I'm answering for my husband. When we started he only wanted the non-realistic dildos. About three dildos in he decided he didn't care anymore and just wanted whatever was going to feel the best. His initial hang up was that he didn't want anything that looked like a real dick coming at him. I guess because he thought this would somehow make him feel gay about the whole thing. Once he got it in his mind that pegging didn't make him gay, the look of the dildo no longer mattered. In fact, his favorite dildo happens to be a realistic one based on how it feels.
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For the guys - Do you prefer a realistic dildo or non realistic dildo while getting pegged?
01/17/2012
I prefer non-realistic dildos - they are just "better looking", colorful etc. My girlfriend also prefers them. I guess a purple dildo can be more easily associated with "fun" and is less serious, which is especially important at the beginning. However, now when we want to try some gender-play we use more realistic one - with balls, veins and that can cum!
01/19/2012
as long as it's not painful, who cares. I never see it...it's in my ass.lol
02/08/2012
The closest to realistic I like would be my wife's Feeldoe...
02/08/2012
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If you want large semi-realism and awesome texture go for the Tantus O2 Revolution. It has dual-consistency (harder inside for support and softer/fleshy outside) with a very large, soft head.
Originally posted by
ScottA
When I started I was definitely in the non-realistic camp. Abstract and colorful just made it more comfortable.
Now it doesn't bother me as much either way. Because a non-realistic dildo isn't limited to a certain shape my opinion is ... more
Now it doesn't bother me as much either way. Because a non-realistic dildo isn't limited to a certain shape my opinion is ... more
When I started I was definitely in the non-realistic camp. Abstract and colorful just made it more comfortable.
Now it doesn't bother me as much either way. Because a non-realistic dildo isn't limited to a certain shape my opinion is that they can be made more stimulating/better feeling, but unfortunately there are few large nonrealistics out there, at least carried by EF.
Currently my top dildos include a realistic (VixSkin Maverick) as well as several nonrealistics (Tantus Squirt/Captain, Vixen Astro, and the doubles). less
Now it doesn't bother me as much either way. Because a non-realistic dildo isn't limited to a certain shape my opinion is that they can be made more stimulating/better feeling, but unfortunately there are few large nonrealistics out there, at least carried by EF.
Currently my top dildos include a realistic (VixSkin Maverick) as well as several nonrealistics (Tantus Squirt/Captain, Vixen Astro, and the doubles). less
I'm starting to get my bf into it because I can tell he wanted something a bit bigger than the O2 Niagara. He definitely loves it so go try it out!
02/10/2012
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have you tried vixskin?
Originally posted by
Bebela
If you want large semi-realism and awesome texture go for the Tantus O2 Revolution. It has dual-consistency (harder inside for support and softer/fleshy outside) with a very large, soft head.
I'm starting to get my bf into it because I ... more
I'm starting to get my bf into it because I ... more
If you want large semi-realism and awesome texture go for the Tantus O2 Revolution. It has dual-consistency (harder inside for support and softer/fleshy outside) with a very large, soft head.
I'm starting to get my bf into it because I can tell he wanted something a bit bigger than the O2 Niagara. He definitely loves it so go try it out! less
I'm starting to get my bf into it because I can tell he wanted something a bit bigger than the O2 Niagara. He definitely loves it so go try it out! less
I LOOOOVE vixskin with all my heart but, ive not tried O2.
But I wanna.
02/10/2012
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My lady and I are wild about her wearing a replica taken from a real porn star. We've even made videos of her fucking me in the ass with one, and love watching them together.
Originally posted by
Boobs and Lubes
as long as it's not painful, who cares. I never see it...it's in my ass.lol
03/02/2012
I like non-realistic, only because some of the non-realistic ones have uunique shapes like bulbs or ridges
03/02/2012
I don't think it would matter on which one it was.
03/02/2012
I see no real need for it to be realistic, it's just another great fun toy, it shouldn't have to resemble a penis, saying that if it's the perfect feel who cares!
03/11/2012
you know
It didn't really bother me one way or another. As long as it is from her I do not care. Visually I wanted colorful to really draw attention. That said my gf expressed wanting a non realistic colorful one.
04/04/2012
Never been pegged before, but if one day a miracle happens and the opportunity comes about, I would prefer a non realistic dildo, but then again, I'll take what I can get.
04/04/2012
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I prefer the realistic look, but it has more to do with the feel during the act. With non realistic you have a much larger selection of textures.
