Complete newbie to strap ons, what would work the best?

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Complete newbie to strap ons, what would work the best?

EmeraldDawn EmeraldDawn 02/11/2013

Ok, I'm new to strap ons. I'm interested in trying this with a female partner. Which harness is best suited for a beginner?

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EmeraldDawn EmeraldDawn
I'd love to hear from those who have tried these. Right now I'm wanting the pink candy one but that could be just cause of the color!
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SecretKinksters SecretKinksters
I would go with the Pink Candy Minx...I like the double straps.
02/11/2013
panthercat23 panthercat23
the tomboi looks like it would be very simple to use.
02/11/2013
doowop doowop
I haven't tried it, but the Tomboi looks very simple. I would give that a go.
02/11/2013
Mr. E Mr. E
My wife has the Minx. It was pricey, but she loves it.
02/11/2013
BlooJay BlooJay
The sasha harness is hot.
02/11/2013
oldkinky oldkinky
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Originally posted by EmeraldDawn
I'd love to hear from those who have tried these. Right now I'm wanting the pink candy one but that could be just cause of the color!
It is fantastic. My orgasms are so intense and my wife loves to cum while fucking me. I was hesitant to mention it to my wife, but when I did She said that it had always been on of her fantasies. Now she fucks me with a strap on about once a week and has been for a long time. It is so erotic to see her wearing the strap on and she gets so hot as she talks dirty about her dick while rubbing lube on the dildo. Here is what we enjoy.

My wife pegs me about once a week. It is fantastic for both of us. Here is some advice: The maximum diameter dildo that is comfortable for me is 1 3/8 inch, but 7 inches long is fine. Anything larger in diameter hurts even with lots of lube. We tried Vibrating Leo(1 1/2 inch diameter) and I couldn't take it. We love silicone dildos. The Vibrating Mistress(1 3/8 inch by 6 inches) is our favorite. My wife also likes to masturbate with it. Another dildo that we enjoy is Vibrating Leisure(1 1/4 inch diameter and 7 inches long). We also enjoy a double dildo Nexus Jr.

It is important that the harness have a pocket for a vibrator to stimulate her clitoris. We use Buzz Me Tender and Bend Over Beginner harnesses.

Our favorite position is with me on my back with my legs drawn up. In this position she can easily reach my penis for a handjob.

She gets between my legs and slowly inserts the dildo in me-it feels so good as she slowly fucks me. Sometimes she lubes my dick and gives me a handjob while she fucks me. She gets so hot with the harness vibrator stimulating her clitoris. We usually cum together.

If you are concerned about cleanliness here is what we do before any anal. I use a small enema such as a Fleet Enema with plain water. I use the enema about 3 times until it comes out clear.

Enjoy and happy pegging. You both will love it. Let us know how you both enjoy it.
02/12/2013
spiced spiced
My wife and I have been into pegging for several years. My advice would be to try it with something inexpensive like this one or this one. Of the ones on your list, the Universal Love Rider is the most practical, IMO, since you don't know for sure that you'll even like strap-ons.

If you don't have any harness-compatible dildos, this kit would be a good, low-cost way to try out strap-on sex.

The odds are pretty good that you'll love it. Once you know you love it and you're ready to spend some serious $ on high-quality gear, I can recommend the SpareParts Joque and Aslan Jaguar from personal experience. From your list, the Minx and the Sasha look really good to me; the Minx is essentially a fancier version of the Jaguar; the Tomboi and the Sasha should perform similarly to the Joque. They're all high-quality harnesses. It's really just a matter of your style preference.
02/12/2013
tequilafish tequilafish
The cherry Minx was my first strap on, and it's lovely.

Spareparts Joque is also really good and comfortable.
02/14/2013
charletnarouh charletnarouh
Wwe love Oour RodeoH harnesses! i highly recommend giving one of those a try. They are super comfortable and easy to use and would be great for a beginner, in my humble opinion. My advice would be to steer clear of cheap harnesses because they are rarely comfortable and may give you a poor impression. At around $45-50, the RodeoH's aren't a huge investment like the Sasha or the Jaguars but they are well made and very comfy.
02/14/2013
IvyFayette IvyFayette
Minx
02/14/2013
ScottA ScottA
It's always best for you both to sit down together and figure out a setup that you both like.
02/15/2013
Terri69 Terri69
Pink candy Minx
02/19/2013
Stinkytofu10 Stinkytofu10
Quote:
Originally posted by EmeraldDawn
I'd love to hear from those who have tried these. Right now I'm wanting the pink candy one but that could be just cause of the color!
Pink candy Minx
02/19/2013
srexom srexom
Pink candy Minx
02/20/2013
amazon amazon
SpareParts
02/22/2013
higs higs
The Minx if price isn't a concern!
02/23/2013
bibeatrice bibeatrice
I like my jaguar the best
02/25/2013
Lioncub Lioncub
Pink Candy Minx
02/25/2013
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