what about you ...
No suffocating or gagging.
09/21/2010
Tart Tart
I have only a few limits, and a few soft limits, or limits that I might entertain the thought of doing with a partner I trust depending on the situation. My limits include gags, since I like to breath and all, full hoods and such. Though my soft limits include needles, since I am not so keen on bleeding or blood play, but I would do a play piercing session with someone I trust. I have my gray areas much like many others who like "edge play" or play that exceeds the occasional flogging or spanking.
10/24/2010
Persephone Nightmare Persephone Nightmare
Here are my (main) limits:

1) No vomit or scat (urine, I could probably handle, since Synthetik is healthy and therefore his urine sterile)

2) No urethral soundings

3) No "tit nailing" or nailing anything for that matter. (*shiver* just google it, I don't want to post a pic here, lol)

4) No fisting (We prefer that I stay tight for him. That, and Synthetik has a big fist, it'd be like practically giving birth for Goddess sake, lol)

5) No playing/sharing with others (*No* exceptions on that, not even threesomes or "girl on girl/guy on guy". That's not just a limit I put in place, Synthetik agreed 100%, since we're both completely heterosexual and monogamous. I guess he and I are just greedy when it comes to each other, lol )

And that's about it, or at least all that I can think of at the moment While I'm willing to try just about anything, those things are the exceptions, along with ones I couldn't remember at the moment.
10/25/2010
mllebeauty mllebeauty
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Originally posted by Persephone Nightmare
Here are my (main) limits:

1) No vomit or scat (urine, I could probably handle, since Synthetik is healthy and therefore his urine sterile)

2) No urethral soundings

3) No "tit nailing" or nailing anything for that ...
Tit nailing?? Why oh why did I google for images??
10/25/2010
mllebeauty mllebeauty
I ultimately believe than almost anything is possible with enough trust. However, my general hard limits are children, animals, scat, drugs & alcohol (I'm a normie), anything that would require medical attention or harm my health, and anything that could cause real legal problems. I do have have soft limits, things like hoods because I can get claustrophobic, blood, urine. Oh, I'm not terribly good at sharing my partner. I'm sure there are things I'm missing...
10/25/2010
Persephone Nightmare Persephone Nightmare
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Originally posted by mllebeauty
Tit nailing?? Why oh why did I google for images??
Roflmao, see? *That's* why it's one of my limits.

Oh, and I didn't say children or animals because I figured it was a given, lol, but yes I agree, those too, along with anything that'd cause me to go to the hospital.

As for hoods, I don't know if it'd qualify, for me, as a *limit* per se. As while it's not something I'd think would be claustrophobic for me, but I just don't like how they look and wouldn't want to wear one. I'd rather have a blindfold or just my plain, smiling face looking up at Synthetik, lol
10/25/2010
IrishLassie IrishLassie
Quote:
Originally posted by Persephone Nightmare
Here are my (main) limits:

1) No vomit or scat (urine, I could probably handle, since Synthetik is healthy and therefore his urine sterile)

2) No urethral soundings

3) No "tit nailing" or nailing anything for that ...
We have the same rules. However I would add, no blood. We are new at this so, so far we are still defining the limits. But I don't think those ones will EVER change.
02/21/2011
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