A different type of strap-on play...

JewelsAndB JewelsAndB
I keep Brian locked in a male chastity device and only allow him out when I decided to. This works great because he is aroused all the time (I know, what guy isn't) but channels it in a positive way (keeping me happy). My big problem is that, for me, an orgasm just isn't the same without feeling his body pressed up against me while he is thrusting into me. The closeness combined with the sheer force is SOOO incredible. Anyway... where was I?

Oh yeah... When I am really getting into it, I don't want to stop just because he is at the point of orgasm, but I don't want him to get to that point either. So, we have been talking about using a strap-on to allow him to penetrate me, but without the risk of an accidental orgasm.

Does anyone have experience with harnesses designed to be worn by the guy? Also, I am not sure what type of dildo to get... is softer or harder better for this type of play? Any suggestions for a good dildo in the 6" x 1 1/2" size category?
10/27/2011
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PassionCpl PassionCpl
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Originally posted by JewelsAndB
I keep Brian locked in a male chastity device and only allow him out when I decided to. This works great because he is aroused all the time (I know, what guy isn't) but channels it in a positive way (keeping me happy). My big problem is that, ... More
We have the Ultra Harness 2000 (the Doc Johnson male/female one). We don't use it often but it definitely works. If you buy it as a kit it comes with a good, firm dildo - unfortunately for us a big part of buying it was for me to use it on hubby but the dildo is too big for him to take anally. It's perfect for vaginal sex though and works well with hubby wearing it. It also comes with a butt plug attachment but that's big too so we don't use that. We've mentioned elsewhere that we're now considering the Rodeoh panty harness but are looking for more advice on that one ourselves. Still, you might consider both of those options yourselves
10/27/2011
JewelsAndB JewelsAndB
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Originally posted by PassionCpl
We have the Ultra Harness 2000 (the Doc Johnson male/female one). We don't use it often but it definitely works. If you buy it as a kit it comes with a good, firm dildo - unfortunately for us a big part of buying it was for me to use it on ... More
We also have the Ultra Harness... and with the same intent as you. But I really am not a fan of the Vac-U-Lok dildos.
10/28/2011
PassionCpl PassionCpl
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Originally posted by JewelsAndB
We also have the Ultra Harness... and with the same intent as you. But I really am not a fan of the Vac-U-Lok dildos.
Neither are we now!
10/28/2011
Rawhide Rawhide
You should check out a thigh harness, like this one link
10/29/2011
AndroAngel AndroAngel
A good dildo in that size range is the Tantus Vamp. I have a certain fondness of it.
10/29/2011
JewelsAndB JewelsAndB
@Rawhide - Thanks for the suggestion... That might be fun for other play, but it won't give me the body-on-body I really like.

@AndroAngel - That was one of the ones we were looking at. How hard/soft is it?
10/30/2011
stlouisxxx stlouisxxx
How about a hollow extension that his penis would fit into like:
link
if he would happen to cum. It looks thick enough that he shouldn't get pleasure, but would stay hard by itself if he were to go soft.
11/04/2011
Tefca Tefca
what about a dildo like a Feeldoe or a Share, with him having the bulb end anally? Anyone tried this?
11/06/2011
ScottA ScottA
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Originally posted by Tefca
what about a dildo like a Feeldoe or a Share, with him having the bulb end anally? Anyone tried this?
If you're doing this you'll want the Feeldoe, the other ones will slip out of him during use. You'll also probably want the longest one you can get, because you're loosing about 2-3 inches of length.
11/12/2011
Jnuts Jnuts
My wife and I are interested in something like this as well. Definitely let us know if you find something that works!
11/18/2011
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