Fem Harness for Feeldoe (Rodeoh, Spareparts, Velvet Nest) help?

dstar dstar
First post here, been reading through all the info here and really glad I found this spot. We are a M/F couple who both identify as bi and are looking to get a better pegging rig. We started out with the bendover beginners kit with the silk dildos, but the wife couldn't get into as much even with a vibe. Had a little luck with her wearing a WeVibe under the hearness but it's still a little disconnected.

We are excited by the strapless designs, and I think from reading reviews the Feeldoe Slim will be our choice. The Shares seems to have major flop/weight issue, and I wanted something slimmer but the Xs is way too small. We've also decided on a getting a harness just for added support, but want to find something on the feminine side.

I really liked the designs of the Velvet Nest harnesses, but I keep hearing horror stories about ordering, and I've sent them a few emails in the last few weeks with no responses (these were just to see what may be in stock or how their backlog is looking). I got pointed to the Rodeoh's, which the panties versions are looking very cute. I emailed Rodeoh and got a response super fast saying that while they didn't design the panties to be feeldoe compatible, they pointed me to a review by a customer that showed her using a strapless with the brief style by pulling down the cloth between the wearer and the O ring. Rodeoh said the panties are designed similar so it shouldn't be an issue but I still can't find anyone who could say for certain it works.

I also see the Spareparts stuff highly recommended, but the ones that seem to be strapless compatible are more the 2-strap style/heavy duty look. Spareparts also have more lingerie style, but can't find any reviews of those paired with a strapless strapon either.

Anyone out here having any real bedroom experience you could share? I'd also love to hear any guidance on Feeldoe Slim or maybe some alternatives. The main thing is getting mutual stimulation, I find it makes me get into the moment even better knowing she would be getting more than just an external vibe.
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panaru panaru
Quote:
Originally posted by dstar
First post here, been reading through all the info here and really glad I found this spot. We are a M/F couple who both identify as bi and are looking to get a better pegging rig. We started out with the bendover beginners kit with the silk dildos, ... More
it depends how much control you're after. the spare parts was the first really good harness i had, then i moved on to a similar diva harness with back support. then i went w the rodeoh to feel closer to my partner as that harness is really bare bones. the body heat through it makes a more intimate experience, but with that it takes more time to get lined up bc of it's lack of support.....which is fine with me now but i dunno about when i started out. (think superhero underwear)
Apr 28, 8:37 pm
panaru panaru
Quote:
Originally posted by dstar
First post here, been reading through all the info here and really glad I found this spot. We are a M/F couple who both identify as bi and are looking to get a better pegging rig. We started out with the bendover beginners kit with the silk dildos, ... More
oh and the feeldoe is hard vs the share which is squishy silicone. i say share.
Apr 28, 8:39 pm
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