1st time peggers: Did you warm up with a butt plug or did you just take the dildo?

phozersexy phozersexy
Did you warm up with a butt plug or did you just take the dildo?
04/30/2012
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ScottA ScottA
It's better to warm up with fingers, plugs or probes. A harnessed dildo isn't as easy to manipulate delicately, and you're also more likely to be anxious when it's the "first time being pegged," which leads to a tense anus. Have plenty of foreplay (but don't orgasm!), then back off for the insertion (playing with the penis often causes the anus to contract), then do what feels good.
04/30/2012
phozersexy phozersexy
Quote:
Originally posted by ScottA
It's better to warm up with fingers, plugs or probes. A harnessed dildo isn't as easy to manipulate delicately, and you're also more likely to be anxious when it's the "first time being pegged," which leads to a tense anus. ... More
Thanks..good advice..never thought about all of that..
05/01/2012
Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
Like Scott said - starting with fingers and toys are best - otherwise I think you risk damage. I'm typically not ready for anything too large until I can adjust to my wife using 2 fingers for a while - I think she's actually getting into it as well!
05/01/2012
phozersexy phozersexy
How do you know which o ring to use with which dildo? I ordered the latigo harness
05/05/2012
phozersexy phozersexy
Quote:
Originally posted by ScottA
It's better to warm up with fingers, plugs or probes. A harnessed dildo isn't as easy to manipulate delicately, and you're also more likely to be anxious when it's the "first time being pegged," which leads to a tense anus. ... More
How do you know which o ring goes with which dildo? I ordered a latigo harness
05/05/2012
phozersexy phozersexy
Quote:
Originally posted by ScottA
It's better to warm up with fingers, plugs or probes. A harnessed dildo isn't as easy to manipulate delicately, and you're also more likely to be anxious when it's the "first time being pegged," which leads to a tense anus. ... More
How do you know which o ring goes with which dildo? I ordered a latigo harness
05/06/2012
ScottA ScottA
A snug fit is best, because it gives you the most control and prevents the dildo from twisting around (if you have a curved dildo for prostate stimulation you want to have it stay in place). The O-ring should be at the dildo's maximum size, or very near since rubber will stretch a bit.

In practice, though, you can have an O-ring that's up to about 1/2" in diameter bigger than the dildo, provided your dildo has a sturdy base that's wide enough. It will flop around more and rotate during use, but it will work.
05/06/2012
phozersexy phozersexy
Ok thanks..it comes with a 1 1/2 inch o ring
05/06/2012
BiLikesSciFi42 BiLikesSciFi42
I always insert a plug into my boyfriend an hour or two before we plan on pegging. having the plug inserted and then walking around and sitting keeps him excited and makes him anxious for more!
05/23/2012
phozersexy phozersexy
Thanks for the advice.
05/24/2012
squire squire
Lots of warm up, especially for first timers! I think it's one thing to please yourself anally, but when you bring your partner into it, lots of psychological things can come up that weren't expected, let along the process of learning to share a behavior that is pleasurable but can hurt if not done correctly. Patience is the key, especially when experience has yet to be achieved.
05/28/2012
phozersexy phozersexy
Thanks..
05/29/2012
robertk2380 robertk2380
Even today, as someone accustomed to being pegged from time to time, we start out slowly with lots of lube, a finger or two and more lube. Then I tell her when I am ready. Slow and steady wins the race.
05/30/2012
Makoto Makoto
Quote:
Originally posted by BiLikesSciFi42
I always insert a plug into my boyfriend an hour or two before we plan on pegging. having the plug inserted and then walking around and sitting keeps him excited and makes him anxious for more!
That sounds awesome.
06/03/2012
Oliver Gray Oliver Gray
This thread was really helpful :3
06/03/2012
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