How soon do you tell a new partner you're into pegging?

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How soon do you tell a new partner you're into pegging?

kdlt kdlt
My partner and I recently purchased our first strap-on and accompanying dildo. It got me wondering: how soon do you usually tell your partner that you are interested in wearing a strap-on and having sex with them?
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05/17/2015
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Inquisitor Inquisitor
I'm only 1 guy and this is my opinion. I only speak for myself. I think it might be best to slowly introduce it to the partner once you guys have established a serious relationship. One where both you and the other person both feel comfortable with each other.

As a guy, I realize that many guys would be put off by this idea for various reasons. I'd try to assure the guy (may I assume this is a guy you might be pegging?) that being pegged has medical benefits as well as a very pleasurable physical benefit.

Personally, I would want to know that my partner knows exactly what they are doing with regards to this and know what to expect should things take a nasty turn. Also, if the partner was enthusiastic about doing it, I'd like that also. I wouldn't want my partner to feel obligated, be bribed, feel the need to be convinced or feel guilted into doing it.

Do you know if your partner has ever used a butt plug before? That might be the gateway to some serious knee buckling, full body shaking orgasms.
05/18/2015
RonLee RonLee
The sooner the better so that you don't waste time with someone who considers pegging a deal breaking no go.
05/18/2015
Vnessa Vnessa
Once your relationship has taken that sexual turn, honesty is always the best policy. If this is something that is important to you in your relationships, it's important that you address it early on to see if your partner might be interested as well. If there's no interest then you have a very tough decision to make. Either you sacrifice your need for your partner's comfort or you walk away and find someone with similar desires.
05/18/2015
BusyMe BusyMe
Those are all great ideas.. I like the as soon as your getting intimate and it comes to mind that your feeling into it would be the first time I would bring it up. That's why I said the first month your into your sexual aspect of the relationship, it probably depends on how often your wanting to do it that way.
05/19/2015
Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
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Originally posted by RonLee
The sooner the better so that you don't waste time with someone who considers pegging a deal breaking no go.
Seems like good advice. When we got married - and for years thereafter I didn't even know pegging is a 'thing'. After learning about it from online porn it took me while to decide I wanted to try and another couple of years to convince my wife. Once your in a long-term relationship you don't present these things as a litmus test, it's more about convincing/cajoling 'til you get there.

It has been well worth the patience.
08/10/2015
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