For the guys - Do you prefer a realistic dildo or non realistic dildo while getting pegged?

stlouisxxx stlouisxxx
In the private voting, I am wondering if the guys who are getting pegged would rather have their woman wear a realistic dildo, or have a non penis looking dildo in their harness, or if they don't care.
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
Realistic - the more it looks like a real penis, balls & all the better it is
39  (22%)
Non realistic - I would rather not have a dick come at my behind
60  (34%)
No preference at all.
75  (43%)
Total votes: 174
Poll is closed
05/29/2011
  • Buy 1 Vibrator Get 1 FREE
  • Limited offer: Save 25% on Blush Toys
  • Annual Clearance - Save 40%
  • Better Price Sale - Save 50%
  • Better Price Sale - Save 60%
  • 1
  • 2
  • 3
  • 4
  • 5
All promotions
stlouisxxx stlouisxxx
I for one would rather have a non penis looking dildo in her harness that would be aimed at pegging me. I'm not sure if I could logically justify the reason behind it, but I am more comfortable with a colorful silicone extension that doesn't resemble a penis. I'm not ready to feel balls slap against me as she is thrusting her new found extension in & out of me.
I haven't asked her opinion on it, but I doubt it matters to her, maybe a female version of this would be needed.
05/29/2011
ScottA ScottA
When I started I was definitely in the non-realistic camp. Abstract and colorful just made it more comfortable.

Now it doesn't bother me as much either way. Because a non-realistic dildo isn't limited to a certain shape my opinion is that they can be made more stimulating/better feeling, but unfortunately there are few large nonrealistics out there, at least carried by EF.

Currently my top dildos include a realistic (VixSkin Maverick) as well as several nonrealistics (Tantus Squirt/Captain, Vixen Astro, and the doubles).
05/29/2011
Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
I don't hate realistic - it's just that 99% of what I like is glass with subtle textures. Like ScottA indicated, there may be a maturing of my tastes as I have more experience.
05/29/2011
CrimsonCat CrimsonCat
I started out with realistic, but then leaned towards non-realistic mostly because I began enjoying the visual aspect of black dildoes coupled with black lingerie.

But this is just a very minor preference. Overall, I don't care as long as it is made of quality material and feels good.
05/30/2011
slynch slynch
Large realistic!
05/30/2011
Kindred Kindred
I don't have a preference in terms of appearance. I'm much more interested in shape/texture/size and how it feels.
05/30/2011
CafeSabroso CafeSabroso
I like it both ways. Kind of depends on the mood, the type of play, and what size range I feel like that particular day. For gender play, the realistic cocks definitely add to the realism and help her get into it. Other times, however, a girls just wants to have a pink cock, so we use a non-realistic one for those occasions.
05/30/2011
RonLee RonLee
Non realistic !
It is NOT that "I would rather not have a dick come at my behind"
I don't want a realistic Vagina or Anus as a masturbation sleeve either.
Form should follow function but a vibrator or dildo does not need veins or wrinkled foreskin bunched up below the "head" of the toy. It's a toy for goodness sake, be creative
05/30/2011
ScottA ScottA
It's interesting that much of the discussion seems to be around color rather than form.
05/31/2011
cntrliljack cntrliljack
Non realistic, but colorful dildos do look hot on the ladies
06/05/2011
Geese hunter Geese hunter
Prefer the non realistic, but whatever is in her harness I will accept
06/05/2011
JewelsAndB JewelsAndB
For us, it is about the intent. If the pegging is part of a scene including humiliation, then a realistic dildo is a must. If the pegging is just for milking or anal stimulation... the stylized dildos are usually better.

