What combination of toys/harnesses is going to be best for me?

Robespierrethecat Robespierrethecat
My boyfriend and I have been interested in pegging for a long while, and we're sure it's something we want to do. I've been obsessed with the La Femme harness and the Leo dildo (probably in the Halloween pattern). I'm finally approaching having enough money/points to actually get the set and I figured I would ask here fist just to makes sure they're going to be just right for us.

So, here's some details.
I think this combination might be best for us because:
-I want a comfortable but not underpants/shorts-styl e harness
-I like femme stuff (hence the La Femme harness)
-We're not looking for a very large dildo nor a vibrating one.
-We're not looking for a beginners dildo either
-We want something we can have for a very long time
-We want something durable and fun
-I'm not worried about price/expense, I just want the perfect combination
-I'm also not worried about fitting into the La Femme harness because I wear about a large (and my hips should be well within the size limit)


So, if anyone has any tips or ideas-let me know?

Thanks!
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
La Femme harness!
6
Leo dildo!
1
Try a smaller dildo
3
Try a bigger dildo
2
Try a cheaper harness
1
Reconsider not wanting shorts/underpants style harnesses
1
Try some completely different combination
Total votes: 14 (6 voters)
Poll is closed
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ScottA ScottA
The only thing I'd add is make sure he's also pro-Femme and pro-Leo. If that's the case then go for it.
11/20/2012
Beck Beck
Does he already engage in anal? If he doesn't, don't get the Leo. It's not the most beginner friendly, especially for anal. If he has engaged in penetration, then Leo will be fine. Good luck.
11/20/2012
Robespierrethecat Robespierrethecat
I think I am going to probably go for the La Femme and Leo then.

Because he's happy with both/either, and he's totally down for full-on penetration. We currently have (and use really regular) a string of average-sized anal beads, and he's pretty much always able to insert all 10 with no trouble or discomfort.
11/20/2012
Robespierrethecat Robespierrethecat
Quote:
Originally posted by Beck
Does he already engage in anal? If he doesn't, don't get the Leo. It's not the most beginner friendly, especially for anal. If he has engaged in penetration, then Leo will be fine. Good luck.
Thank you!
11/20/2012
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