First experience?

Rraine Rraine
Was your first experience nerve wrecking?
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
I was very nervous my first time
32  (52%)
I was not nervous my first time
19  (31%)
Other: please explain
11  (18%)
Total votes: 62
Poll is closed
12/12/2012
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sXeVegan90 sXeVegan90
I wasn't nervous.
12/12/2012
moonhexed moonhexed
Quote:
Originally posted by Rraine
Was your first experience nerve wrecking?
I'm nervous - I haven't done it yet.
12/12/2012
Loriandhubby Loriandhubby
once you get over the crazy thoughts and let go, things are really fun.
12/12/2012
Graniteal Graniteal
I was incredibly nervous, but once I relaxed it was all fine.
12/12/2012
Yaoi Pervette (deleted) Yaoi Pervette (deleted)
I wasn't nervous; I was horny!
12/12/2012
MsDrProfKitty MsDrProfKitty
I wasn't nervous, it hasn't happened yet
12/13/2012
Upyourreviews Upyourreviews
Quote:
Originally posted by Rraine
Was your first experience nerve wrecking?
I was actually the one that made the move my first time. I wish I didn't though because it seems like I'm always the dominant one with whoever I'm with! ;-)
12/13/2012
Martiniman Martiniman
Was more nervous of the situation than the actual sex. However, the night turned out to be a blast.
12/13/2012
SilverMinxxx SilverMinxxx
I was nervous to say the least.
12/13/2012
higs higs
I've had anxiety problems, and I was practically shaking when I asked to try it for the first time!
12/13/2012
stlouisxxx stlouisxxx
Nervous, excited, and a lot of other emotions running rampent.
12/25/2012
travelnurse travelnurse
I haven't brought it up yet!! And yes, it is nerve wracking!!
12/25/2012
TrenchcoatHunters TrenchcoatHunters
Quote:
Originally posted by Rraine
Was your first experience nerve wrecking?
I was a little
12/25/2012
HarlequinBunnie HarlequinBunnie
Quote:
Originally posted by Rraine
Was your first experience nerve wrecking?
I vote other and I really don't want to explain. Sorry
12/25/2012
Zandrock Zandrock
Super nervous
12/25/2012
bog bog
Quote:
Originally posted by Rraine
Was your first experience nerve wrecking?
I didn't know what I was doing. Now I know to go slow and be patient! (That poor fellow!)
12/25/2012
ScottA ScottA
This is a good reason to do plenty of solo and partner handheld play before strapping it on. If you know how the dildo feels, how your partner works, and how your body works it's much more comfortable.

I can't imagine going from nothing to anal with no prep.
12/27/2012
gwenevieve gwenevieve
Quote:
Originally posted by Rraine
Was your first experience nerve wrecking?
not nervous, just ecstatic ;P
01/23/2013
butts butts
Kinda nervous, mostly excited.
01/23/2013
Bignuf Bignuf
Quote:
Originally posted by Rraine
Was your first experience nerve wrecking?
Thankfully, it was mellow and cool. Set the tone for those to follow.
01/31/2013
Passion plum Passion plum
I wasn't nervous and I wasn't even drunk at the time.
01/31/2013
misterazor misterazor
Quote:
Originally posted by Rraine
Was your first experience nerve wrecking?
i'm looking forward to it. she has no idea what's coming! i'm walking her slowly into it. baby steps.
02/02/2013
bratcat bratcat
im always a little nervous when i have a sexual encounter with a new partner. as for my frist time i had intercourse i was both nervous and sacred as my partner at the time was more experienced than myself and also i was very young.
02/02/2013
EmeraldDawn EmeraldDawn
I haven't yet
02/11/2013
Yellow Dog Yellow Dog
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Originally posted by Yaoi Pervette (deleted)
I wasn't nervous; I was horny!
This.
02/11/2013
Brenden Brenden
Yes, my husband and I are going to try this very soon. I'm very nervous, to say the least.
02/13/2013
Funtastic Funtastic
Very nervous.
02/15/2013
Lovesickalien Lovesickalien
Definitely nervous.
02/15/2013
SecondStory SecondStory
It was fairly low-key so I wasn't very nervous. The first time I seriously topped someone I was, though.
02/16/2013
Total posts: 30
Unique posters: 30