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1st time peggers: Did you warm up with a butt plug or did you just take the dildo?
It's better to warm up with fingers, plugs or probes. A harnessed dildo isn't as easy to manipulate delicately, and you're also more likely to be anxious when it's the "first time being pegged," which leads to a tense anus. Have plenty of foreplay (but don't orgasm!), then back off for the insertion (playing with the penis often causes the anus to contract), then do what feels good.
04/30/2012
phozersexy
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Thanks..good advice..never thought about all of that..
Originally posted by
ScottA
It's better to warm up with fingers, plugs or probes. A harnessed dildo isn't as easy to manipulate delicately, and you're also more likely to be anxious when it's the "first time being pegged," which leads to a tense anus.
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It's better to warm up with fingers, plugs or probes. A harnessed dildo isn't as easy to manipulate delicately, and you're also more likely to be anxious when it's the "first time being pegged," which leads to a tense anus. Have plenty of foreplay (but don't orgasm!), then back off for the insertion (playing with the penis often causes the anus to contract), then do what feels good.
05/01/2012
phozersexy
phozersexy
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How do you know which o ring goes with which dildo? I ordered a latigo harness
Originally posted by
ScottA
It's better to warm up with fingers, plugs or probes. A harnessed dildo isn't as easy to manipulate delicately, and you're also more likely to be anxious when it's the "first time being pegged," which leads to a tense anus.
...
It's better to warm up with fingers, plugs or probes. A harnessed dildo isn't as easy to manipulate delicately, and you're also more likely to be anxious when it's the "first time being pegged," which leads to a tense anus. Have plenty of foreplay (but don't orgasm!), then back off for the insertion (playing with the penis often causes the anus to contract), then do what feels good.
05/05/2012
phozersexy
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How do you know which o ring goes with which dildo? I ordered a latigo harness
Originally posted by
ScottA
It's better to warm up with fingers, plugs or probes. A harnessed dildo isn't as easy to manipulate delicately, and you're also more likely to be anxious when it's the "first time being pegged," which leads to a tense anus.
...
It's better to warm up with fingers, plugs or probes. A harnessed dildo isn't as easy to manipulate delicately, and you're also more likely to be anxious when it's the "first time being pegged," which leads to a tense anus. Have plenty of foreplay (but don't orgasm!), then back off for the insertion (playing with the penis often causes the anus to contract), then do what feels good.
05/06/2012
A snug fit is best, because it gives you the most control and prevents the dildo from twisting around (if you have a curved dildo for prostate stimulation you want to have it stay in place). The O-ring should be at the dildo's maximum size, or very near since rubber will stretch a bit.
In practice, though, you can have an O-ring that's up to about 1/2" in diameter bigger than the dildo, provided your dildo has a sturdy base that's wide enough. It will flop around more and rotate during use, but it will work.
In practice, though, you can have an O-ring that's up to about 1/2" in diameter bigger than the dildo, provided your dildo has a sturdy base that's wide enough. It will flop around more and rotate during use, but it will work.
05/06/2012
Lots of warm up, especially for first timers! I think it's one thing to please yourself anally, but when you bring your partner into it, lots of psychological things can come up that weren't expected, let along the process of learning to share a behavior that is pleasurable but can hurt if not done correctly. Patience is the key, especially when experience has yet to be achieved.
05/28/2012
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