If it was just based on how they feel, I would sat that the non-realistic tend to be better because they have more creative shapes and textures.
06/05/2011
ac0313 ac0313
Quote:
Originally posted by Kindred
I don't have a preference in terms of appearance. I'm much more interested in shape/texture/size and how it feels.
Same for me. In fact, we just bought and tried out the Echo after using the Silk Medium.
06/05/2011
Mr. & Mrs. Peg Mr. & Mrs. Peg
Love a realistic cock...adds to the visual. Prefer the good fella most of all.
06/05/2011
bend over hottie bend over hottie
Doesn't really matter to me. We have a bunch of different ones that rang from realistic, non realistic and in the middle.
06/12/2011
Pixel Pixel
Answering on behalf of my submissive (male) partner, and he says he definitely prefers the more realistic ones.
06/27/2011
Spilock Spilock
It doesn't really matter to me as long as it feels right. So far we've only used abstract though.
07/03/2011
Pegaholics Pegaholics
We prefer non-realistic ones. The smoother the better!
07/05/2011
ScottA ScottA
Quote:
Originally posted by Pegaholics
We prefer non-realistic ones. The smoother the better!
Smooth is especially a plus for beginners. It took me a while before I could deal with much texture.
07/05/2011
The Honeymooners The Honeymooners
I think I would rather have a non-penis look alike because I am absolutely not attracted to men. It is the thought of a woman dominating me in a way that technically isn't possible for her to do without help. So the more non penis it is the better
07/05/2011
Big Dman Big Dman
I choose non-realistic, but only because I prefer silicone toys.
07/09/2011
lanky lanky
smoooth
07/11/2011
The Honeymooners The Honeymooners
Quote:
Originally posted by JewelsAndB
For us, it is about the intent. If the pegging is part of a scene including humiliation, then a realistic dildo is a must. If the pegging is just for milking or anal stimulation... the stylized dildos are usually better.

If it was just based ... More
Great advice! Non it is.
07/13/2011
Bottom Boy Bottom Boy
My dominant girlfriend looks so sexy and intimidating wearing one of those pornstar reproduction dildos in her Spareparts Joque harness it just makes my heart tremble. We have quite a collection of this type, balls and all, in varying shapes and sizes to suit our particular tastes for the evening (and most bigger than my own). We had started out pegging with the 'stylized' ones that are small and smooth, then graduated up to those with exaggerated, regular textures, but these soon got boring. They also look like they should be attached to a robot or belong on some kind of alien creature. We now agree we prefer realistic dongs that look natural and have 'human' imperfections, and enjoy the variety of several models--I'm not giving out any names, though. I have to say they feel so much nicer inside me, and are a much bigger psychological turn-on for her too. Realistics all the way for us, but then 'chacun à son goût'. (BTW, She's a Scorpio and I'm a Virgo, LOL. )
08/11/2011
Miss Nessa Miss Nessa
Realistic
08/11/2011
The Curious Couple The Curious Couple
I've never been pegged before, but it wouldn't really matter to me.
08/11/2011
shankinbro shankinbro
As long as it feels good and isn't too big I dont have a preference. May try the whole clone-a-willy thing and get pegged by myself, lol.
08/11/2011
Bottom Boy Bottom Boy
I wanted to add that as a kinky straight male, I'm secure in my masculinity and still have my limitations. I am not sexually attracted to other men, although I may admire another guy's equipment almost to the point of envy. When I clean off our "toys" with anti-bacterial soap after a night of fun, I like to hold them as if they were part of my own anatomy and pretend to be masturbating myself. Under no circumstances do they ever enter my mouth, and my girlfriend never insists that I "suck her off" when she's wearing one of them. As a side note, although our preference is for porn-star copy realistics (still not telling names) we occasionally use the not-too-realistic Fun Factory Share -- especially when she wants to practice her Kegel exercises. We exclusively make our pegging love in the doggie-style position too, usually after she graces me with a good, hard spanking.
08/12/2011
null null
I voted for my partner, he used to be really against realistic toys, but he's since gotten less embarrassed about enjoying pegging so now he has no preference. Whatever feels good, feels good!
08/12/2011
Total posts: 99
Unique posters: 84