Best Harness Free Pegging Toy?

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Best Harness Free Pegging Toy?

RemusHalifax RemusHalifax 11/14/2011

I've never tried pegging before, but I'm currently domming a guy who's *really* into it. So, while for now I'll be using a harness, I want to save up the money to get a harness-free dildo. I want to know what's the easiest / most comfortable to use or if there's really no difference between most products.

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RemusHalifax RemusHalifax
Please post why you selected a certain product.
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Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
We have the Share and it's a good product - but using it without a harness is too distracting. It has the largest 'pony' yet to keep it in and still thrust takes so much concentration that it's distracting.

Honestly I don't think you really save money using a 1-piece product. If you get or have a good harness you have the flexibility to try out many different toys. You can pick a smaller toy for easy days and larger toys for adventurous days.

That's my opinion - good luck.
11/14/2011
RemusHalifax RemusHalifax
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Originally posted by Gunsmoke
We have the Share and it's a good product - but using it without a harness is too distracting. It has the largest 'pony' yet to keep it in and still thrust takes so much concentration that it's distracting.

Honestly I don't ...
I'm going to get a harness too (I know someone who can make it custom for me), but I like the idea of the harness-free products because I want it to look more natural. Thanks for the advice, though.
11/14/2011
Kindred Kindred
I think of all the double ended dildos, the Share is the most likely to be successful without a harness since it has the largest pony as Gunsmoke said. Not many women can really use them harness free or for long once natural lubrication starts flowing.
11/14/2011
RemusHalifax RemusHalifax
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Originally posted by Kindred
I think of all the double ended dildos, the Share is the most likely to be successful without a harness since it has the largest pony as Gunsmoke said. Not many women can really use them harness free or for long once natural lubrication starts ...
Fair point. It doesn't look like it would provide much stimulation, though and I don't get really wet unless my g-spot is really stimulated. We'll have to see. If it's not the most effective, it'll still be fun for gender play.
11/14/2011
ScottA ScottA
Of the three the Share would be my pick for two reasons. First, it will be the easiest to keep in because of the larger pony (although a harness still helps). The way they're set up the Feeldoe requires more strength to keep in because of the bulb design.

Even with a harness a double adds increased stimulation and a bit more control for the wearer. The Share cradles the vulva a bit, so when you thrust in and grind it stimulates the giver. The Feeldoe has a vibe, but it contacts less of the female genitalia during use.

Secondly, the Share is a softer toy, which means that it will be comfortable for the getter in more positions. I find the Feeldoes are a bit more "position sensitive" - in some positions they're comfortable, in others they poke too much.
11/16/2011
SiNn SiNn
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Originally posted by RemusHalifax
Please post why you selected a certain product.
deff the share
11/19/2011
Beck Beck
It looks like these would require kegels of steel, otherwise I do not see it staying in very well.
11/21/2011
unfulfilled unfulfilled
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Originally posted by Beck
It looks like these would require kegels of steel, otherwise I do not see it staying in very well.
Exactly what I was wondering how that was going to work.
11/21/2011
Kynky Kytty Kynky Kytty
If you can get your hands on a Happy Valley Tango, get it. It's smaller than the Share, less floppy, has a bullet option AND... feels so fucking good on the g-spot (for the holder).
11/21/2011
Snozzberries Snozzberries
I have the feeldoe violet but it looks like I should pick up the Share as well, based on this poll.

I'm going to start using my feeldoe with a harness to see if it makes it easier.
12/13/2011
Jammin14580 Jammin14580
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Originally posted by RemusHalifax
Please post why you selected a certain product.
Just getting my edenpoints - sorry
12/14/2011
klyte klyte
My girlfriend doesn't want to get the Realdoe, but I'm ALL about it. It's a question we toss up a lot, Share or Realdoe? I love the realistic factor that she shares don't have.
12/14/2011
RemusHalifax RemusHalifax
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Originally posted by Snozzberries
I have the feeldoe violet but it looks like I should pick up the Share as well, based on this poll.

I'm going to start using my feeldoe with a harness to see if it makes it easier.
Do you find it's difficult to keep it in without the harness?
12/14/2011
ScottA ScottA
Feeldoe is generally more difficult to use harnessless because the less sculpted giver's pony requires more muscles to hold in, whereas the sculpted Share/Tango can "catch" on the pubic bone.
12/21/2011
RemusHalifax RemusHalifax
Oh, alright, I see what you mean! That makes sense. Thanks, Scott!
12/21/2011
Boobs and Lubes Boobs and Lubes
Feeldoes were just too heavy for us,
02/08/2012
Various Various
I have my eye on the Share, but haven't purchased it yet.
03/12/2012
ScottA ScottA
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Originally posted by Various
I have my eye on the Share, but haven't purchased it yet.
Before spending money on a double, make sure that you as a couple are interested in harness play. Yes, you can use a double hand-held, but it's a lot of money for that.
04/02/2012
lisasharrer lisasharrer
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Originally posted by RemusHalifax
Please post why you selected a certain product.
i havent but i would love to thay look sweet.
04/15/2012
mmyeaxxx mmyeaxxx
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Originally posted by RemusHalifax
Please post why you selected a certain product.
titanmen products, they know mens sexuality angd designed therfe products to accommodate the preferenses of curiosity of mens anatomy. id sugest a beginners tool box and slim 6''x1'' dong "without the balls" just a basic stimulator the real lookalikes make many men weary and make think its gay. I play but never with a lookalike check it out I insist
05/06/2012
Fawkes Fawkes
personally for this purpose, I/we would suggest a harness...
05/12/2012
BlooJay BlooJay
Share
05/12/2012
Stinkytofu10 Stinkytofu10
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Originally posted by RemusHalifax
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Share (Purple)
05/16/2012
Fawkes Fawkes
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Originally posted by ScottA
Feeldoe is generally more difficult to use harnessless because the less sculpted giver's pony requires more muscles to hold in, whereas the sculpted Share/Tango can "catch" on the pubic bone.
thanks
05/20/2012
Vegan Silk Vegan Silk
the share looks easiest to hold onto
05/20/2012
theavocadopit theavocadopit
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Originally posted by RemusHalifax
Please post why you selected a certain product.
05/23/2012
brevado brevado
I love my feeldoe
07/07/2012
sexykiss sexykiss
i stick with a harness.. if u are wanting the feeldoe because it vibrates on you id just go with a vibrating harness your not saving anymore money or loosing any money its really your preference
07/07/2012
Lovely Jubblies Lovely Jubblies
The Share
07/24/2012
Zandrock Zandrock
The feeldoe was made for female/female penetration. I would go with the share

I would also like to point out. Very very few women can peg without a harness. The anal muscles are stronger than your pelvic floor muscles. It is just the way it is. That being said a double ended harness used with a harness can definitely add to your pleasure and make the experience more fun. You just need to find a compatible harness.
07/24/2012
JackNit JackNit
I think I want a harness strap on but I might give the share a try.
07/24/2012
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