Is it gay?
Is it gay?
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No. It can be a lot of fun. Anal sex has a lot to offer for both sexes, and has nothing to do with gay.
Originally posted by
Justfilthy
Is it gay to like it when your girlfriend or wife sticks in you anus?
However, the anus is a sensitive part of your body and there ARE emotions attached to sexual play there. Especially in North America. Learning to like it physically and mentally might require smaller steps and adjustment similar to many other sexual activities.
Take a look at a lot of the reviewers on this site and what they have reviewed. There are many that play with anal sex, and some like Jimbo Jones that are very happily married and explore a lot sexually.
10/08/2009
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Well, gay is being sexually attracted to people of your own gender, so if you are a lady, Justfilthy, and you have a wife or girlfriend, there's a good chance you may be gay. If you are a gentleman with a wife or girlfriend, you simply have to accept that god played a little joke on us by hiding a powerful sex organ inside our rectums, and try to enjoy it!
Originally posted by
Justfilthy
Is it gay to like it when your girlfriend or wife sticks in you anus?
How do you mean "girlfriend or wife sticks in you (sic) anus"?
10/09/2009
Triple H
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Absolutely not!!
Originally posted by
Justfilthy
Is it gay to like it when your girlfriend or wife sticks in you anus?
I am happily married and anal sex in both directions is a healthy and totally satisfying part of our physical relationship.
BTW, the most intense orgasms I have ever had were when anal stimulation or penetration was occurring.
10/17/2009
i agree with everyone else, i love getting it in the ass, and, my wife doesn't. im the only one who like it in the booty, and im not gay. Being gay, i think, is when you can have a sexually active, loving relationship with someone of the same sex. I may someday have a threesome with my wife with a guy, not sure, but i could never love a man (or another woman while im on the subject) the way i love her, so, i dont fit what i think is the bill. I love women!
11/06/2009
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well said
Originally posted by
Kinky Skier
i agree with everyone else, i love getting it in the ass, and, my wife doesn't. im the only one who like it in the booty, and im not gay. Being gay, i think, is when you can have a sexually active, loving relationship with someone of the same sex. I
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i agree with everyone else, i love getting it in the ass, and, my wife doesn't. im the only one who like it in the booty, and im not gay. Being gay, i think, is when you can have a sexually active, loving relationship with someone of the same sex. I may someday have a threesome with my wife with a guy, not sure, but i could never love a man (or another woman while im on the subject) the way i love her, so, i dont fit what i think is the bill. I love women!
11/07/2009
I would totally agree- it's not "gay." Having your wife or girlfriend penetrate you is different because your sexual activity is taking place with a member of the opposite sex. "gay" or homosexual activity occurs when the sex act is between two members of the same gender.
Does it feel good? Abso-fucking-lutely. And, there can be a mental turn on as well. Reversing roles allows you to let down your guard, lets her be in charge and gives you a completely different sexual experience.
Does it feel good? Abso-fucking-lutely. And, there can be a mental turn on as well. Reversing roles allows you to let down your guard, lets her be in charge and gives you a completely different sexual experience.
01/01/2010
Just as a side note: there are many gays who don't do anal play. It seems that most tend to enjoy blowjobs. Therefore, you could say that:
If enjoying receiving anal play as a man makes you "gay" because gay couples enjoy anal play
AND
gay males also enjoy receiving blowjobs
THEN
enjoying receiving a blowjob is "gay"
See the silliness in the logic?
The big question is how much does it really matter. My sexuality is important to me and my partners, and possibly my doctor in certain instances. Not really important to any other people.
Jack Morin has an interesting thesis presented in his book Anal Pleasure and Health. He surmises that male fear of enjoying anal stimulation is three-parted: fears of the taboo nature of anal play, fears of being "gay", and more hidden (but none the less powerful): fears of feminization. Interesting thought - I wonder what's so scary about women in males' collective unconscious?
If enjoying receiving anal play as a man makes you "gay" because gay couples enjoy anal play
AND
gay males also enjoy receiving blowjobs
THEN
enjoying receiving a blowjob is "gay"
See the silliness in the logic?
