Who introduced you?

AmethystQueen AmethystQueen
Who do you credit with bringing you into the BDSM lifestyle?
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
Mom, Dad, other family member
1  (2%)
Close friend
9  (17%)
Acquaintance
1  (2%)
Someone at work/work related relationship
1  (2%)
Complete stranger
Other
42  (78%)
Total votes: 54
Poll is closed
03/20/2013
  • Weekly Special: Hot Vibes! Buy 1 Vibrator And Get 1 FREE
  • Better Price Sale - Save 50%
  • Better Price Sale - Save 70%
  • Better Price Sale - Save 60%
  • Better Price - Save 40%
  • 1
  • 2
  • 3
  • 4
  • 5
All promotions
evie.amor evie.amor
In highschool I had a couple girlfriends who were into bondage and corsets, maybe that's where I first got the ideas from.. Otherwise I don't know I just like it
03/20/2013
butts butts
Other; the internet!
03/21/2013
SaucyxGirl SaucyxGirl
Mine was a boyfriend. He and I came to realize that both of us were a little on the kinky side and decided to explore that together. He had some prior experience but it was mostly basic stuff like light bondage and spanking.
03/21/2013
gsfanatic gsfanatic
Internet, corrupter of many an innocent
03/21/2013
KyotoAngel KyotoAngel
Movies and tv shows I watched as a kid, mostly.
I guess they sort of "planted the seed" and over the years I dabbled a bit here and a bit there, by the time I was 9 I knew I liked how it felt to be tied up. ^_^

That said, the internet was a god send when it came to learning how to do things a bit more safely and better. xD
03/28/2013
higs higs
TV all the way. Saw one damsel and distress and went "Yeah, I'd like to be that villain"
04/02/2013
AmethystQueen AmethystQueen
LOL, higs! =)
04/02/2013
LoneOokami LoneOokami
Books and the internet brought the ideal to my mind and from there I began to explore it
04/05/2013
Sir Sir
No one brought me in. I sort of came in on my own.
04/05/2013
Vanille Vanille
Quote:
Originally posted by AmethystQueen
Who do you credit with bringing you into the BDSM lifestyle?
Internet and a ex-boyfriend.
04/05/2013
ChubbyNerd ChubbyNerd
Mostly on my own, some from the internet.
04/05/2013
ScarletFox ScarletFox
A close friend really got me into it, and from this day has been a mentor for me when I have questions about things.
04/15/2013
oneeyedoctopus oneeyedoctopus
If I had to credit an outside entity, it would be the internet
05/01/2013
TheirPet TheirPet
I remember tying myself up at a very young age and it just developed from there. If I had to give credit to someone else though it would be a girl from HS who was a total DOMINA.
05/16/2013
Pixel Pixel
The internet/fan fiction.
05/17/2013
dancingduo dancingduo
mostly porn/internet.
05/18/2013
lilswitch lilswitch
I'm one of those people who believe that they were born kinky. Reading porn helped though.
05/26/2013
harvest harvest
I surfed the internet and came across a few certain websites. I fell completely in love and it's just been that way since. :3
06/02/2013
angel42539 angel42539
myself thought I would give it a try and loved it!
06/02/2013
bratcat bratcat
It was something my close friends and i discussed back in high school. We talked about the things we think would enjoy trying and already know we enjoy. It wasnt until i discussed these feelings with my partner that we started to put them to use and now lite BDSM play is part of our every-day sex life!
06/03/2013
LavenderSkies LavenderSkies
The internet, from a young age.
06/03/2013
SickOnSin SickOnSin
Quote:
Originally posted by AmethystQueen
Who do you credit with bringing you into the BDSM lifestyle?
No one brought me into it. It's just what I've always thought about as soon as I started fantasizing. Ask my ex-fiance. He was so against it and I was like common just try it. Needless to say there is a reason he's an ex-fiance and NOT a husband.
06/17/2013
twelve13 twelve13
My first girlfriend.
06/18/2013
novanilla novanilla
No one really introduced me. I don't really remember why it occurred to me to do certain things but I just started doing them and my partner at the time responded and we kept doing it.
06/18/2013
FrustratedFemme FrustratedFemme
That's a complicated question. My first exposure to kink was with my first real boyfriend, but I credit my current girlfriend to introducing me to the lifestyle. When I was dating my first boyfriend, I had no idea what I liked. I presented myself as a domme because I thought that was what he wanted. It wasn't a very pleasant experience. Later, I dated another guy who was a top, and he made me realize that I wanted to be dominated. However, he ended up being less-than-respectful of things like consent and boundaries, so my relationship with him almost turned me off from BDSM entirely. Eventually, I figured out that I was gay (I'd previously thought I was bisexual), started seeing my girlfriend, found out she was a top, and am now living in seventh heaven.
06/18/2013
MornaStar MornaStar
A singer did. He has music that is about BSDM. I already liked to be a dom and sub, but I didn't know there was a "culture" if you will behind it all. Well after that I looked into it and figured all this awesome stuff about it and well here I am now! lol
06/28/2013
LittleBun91 LittleBun91
No one, just found myself rather kinky.
07/10/2013
cassondra1987 cassondra1987
My husband actually introduced me to this world. He's been a Dom in relationships before and asked if I'd be willing to give it a go. We had one weekend where I was at his complete beck and call, it was interesting but I'm not sure if I'd like to do it all the time
07/14/2013
xOhxSoxScandalousx xOhxSoxScandalousx
It was an interest of mines. No one introduced me.
07/14/2013
  • 1
  • 2
Total posts: 39
Unique posters: 36