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Contributor: Darklyvan Darklyvan
My wife likes being tied up and blindfolded. I do not being restrained but do like being blindfolded. What do you like
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11/13/2011
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Contributor: poetprincess poetprincess
Quote:
Originally posted by Darklyvan
My wife likes being tied up and blindfolded. I do not being restrained but do like being blindfolded. What do you like
I have tried all off it and honestly I am to dominate to be comfortable with it..
11/13/2011
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
A blind fold is fun - we tried cuffs once. It was OK but we're not really into bondage so it doesn't add to the equation for us.
11/13/2011
Contributor: Ciao. Ciao.
Depends on the mood, but a blindfold and restraints can be a lot of fun, usually prefer that or just restraints.
11/13/2011
Contributor: LilMissSub LilMissSub
I like being restrained. Blindfolded is fun on occasion, but I like being restrained far better.
11/13/2011
Contributor: DaddyG DaddyG
Quote:
Originally posted by Darklyvan
My wife likes being tied up and blindfolded. I do not being restrained but do like being blindfolded. What do you like
Both the wife and I switches. The I will say that i am more Dom than she is but its nice to give up control as much as it is to take it.
11/13/2011
Contributor: SomeGirl SomeGirl
I have yet to find a blindfold that doesn't fall off of me, which, then takes away from the scene. I love being restrained in all sorts of ways. The tighter the better, and in the grand scheme of things, I get restrained more often.
11/13/2011
Contributor: 12345678 12345678
What can I say, I'm all about all or nothing.
11/13/2011
Contributor: Sunshineamine Sunshineamine
If anything maybe blindfolded but I don't dig restraints. I'd rather go with neither. I could try the blindfold thing though. It may be fun.
11/13/2011
Contributor: Sex'и'Violence Sex'и'Violence
Little bit of everything
11/13/2011
Contributor: - Kira - - Kira -
Quote:
Originally posted by SomeGirl
I have yet to find a blindfold that doesn't fall off of me, which, then takes away from the scene. I love being restrained in all sorts of ways. The tighter the better, and in the grand scheme of things, I get restrained more often.
I got a blindfold with my Black Label Liberator Ramp that has yet to fall off of me and I actually can't see out of it. I don't know if they sell it separate from the conversion kit, but that's one awesome blindfold.

I like both, but if I could only do one I'd pick restraint over blindfold. This ends up being what we normally do. The blindfold is nice though and when I remember I do like to put one on.
11/13/2011
Contributor: northstar northstar
Both, though sometimes just blindfolds. Difficult to always find something to attach to!
11/14/2011
Contributor: Pixel Pixel
I really dislike not being able to see during a scene. However, give me lots and lots of bondage, and I shall be a happy kitty!
11/14/2011
Contributor: froggiemoma froggiemoma
just restraints for me.
11/14/2011
Contributor: Kendrir Kendrir
I have tried light versions of both in the past and loved it immensely.
11/14/2011
Contributor: Equinegoddess3 Equinegoddess3
I like both, though I haven't found a blindfold that works well for me, either.
11/14/2011
Contributor: Breas Breas
Sometimes both, sometimes just one of the items, and sometimes none. It depends on how we are feeling. We don't use those items every time we play.
11/15/2011
Contributor: Sinfully Sinfully
I wouldn't mind being blindfolded or restrained but no guy has ever done either with me.
11/15/2011
Contributor: Kitka Kitka
I love feeling totally vulnerable and helpless, so I voted blindfold and restraints.
11/15/2011
Contributor: LavenderSkies LavenderSkies
Quote:
Originally posted by Darklyvan
My wife likes being tied up and blindfolded. I do not being restrained but do like being blindfolded. What do you like
Restraints.
11/16/2011
Contributor: Cherry21 Cherry21
I like it all! Husband doesnt like any of it though.
11/20/2011
Contributor: IrishLassie IrishLassie
BOTH! However, I dont think my husband ties me near enough. Perhaps that's because we are still learning that aspect.
11/20/2011
Contributor: Shorty32 Shorty32
Blindfold is a must, restraints are liked. Been experimenting lately with new knots
11/20/2011
Contributor: sarahswallows sarahswallows
Quote:
Originally posted by Darklyvan
My wife likes being tied up and blindfolded. I do not being restrained but do like being blindfolded. What do you like
add in some spanking and I am good to go
11/21/2011
Contributor: switzerland switzerland
everything and anything! being blindfolded is amazing because every move he makes, i can't see.. it's unpredictable and the feeling is that much more intense. being tied up is definitely fun as well
11/21/2011
Contributor: Jennysweets Jennysweets
Quote:
Originally posted by Darklyvan
My wife likes being tied up and blindfolded. I do not being restrained but do like being blindfolded. What do you like
Just one of the many
11/21/2011
Contributor: Rainbow Boy Rainbow Boy
I've never tried restraints, but I wouldn't mind trying them.
11/22/2011
Contributor: bobbyboy bobbyboy
Quote:
Originally posted by Darklyvan
My wife likes being tied up and blindfolded. I do not being restrained but do like being blindfolded. What do you like
I do not mind being blindfolded, but I do not enjoy being tied
11/26/2011
Contributor: Stinkytofu10 Stinkytofu10
both on her, both on me
11/26/2011
Contributor: Darklyvan Darklyvan
Quote:
Originally posted by Sinfully
I wouldn't mind being blindfolded or restrained but no guy has ever done either with me.
I am sorry to hear that
11/28/2011