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Contributor: Boyqueen Boyqueen
Switch it up, haha.
07/09/2012
Contributor: SmutGeek SmutGeek
I wonder why switches are so popular...
08/15/2012
Contributor: LadyDarknezz LadyDarknezz
I'm 100% submissive.
08/15/2012
Contributor: itismedi itismedi
Quote:
Originally posted by removedacnt
Are you consistently dominant, submissive, or do you switch?

I'm making the voting private, but feel free to add to the comment section if you're comfortable with that.
Not a dominant bone in my body when play time begins.
08/15/2012
Contributor: klyte klyte
I'm constantly submissive.
08/15/2012
Contributor: gsfanatic gsfanatic
Consistently dominant, I've tried being a sub and it didn't appeal to me
08/16/2012
Contributor: calliope calliope
switch I like to change it up.
08/16/2012
Contributor: playsalot playsalot
Most of my life I felt like I wanted to be the dominant, but more and more I have wanted to give up all control and be dominated.
08/16/2012
Contributor: skeeterlynn skeeterlynn
Switching it up a bit <3
08/16/2012
Contributor: Gdom Gdom
I voted Dom simply because that's what I HAVE been so far, but I'd be happy to switch.
08/16/2012
Contributor: XxXxX XxXxX
Quote:
Originally posted by removedacnt
Are you consistently dominant, submissive, or do you switch?

I'm making the voting private, but feel free to add to the comment section if you're comfortable with that.
I am submissive when it comes to relationships and sex, most of the time... but in everything else I totally Dominate.
08/18/2012
Contributor: Cowgirl-Cutie Cowgirl-Cutie
submissive
01/05/2013
Contributor: fizzygato fizzygato
I'm a sub, mostly because in the beginning, which was/ is more often, I'm being taught how to do stuff, so people will demonstrate on me, and I'm generally too afraid to hurt someone

Being topped doesn't turn me on, though.

I feel like sometimes I act dominantly, but I don't do things "doms" do.. if that makes any sense. Like I can be vanilla dominant, but won't flog someone.

I try not to cling to dom/ sub/ switch labels too much because I'm still relatively new to this/ don't have a regular play partner and only play casually with whoever's up for it. I like to think I'm exploring my options and will eventually come to the conclusion I'm also "queer" in that respect
01/05/2013
Contributor: butts butts
Dominant switch.
01/05/2013
Contributor: Martiniman Martiniman
I'm not into D/s but I'd like to be. I have dominant feelings at times, but would really like to be submissive if I could get my wife to be dominant.
01/05/2013
Contributor: kinksters kinksters
total switch
01/05/2013
Contributor: shorejen9 shorejen9
In the bedroom, completely submissive. I love for my husband to dominate me. In life, I have to be more dominate with some things but overall I think I'm submissive mostly there too unless I have to take control. When I had a career ( I'm a Sahm now) I was very dominate and in control.
01/05/2013
Contributor: tunacan75 tunacan75
Always dominant! My girl ain't assertive enough to be a dom even for a few minutes haha
01/05/2013
Contributor: sillylilkitten sillylilkitten
100% submissive haha. Even in situations were we have multiple people involved I'm always at the bottom.
01/05/2013
Contributor: thisisadeletedaccount thisisadeletedaccount
I'm a switch - I'm very inconsistent, I have Dom days and subby days and days where I'm happy to go either way.
01/08/2013
Contributor: Thumper Logic Thumper Logic
Sub
03/05/2013
Contributor: chicmichiw chicmichiw
Switch
03/05/2013
Contributor: tami tami
Quote:
Originally posted by removedacnt
Are you consistently dominant, submissive, or do you switch?

I'm making the voting private, but feel free to add to the comment section if you're comfortable with that.
I prefer to be dominate but hubby and I switch it up.
03/05/2013
Contributor: Genderfree Genderfree
I'm a total switch and so is my partner. We can both be on the sub side at times.
03/05/2013
Contributor: Leather & Lace Leather & Lace
Submissive.
03/05/2013
Contributor: Sugarfina Sugarfina
Quote:
Originally posted by removedacnt
Are you consistently dominant, submissive, or do you switch?

I'm making the voting private, but feel free to add to the comment section if you're comfortable with that.
I prefer being the dominant,but I like being submissive too. I'd go with dominant.Switch works too.I voted dominnant.
03/05/2013
Contributor: Tigerlily808 Tigerlily808
100% submissive over here
03/08/2013
Contributor: BlueVelvet BlueVelvet
sub!
03/08/2013
Contributor: Marcianpro Marcianpro
I'm a bit of both actually, switching during sex is very fun!
03/08/2013
Contributor: AmethystQueen AmethystQueen
I have both dominant thoughts and submissive cravings of being dominated so I'm a certified switch!

Now if only I could figure out what hubby is...
03/08/2013