The big question is how much does it really matter. My sexuality is important to me and my partners, and possibly my doctor in certain instances. Not really important to any other people.
Jack Morin has an interesting thesis presented in his book Anal Pleasure and Health. He surmises that male fear of enjoying anal stimulation is three-parted: fears of the taboo nature of anal play, fears of being "gay", and more hidden (but none the less powerful): fears of feminization. Interesting thought - I wonder what's so scary about women in males' collective unconscious?
01/02/2010
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This response, despite its accuracy, made my actually laugh out loud.
Originally posted by
Bill Ditchburn
Well, gay is being sexually attracted to people of your own gender, so if you are a lady, Justfilthy, and you have a wife or girlfriend, there's a good chance you may be gay. If you are a gentleman with a wife or girlfriend, you simply have to
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Well, gay is being sexually attracted to people of your own gender, so if you are a lady, Justfilthy, and you have a wife or girlfriend, there's a good chance you may be gay. If you are a gentleman with a wife or girlfriend, you simply have to accept that god played a little joke on us by hiding a powerful sex organ inside our rectums, and try to enjoy it!
How do you mean "girlfriend or wife sticks in you (sic) anus"?
How do you mean "girlfriend or wife sticks in you (sic) anus"?
01/06/2010
I've just joined the site, so as an intro... I'm a chick. I have a dirty mind. I am a one-guy girl. I like him tying me up, but I plan to tie him up soon. He bought me a strap-on, and the role switch is highly enjoyable.
But back on topic, the way I think of it is this -
Being gay or straight is about who you're interested in, and not what you're interested in doing with him and/or her.
But back on topic, the way I think of it is this -
Being gay or straight is about who you're interested in, and not what you're interested in doing with him and/or her.
03/13/2010
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That is exactly they same reaction I had.
Originally posted by
Domineight
This response, despite its accuracy, made my actually laugh out loud.
Bill is correct..."gay" is based on who you are sexually attracted to, not what you do sexually. It really isn't a huge deal; it's isn't for everyone, but a lot of men do enjoy it. The simple act doesn't make you gay...honestly I believe a lot more goes into sexual identity than just sex.
03/13/2010
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"dated"??? I guess I should be glad that they haven't reached for "archaic" yet.
Originally posted by
navigator-d
Very gay ! - using dated meaning of the word.
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The sad part is that to many people "gay" now means pretty much the opposite of what it used to, as in "that's so gay".
02/26/2011
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Nice reply
Originally posted by
Bill Ditchburn
Well, gay is being sexually attracted to people of your own gender, so if you are a lady, Justfilthy, and you have a wife or girlfriend, there's a good chance you may be gay. If you are a gentleman with a wife or girlfriend, you simply have to
...
Well, gay is being sexually attracted to people of your own gender, so if you are a lady, Justfilthy, and you have a wife or girlfriend, there's a good chance you may be gay. If you are a gentleman with a wife or girlfriend, you simply have to accept that god played a little joke on us by hiding a powerful sex organ inside our rectums, and try to enjoy it!
How do you mean "girlfriend or wife sticks in you (sic) anus"?
How do you mean "girlfriend or wife sticks in you (sic) anus"?
03/29/2011
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Nice reply
Originally posted by
Bill Ditchburn
Well, gay is being sexually attracted to people of your own gender, so if you are a lady, Justfilthy, and you have a wife or girlfriend, there's a good chance you may be gay. If you are a gentleman with a wife or girlfriend, you simply have to
...
Well, gay is being sexually attracted to people of your own gender, so if you are a lady, Justfilthy, and you have a wife or girlfriend, there's a good chance you may be gay. If you are a gentleman with a wife or girlfriend, you simply have to accept that god played a little joke on us by hiding a powerful sex organ inside our rectums, and try to enjoy it!
How do you mean "girlfriend or wife sticks in you (sic) anus"?
How do you mean "girlfriend or wife sticks in you (sic) anus"?
03/29/2011
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