For the guys - Do you prefer a realistic dildo or non realistic dildo while getting pegged?

Contributor: Rub My Ducky Rub My Ducky
I don't mind realistic dildos, and some of them are quite attractive, but I think the colors and designs of non-realistic ones make them a whole lot more fun.
02/26/2013
Contributor: Herzer Herzer
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Originally posted by stlouisxxx
In the private voting, I am wondering if the guys who are getting pegged would rather have their woman wear a realistic dildo, or have a non penis looking dildo in their harness, or if they don't care.
Personally there isn't a big difference but I prefer the feel of the non-realistic ones.
03/13/2013
Contributor: Yellow Dog Yellow Dog
Realistic is shape and a little larger than realistic in length and girth (but not freakishly large).
04/05/2013
Contributor: Trysexual Trysexual
I haven't really done it, but realistic or semi-realistic would probably be my preference.
04/08/2013
Contributor: Alex Time Alex Time
Quote:
Originally posted by stlouisxxx
In the private voting, I am wondering if the guys who are getting pegged would rather have their woman wear a realistic dildo, or have a non penis looking dildo in their harness, or if they don't care.
I only have non realistic but it doesn't really matter.

Its all about feeling for me.
05/07/2013
Contributor: dannorth dannorth
I prefer phallic smooth shapes (like tantus curve dong) - it's something between realistic and non-realistic ones.
05/09/2013
Contributor: libbyv libbyv
Quote:
Originally posted by stlouisxxx
In the private voting, I am wondering if the guys who are getting pegged would rather have their woman wear a realistic dildo, or have a non penis looking dildo in their harness, or if they don't care.
pegging didn't work well for us, but hubby likes when i use a realistic dildo on him. he likes the shape more
05/09/2013
Contributor: magicmaxx Mr.Mrs magicmaxx Mr.Mrs
realistic
05/11/2013
Contributor: John444 John444
I like a nice purple or pink dildo. A little flare where the head is. tantus and Luxe fetish make ones that don't make me feel like i'm getting the real thing. Plus it looks hot pink harness with a purple dong. So hot instead of some scary black anaconda. yikes.
05/30/2013
Contributor: Yoda Yoda
I'm OK either way. If we're just pegging and nothing else, than it doesn't matter. If we're doing some gender play, however, than it should be realistic.
05/30/2013
Contributor: wideopenmale wideopenmale
real.The more its shaped like big fat cock the sluttier I feel. Plus she can start with just the head and ease in letting me feel every inch and now days theres lots of those.LM well used AO
07/29/2017
Contributor: OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
Either is fine. And we discovered Size does matter
07/29/2017
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
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Originally posted by OH&W, Lovebears
Either is fine. And we discovered Size does matter
We do find that for both of us - the shape of a real penis - that is one with a head somewhat larger than the shaft works best.

Both of our favorites - Outlaw and Carina are phallic shaped - but not obviously penis shaped like the porn star molds for example.

Yes indeed, we agree - size does matter

And a few adult beverages make things work more smoothly
07/29/2017
Contributor: OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
Gals prefer realistic. The sight of a long big dick hanging and dangling is very very empowering. The howl he makes when it goes in can make some of us cum.
07/30/2017
Contributor: Don35 Don35
Only realistic for sure!
08/30/2017
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
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Originally posted by Gunsmoke
I don't hate realistic - it's just that 99% of what I like is glass with subtle textures. Like ScottA indicated, there may be a maturing of my tastes as I have more experience.
Fast forward nearly 7 years...

For anal play I still love non-phallic toys like Njoy's Eleven - but when she's pegging me the dildos are realistic - that is they have a head modeled on a male penis. Coloration and size wise they are not realistic.

One option that was not mentioned is 'fantasy shapes' like the BD line of products some of which are modeled on animal shapes or fictional animals like a dragon. They are kind fun as well.
04/13/2018
Contributor: Andykh Andykh
Realistic mostly
04/15/2018
Contributor: SexyBigEars69 SexyBigEars69
doesnt matter which. As long as it's silicone and feels really good
06/06/2018
Contributor: OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
Either is ok. Most ours are realistic. The larger the head the more pleasure. Bad Dragon Nox ( medium) is fantastic, but has a big big head and tapered before widening out again.

Not for beginners.
08/09/2018
Contributor: Smooth69 Smooth69
I already ride realistic looking dildos
I’m going to ask my wife to peg my ass next hoping she’s willing
And I’ll take it realistic or anything she’ll give me !
08/13/2018
Contributor: GingerAnn GingerAnn
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02/12/2019
Contributor: Mr.Pitt Mr.Pitt
I prefer non phallic but have penis ones too.
08/11/2019
Contributor: C and J C and J
You honestly can't tell if it's shaped like a sick or a rod lol it all feels good ??????
11/22/2019
Contributor: Robin Goodfellow Robin Goodfellow
Quote:
Originally posted by stlouisxxx
In the private voting, I am wondering if the guys who are getting pegged would rather have their woman wear a realistic dildo, or have a non penis looking dildo in their harness, or if they don't care.
I said no preference. Because of the way you phrased the Non-realistic description, " I would rather not have a dick come at my behind".

I don't mind a realistic looking dildo, but prefer non-realistic because I find it more stimulating to have big ridges, and a bulbous head or knot.
12/21/2019
Contributor: Dss Dss
Quote:
Originally posted by stlouisxxx
In the private voting, I am wondering if the guys who are getting pegged would rather have their woman wear a realistic dildo, or have a non penis looking dildo in their harness, or if they don't care.
Realistic
10/24/2020
Contributor: Playwithme71 Playwithme71
Non- realistic is plenty enough to get my juices flowing and my cock Rock hard. For the most part I have no preference on what she wants to use. I enjoy doing solo once in a while. I play and play getting myself to that point and then I just relax, trying not to bust a nut or two. Having a prostate massage is ideal for a GREAT ORGASM, but beware it's definitely loaded.
07/22/2021
Contributor: Playwithme71 Playwithme71
HELLO OUT THERE, HOW OLD IS EF? ALL THE POSTS I'VE READ ARE DATED 2011.
CAN EE PLEASE GET WITH THE TIMES....
07/22/2021
Contributor: Leil@ Leil@
Quote:
Originally posted by Playwithme71
HELLO OUT THERE, HOW OLD IS EF? ALL THE POSTS I'VE READ ARE DATED 2011. CAN EE PLEASE GET WITH THE TIMES....
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