Fun ways you dominate or are dominated?

SaddleUp SaddleUp
Hi guys, Im just curious to know how many lesbian couples out there take part in BDSM sexual adventures. If you happen to do so, what are some fun ways in which you like to be dominated by your partner or have your partner dominate you?
03/29/2013
  • Buy 1 Fetish Or Glass Toy Get 1 FREE
  • Limited offer: Save 25% on Blush Toys
  • Better Price - Save 40%
  • Better Price Sale - Save 50%
  • Better Price Sale - Save 60%
  • 1
  • 2
  • 3
  • 4
  • 5
All promotions
countryhoney21 countryhoney21
Quote:
Originally posted by SaddleUp
Hi guys, Im just curious to know how many lesbian couples out there take part in BDSM sexual adventures. If you happen to do so, what are some fun ways in which you like to be dominated by your partner or have your partner dominate you?
I have a friends that are Lesbian and into BDSM. There both take part into fighting, and the one enjoy's getting pinned and not being able to run away! She is very dominate and have to hold down the her partner, cause she will run!
03/29/2013
charletnarouh charletnarouh
Looks like i'm a bit late to the table on this discussion, sorry about that. i am a lesbian in a 24/7 D/s relationship with my Mistress. Wwe have a D/s dynamic that exists at all times and Wwe also have engage in BDSM play. It's important to note that all of the BDSM activities in which Wwe partake are done so with absolute informed, risk-aware consent. Wwe have also taken painstaking efforts to educate Oourselves and ensure that Wwe are performing said activities safely. Wwe never play drunk or impaired in any way! Various activities Wwe enjoy that fall under the BDSM umbrella include bondage, spanking, flogging, whipping, paddling, caning, ropes, hot wax, as well as my attitude of submission and Hers of Dominance which might include Her giving me specific instructions which i carry out, Her withholding or denying me something i want, etc. She is also quite adept at the art of the "mindfuck" which is a bit hard to explain but may involve Her psyching me out to expect something that never comes, holding me in anticipation, telling me She is going to do something She knows i'm nervous or afraid of, using a tool or letting me believe She's using a tool or intends to use a tool She knows i dislike or am nervous about, etc. Wwe also regularly use strap-ons and Wwe enjoy fisting but i don't really consider that BDSM since many lesbian couples who are not involved in BDSM do so, though some people do qualify these activities thusly. In any case, they're hot and Wwe enjoy them. Wwe also go to BDSM community events and, occasionally, play parties. Once a year Wwe attend a large weekend retreat for kinky women which is amazing. my Ma'am is in the process of learning needle play, the art of placing needles through the skin of one's partner for various purposes including sensation and visual aesthetics. i am, however, terrified of needles so She does this with other folks, a friend of Oours is particularly fond of receiving needles so she is a willing pincushion, though it may be integrated into Oour play eventually to get me over my phobia. Wwe hope to add to Oour knowledge and experience with fire, heat, cell popping, branding, knives, cutting, and a few other kinky things. Hopefully this gives you a sampling. Essentially, lesbians can engage in nearly every aspect of kink that straight people can, except you would need a man for cock and ball torture, obviously . If you'd like some more ideas, look into books like "The New Topping Book", "The New Bottoming Book", and "Screw the Roses, Send Me the Thorns", all available here on EF. You are also welcome to PM me if i can answer any further questions. Please be educated, safe, sane, consensual and risk-aware. Good luck in your exploration!
04/09/2013
joolie joolie
Quote:
Originally posted by charletnarouh
Looks like i'm a bit late to the table on this discussion, sorry about that. i am a lesbian in a 24/7 D/s relationship with my Mistress. Wwe have a D/s dynamic that exists at all times and Wwe also have engage in BDSM play. It's important to ... More
What is cell popping? That's unfamiliar.
04/09/2013
whiskygirl88 whiskygirl88
Quote:
Originally posted by SaddleUp
Hi guys, Im just curious to know how many lesbian couples out there take part in BDSM sexual adventures. If you happen to do so, what are some fun ways in which you like to be dominated by your partner or have your partner dominate you?
I like being submissive and like to tied up
04/09/2013
charletnarouh charletnarouh
Quote:
Originally posted by joolie
What is cell popping? That's unfamiliar.
Cell popping is a form of branding or scarification. It's sometimes called microbranding or pin branding.
The following is copy pasted from this website:
"Microbranding Basics
Microbranding, also known as Cell Popping or Devil’s Fire, is an unusual branding technique involving taking a pointed needle that has been heated red-hot and touching it lightly to the surface of the skin for a brief instant. The point of the needle creates a tiny, round, “single-pore” burn on the skin. Hundreds or thousands of these little marks are combined to create a pointillistic design which may persist for several weeks to several months depending on the skin healing capabilities of the individual. A single design can involve thousands of microbrands and can take several hours."
Some people may use single pin burns to just for the sensation or may create a design of any size. Some artists are capable of elaborate and beautiful designs! They heal, as burns do, and scar. Some scars, as mentioned above, can last for a long time depending on the individual and how they are cared for. Some folks will "re-pop" a design to make it last longer and longer each time it's redone.
04/10/2013
spamandark spamandark
My girlfriend likes to tell me what to do. She will tell me not to talk or make noise and then spank me when I accidentally make a noise. She likes to tie my hands together or make me keep them behind my head. She has also made me ride her while she is wearing a harness but she completely ignores me until I make myself come. Something that I enjoy doing is making someone watch their favorite porn while you fuck them. It means they have to look it up while you're watching. Another favorite is making them tell you about their fantasies.
04/15/2013
Total posts: 7
Unique posters: 6