Originally posted by
stlouisxxx
In the private voting, I am wondering if the guys who are getting pegged would rather have their woman wear a realistic dildo, or have a non penis looking dildo in their harness, or if they don't care.
07/11/2012
I'm interested to see what the women have to say for their preference.
07/11/2012
I don't mind a real cock up my ass, but a dildo isn't a real cock and I prefer when it doesn't pretend to be one.
07/20/2012
The realistic ones look really good but the non realistic ones look like they might feel better so I don't really have a preference.
07/24/2012
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We have used both. I don"t really have a preference as to looks. Do prefer the cyberskin/ur3 material types, though.
Originally posted by
stlouisxxx
I for one would rather have a non penis looking dildo in her harness that would be aimed at pegging me. I'm not sure if I could logically justify the reason behind it, but I am more comfortable with a colorful silicone extension that doesn't
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I for one would rather have a non penis looking dildo in her harness that would be aimed at pegging me. I'm not sure if I could logically justify the reason behind it, but I am more comfortable with a colorful silicone extension that doesn't resemble a penis. I'm not ready to feel balls slap against me as she is thrusting her new found extension in & out of me.
I haven't asked her opinion on it, but I doubt it matters to her, maybe a female version of this would be needed. less
I haven't asked her opinion on it, but I doubt it matters to her, maybe a female version of this would be needed. less
07/24/2012
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Realistic, but no hair would be great.
Originally posted by
stlouisxxx
In the private voting, I am wondering if the guys who are getting pegged would rather have their woman wear a realistic dildo, or have a non penis looking dildo in their harness, or if they don't care.
07/24/2012
I don't really care but I do prefer something with a high degree of texture.
08/06/2012
I would prefer a realistic looking dildo (when we do start pegging), I don't know why but I have always wanted to feel what it was like being with a guy, without actually having to be with a guy. So for me the more realistic looking the better.
08/09/2012
It really depends on the mood. Realistic really turns her on which makes it so much better.
09/27/2012
It does not matter to me if it is realistic or not. The size and shape are more important. The two that we have for the strapon right now are realistic the next one probably will be purple.
10/03/2012
I answered for my husband - he doesn't care what it looks like, it just has to feel good.
We don't own a large number of dildos and two of them (three if you count vibrating ones) are non-realistic. The dildos were purchased for me and I chose the material first (silicone) then did my homework before buying my first VixSkin. I LOVE the feel of VixSkin!
So, by default, my husbands choices are pretty limited but it turns out he really likes the feel of VixSkins, too. He says they're much more comfortable than the O2 Cush.
We don't own a large number of dildos and two of them (three if you count vibrating ones) are non-realistic. The dildos were purchased for me and I chose the material first (silicone) then did my homework before buying my first VixSkin. I LOVE the feel of VixSkin!
So, by default, my husbands choices are pretty limited but it turns out he really likes the feel of VixSkins, too. He says they're much more comfortable than the O2 Cush.
10/03/2012
I vote no preference, but if takes a realistic dildo to have some sensation (I DO NOT like toys that are perfectly smooth with no texture/bumps) then I would prefer a veiny thing.
11/21/2012
i prefer it to look realistic. (i'm not straight, though, if it matters - but my answer refers to when i'm being done by a girl)
11/21/2012
Call me immature but supposed "realistic" dildos look hysterical to me...that and I, as the male,would not like to feel balls back there.
02/01/2013
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rather have non-penis shaped...preferably glass.
Originally posted by
stlouisxxx
In the private voting, I am wondering if the guys who are getting pegged would rather have their woman wear a realistic dildo, or have a non penis looking dildo in their harness, or if they don't care.
02/02/2013
I like realistic. I'm bisexual and married; I only have sex with my wife, but I still enjoy the experience of being with as realistic a cock as possible. My favorite dildos are both Vixskin: Johnny and Mustang.
I like the design of the Goodfella, with its 360° balls, even though it's not big enough to be fully enjoyable. Feeling balls bump up against my ass definitely adds to the illusion. I hope Vixen will make a larger version of this design soon; something about the size of Johnny would be totally excellent.
I like the design of the Goodfella, with its 360° balls, even though it's not big enough to be fully enjoyable. Feeling balls bump up against my ass definitely adds to the illusion. I hope Vixen will make a larger version of this design soon; something about the size of Johnny would be totally excellent.
02/05/2013
Realistic vs. non-realistic? He does not have a preference. Either way as long as the size is good. Sometimes I choose the toy based on what matches the outfit or harness I'm wearing. He willingly takes what is offered.
02/05/2013
He prefers non-realistic
02/25/2013