How did you or your partner bring up pegging?

salaciousrex salaciousrex
Was it really awkward for one of you?
05/10/2011
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ToyGurl ToyGurl
Um what is pegging? I'm surprised that I work at Planned Parenthood and the Women's and Couple's Health Centers and I don't know what this is...
05/10/2011
Tori Rebel Tori Rebel
Pegging is the act of a woman donning a strap-on and anally penetrating a male partner.

Was it awkward for us? Not really. We kind of transitioned slowly from exterior anal play with fingers, to internal play with fingers, to small plugs and probes, to pegging so it was really just the next logical step for us.
05/10/2011
ToyGurl ToyGurl
Thank you Tori Rebel. I've actually done this, but it wasn't a full on huge dildo. Did it one time with my fiance, and he's laughing really hard right now watching me post this. We used a small plug type toy. It was just longer so that it could go deeper, and it was made of glass. Almost like a butt plug connected to a butt plug... connected to a butt plug. A graduated toy.

It was a little awkward on his side, as he is explaining to me. He's never been into anal, and still honestly isn't. We don't really even touch that area, except for some outer massage. Maybe a centimeter in the hole, but still, just massaging. He enjoyed when I first inserted it about an inch, but not past there. He said it did not feel comfortable.

For me, I didn't think it was at all. I felt really natural because he's my fiance. We've been together 5 years, and there's no part of his body I haven't seen. Just like Tori Said, it's just the next logical step. You don't necessarily have to like the next step, but there's no harm in trying it.

He now will use the smaller, thinner prostate toys. Similar to G-Spot toys. But pegging is not happening again. Thanks for letting me know what the heck it is. How funny!
05/10/2011
Illusional Illusional
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Originally posted by ToyGurl
Um what is pegging? I'm surprised that I work at Planned Parenthood and the Women's and Couple's Health Centers and I don't know what this is...
I didn't know either.
05/10/2011
Illusional Illusional
Quote:
Originally posted by Tori Rebel
Pegging is the act of a woman donning a strap-on and anally penetrating a male partner.

Was it awkward for us? Not really. We kind of transitioned slowly from exterior anal play with fingers, to internal play with fingers, to small plugs and ... More
It sounds interesting, but I don't know if I could.
05/10/2011
Tori Rebel Tori Rebel
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Originally posted by ToyGurl
Thank you Tori Rebel. I've actually done this, but it wasn't a full on huge dildo. Did it one time with my fiance, and he's laughing really hard right now watching me post this. We used a small plug type toy. It was just longer so that it ... More
No problem I don't know if it's a term everyone is familiar with simply because a lot of people refer to it as strap-on sex. The only reason I can think of (and don't quote me on this, I really am guessing) for a separate term is to differentiate between a strap on being used by a female on a male and a female using a strap on on another female.
05/10/2011
Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
After reading about pegging @ EF - I definitely wanted to try it out. My wife had warmed up to the idea of using various toys for p-spot stimulation - but no harnesses or double dildos.

I got her to try it out by telling her that I was asked to write a review for the Fun Factory Share! She took the bait and gave it her best shot. After some fumbling ad laughing we finally got it all to work - but in the end she just said she's not into role-reversal.
05/10/2011
stlouisxxx stlouisxxx
One evening while my Girlfriend was playing the domme, she made a comment that she would enjoy watching me take a dildo. Since then she slowly introduced anal play on me, while giving bj's to finger me, or insert small objects in me. A year or 2 after the initial comment she stated that she thought I would enjoy pegging. I then bought a harness & a dildo & she was real excited.
05/10/2011
Peg Peg
He brought it up; he said that since he was getting to do me that if I wanted to see what the view was like from his perspective it would be cool with him. Did not really think about it one way or another. About a month later we were on Eden and he brought up the topic again and we looked at a few harness/dildos. As they say the rest is history...
06/26/2011
Evercurious1 Evercurious1
The whole topic came about when my wife stated she frequently imagined sex from my position when masturbating, more specifically meaning what it would look like from my point of view. That led to a discussion about whether she had ever thought about actually being in that position to do the deed and it moved forward from there. We talk about these things easily so it wasn't awkward at all.
10/05/2011
MIT09 MIT09
I brought it up to my wife and it didn't go over too well. She didn't say much at all. I just asked her to think about it. Now I'm not sure even when to bring it up again. Any advise?
11/04/2011
ScottA ScottA
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Originally posted by MIT09
I brought it up to my wife and it didn't go over too well. She didn't say much at all. I just asked her to think about it. Now I'm not sure even when to bring it up again. Any advise?
Try to find out what concerns her. It might be any number of things, including her feeling that she will be less feminine with a "cock". Tell her why you are interested and reinforce that it is something that you only want to do with her. They've now renamed the "g-spot"/ Skene's glands to be the "female prostate", so if she likes G-spot stimulation point out that you have the same thing.

Also, don't press it. She's uncomfortable for a reason, and if you can tease it out and reassure her than great, but take your time.
11/12/2011
ScottA ScottA
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Originally posted by Gunsmoke
After reading about pegging @ EF - I definitely wanted to try it out. My wife had warmed up to the idea of using various toys for p-spot stimulation - but no harnesses or double dildos.

I got her to try it out by telling her that I was asked ... More
Pegging doesn't have to be played as role reversal any more than any other sex act. "Penis" is associated with "male" so strongly that it often is thought of in that way, but it doesn't have to be. If you want to try it again you might think of some ways she can still be very feminine (and ways you can reinforce her femininity) while she's pegging you.
11/12/2011
Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
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Originally posted by ScottA
Pegging doesn't have to be played as role reversal any more than any other sex act. "Penis" is associated with "male" so strongly that it often is thought of in that way, but it doesn't have to be. If you want to try it ... More
Thanks for your comments. Maybe I didn't convey her feelings adequately. She just doesn't get anything out of the pegging genre, for her there are just things she likes more.
11/12/2011
Kendrir Kendrir
Brought up the idea in one of our "what turns you on" / "What would you like to try some day" talks. Started out with a desire to explore anal play, and ii grew from there, basically.
11/12/2011
PassionCpl PassionCpl
I was just coming out of a g/g relationship when I met my now-hubby. I'd mentioned that my ex g/f and I used to use a strap-on and that I thought it would be hot to try with him too. Now, 10 years later we've just got our first good kit (we've had one or two over the years that just didn't work out for us for one reason or another).
11/13/2011
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