Harness versus...

That's the best. And has a pocket for a bullet/ tango. Can go in washing machine too. Nice stretchy O ring for them larger ones.

Anyway I think that falls in choice # 1- Harness strap on.

So how many harness do you have. We have 3 so, no need remove dildo
( dicks as you say) He likes 3-4 different ones each session. Spoiled, different sizes and shapes, (BD's ) less

Ha, I have 3 too, tho I mainly did that because once I 'discovered' the Joque I got paranoid it'd get damaged or something and then I'd find they were discontinued and my sex life'd be ruined. I've also bought a few for different GFs tho too, so yeah a lot of them have entered the market because of me.

They are kinda involved in terms of switching out dicks, so that's a pretty innovative approach you have. It's worth it for the performance tho - nothing else really comes close IME, and I've been at it a long time. less

We use 3 at a time because don't want to get them messy.

Removing the "dicks" will certainly get lube all over them. They all are still in excellant condition.

Got the Liberator pantie harness in white with black markings to match the BS IS Nice white dildo with black spots. A gal got to be in style you know.

The Joque and leather one should last a lifetime. less

In all seriousness I think the aesthetics are very important. I want to be able to bring the dick in a major way but I also want to look good doing it, know what I mean? And feel like a boss lol, which looking good will help with.

I have some dildos that I wear just for show or to get blow jobs with, just because the visual is really cool. No coincidence they're usually very large.

Do you usually pick multi-colored/brightly colored toys? I'm usually more into the 'real' look, altho that ends up being black more often than not. Ha, I love talking shop about this stuff, and you sound like a bad girl. (Takes one to spot one.) less

Boss, yes, yes yes powerful boss at that. With the proper dil (yeah, I know you like "dick" better) got the power.

No bj's here. How large is large

We have a few multi-colored BD's. Here's the BD Nocture and Nox for you to drool over. Also have the Austin and Nova in multi-color.

Any BD's in your arsenal ? Any canine themes?

Black ? Nah. He wouldn't let me if I wanted black anyway.
Few flesh tones. And first one was brown like him.

And no, not a bad girl. Just a loving one less

She likes the feminine look of the Sasha and I have to admit that I do too. Now that I think about it, she also might like the Bella too. It's funny, 2 months ago, this was a hard no for her and I have no idea why (actually I know why...) Anyway, I'm slowly dragging her around to see things from my point of view . I'm just kidding with that last sentence. It's totally consensual. less

She likes the feminine look of the Sasha and I have to admit that I do too. Now that I think about it, she also might like the Bella too. It's funny, 2 months ago, this was a hard no for her and I have no idea why (actually I know why...) Anyway, I'm slowly dragging her around to see things from my point of view . I'm just kidding with that last sentence. It's totally consensual. less

Congratulations, sounds like she's now the giver and you're the receiver. Or depending on who's turn it is. Looking forward to reading your experiences in the other pegging threads.
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No need to be shy. You already let the cat (strapons) out of the bag. Speaking of strapons, what are her (your) favs. less

It's a pretty natural transition. Usually once a woman puts the whole thing on and feels the swing of her dick, any reservations go away and that urge to experiment takes over. (And the challenge with getting it on her is societal - just hangups about gender roles.)

But that's why it's important to get a good harness. If she straps up but doesn't feel empowered because her dick feels disconnected from her body and just sort of hangs there, she'll mainly feel silly. But if she gets that sense of power and drive and force from a well-fitted harness with a big dick that's held firm and strong ....well there's no looking back lol. Something instinctive about that urge and need to use it. less

It's a pretty natural transition. Usually once a woman puts the whole thing on and feels the swing of her dick, any reservations go away and that urge to experiment takes over. (And the challenge with getting it on her is societal - just hangups about gender roles.)

But that's why it's important to get a good harness. If she straps up but doesn't feel empowered because her dick feels disconnected from her body and just sort of hangs there, she'll mainly feel silly. But if she gets that sense of power and drive and force from a well-fitted harness with a big dick that's held firm and strong ....well there's no looking back lol. Something instinctive about that urge and need to use it. less