Ladies - how many men have you pegged?

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How many men have you pegged and how did you approach him about this? Did he resist and how was it?
06/21/2010
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Jul!a Jul!a
I've only pegged one. And I brought it up just out of curiosity. Asked him if he had ever done it with anybody else, if he would be willing to try it with me, and so on. Kept it an open and honest conversation. Because he trusted me completely, he was willing to try this with me even tho previous girlfriends had tried this with him and he refused. It was a little awkward for him at first, but now we've got positions, speeds, lubes, and different toys down really well.
06/21/2010
Sammi Sammi
None here.
06/21/2010
Tuesday Tuesday
None here. No one has even asked.
06/21/2010
shepegs shepegs
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Originally posted by Jul!a
I've only pegged one. And I brought it up just out of curiosity. Asked him if he had ever done it with anybody else, if he would be willing to try it with me, and so on. Kept it an open and honest conversation. Because he trusted me ...
So you guys are totally pros now? lol, that's cool.
06/22/2010
Jul!a Jul!a
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Originally posted by shepegs
So you guys are totally pros now? lol, that's cool.
The stuff that works for us. We're still new to the whole game just because we don't have much free time, so the stuff we've got now, we're pros with. But we're looking to expand and experiment more
06/22/2010
~LaUr3n~ ~LaUr3n~
Never wanted to do it before. I had a stigma about it for awhile. Still very new.
06/22/2010
Brian Brian
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Originally posted by ~LaUr3n~
Never wanted to do it before. I had a stigma about it for awhile. Still very new.
Lauren, I remember reading a comment you wrote on a review that said something like "I don't think I'll ever be in a position to try something like this" I took that to mean that you didn't think you'd ever have a guy that was in to that. Are you saying instead that you weren't comfortable with it at the time? What changed? Was it your partner that requested it or did you bring it up?
06/23/2010
shepegs shepegs
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Originally posted by ~LaUr3n~
Never wanted to do it before. I had a stigma about it for awhile. Still very new.
Stigma or just don't enjoy it?
06/23/2010
Peg Peg
Only one, must be doing something right, he keeps coming back for more
06/25/2010
Alan & Michele Alan & Michele
Two, before I met Alan. One was a guy who was already into it, who taught me A LOT.

The other was a guy who wanted to do anal on me (and I wasn't real experienced at the time). Since I'd pegged with the previous bf, my answer was to him was basically "You first." Well, he liked it, but I felt a little bad because his next girl friend broke up with him because she didn't like the fact that he kept asking her to do him (lol).
06/25/2010
Naughty Student Naughty Student
None so far, my man thinks it is unatural for a woman to be the penetrator...poor him, he will never know the pleasures of anal stimulation until he opens up his narrow way of seeing things, lol.
06/26/2010
clp clp
One.

I am lucky that our interest in trying developed together, starting with "I like watching this," to "I'd be willing to try this," to "lets do it!" I am so glad that we did, as well, because it absolutely enriched our sex life as well as the level of trust and intimacy we can achieve as partners.

I can definitely see the difficulty that can come up from it, though. Like Michele said, I wonder how the conversation would go if a man were to spring it on an unsuspecting woman, or vice-versa. I enjoyed it so much that I will definitely explore it more in the future. While I don't think I'd break up with someone that refused, I probably wouldn't be happy to be with someone unwilling to experiment. I am already at the level of play that if the many many toys and costumes haven't struck your fancy, you probably won't be interested in my bedroom as a whole.
06/26/2010
Miss Cinnamon Miss Cinnamon
I have pegged one. We sort of approached each other about it, really. It came up in discussion and he'd tried it before with one of his previous partners, and I was interested in trying it with him. No resistance from his part Good times were had by all.
06/27/2010
~LaUr3n~ ~LaUr3n~
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Originally posted by Brian
Lauren, I remember reading a comment you wrote on a review that said something like "I don't think I'll ever be in a position to try something like this" I took that to mean that you didn't think you'd ever have a guy that ...
It was a combination of things. I was never with someone who wanted to which was fine because I never wanted to. All the literature and media I had seen was of VERY submissive men and I don't like that so I never saw myself being with a submissive guy like that. BUT, then I met some people on the internet who were not submissive at all and realized that you don't have to be submissive to like this. Then it was a fantasy a very distant one. I was with a guy with disgusting hygiene back there and so it stayed a fantasy because I never actually got to the point where I wanted to do it on a guy. BUT...then later on I got with a very manly guy, more so than any I have been with and who has the cleanest ass I've ever seen.

So yes, I wasn't into it at all, then uncomfortable, then there was no situation to. Neither I nor my partner requested it although we mis-communicated and thought we did. It's kind of a long story lol.
06/28/2010
~LaUr3n~ ~LaUr3n~
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Originally posted by shepegs
Stigma or just don't enjoy it?
Stigma. I enjoy it now. This was before.
06/28/2010
Midway through Midway through
I've done one so far. I'm planning on more in the future
07/22/2010
Lady Venus Lady Venus
I'm a pegger virgin. Would I do it? Probably.
07/23/2010
P'Gell P'Gell
Quote:
Originally posted by shepegs
How many men have you pegged and how did you approach him about this? Did he resist and how was it?
None for me. In our relationship, (which is mildly to moderately D/S) penetration is for My Man to do.

I think it's really great whatever people get into, it's just not something I have ever wanted to do.

I'm kind of a "I'll lie here (or stand her or sit here) and you do stuff to me." girl, unless I'm pleasuring him the way HE wants.

In fact, we were talking about some pegging one of us had read about, and he got really serious, and said, "You don't want to do anything like that to me, do you? I'm not into that kind of thing." I said, No, not at all, and I got the sigh of relief of all sighs of relief. HIS ass is kind of a sacred zone.
07/23/2010
Lif3sambiguity Lif3sambiguity
none i am a lezzy
11/06/2010
Beaners Beaners
Only my current boyfriend. And he actually brought it up. He mentioned it to me before we were dating, when he was dating another girl who wouldn't do it, so that kind of paved the way for it when we started dating (yeah, we had a pretty open friendship, lol). I think it was maybe only the 4th or so time we had sex that he was like, "Alright, are you down for this?" I hadn't ever thought about it before, but I went into it balls to the wall (no pun intended) and I'm glad I did. He never thought he'd find a girl who wanted to do it, he figured he'd be begging for it for the rest of his life, now I'M the one begging HIM to let me put it in his ass.

Man, if we ever break up *knocks on wood* I'm going to have a serious problem. A guy who will take it up the ass is pretty much a requirement for me now.
12/28/2010
Love&War Love&War
Just hubby!
07/05/2011
Ivy Wilde Ivy Wilde
None... yet.
07/05/2011
l'amour l'amour
I've only pegged one, my Fiancé. He was already into anal play before he met me, I just opened him up to new things.
07/06/2011
Gingy Gingy
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Originally posted by shepegs
How many men have you pegged and how did you approach him about this? Did he resist and how was it?
None, Im a lesbian and totally confused by this whole subject lol
07/09/2011
Antipova Antipova
I have only had one partner ask for it, though looking back I think if I had known it had existed earlier, there were a few guys who I'm sure would have been open to it.

My pegging partner asked me about it --- very nonchalantly, I asked "What're you thinking about?" on like our second date (what an embarrassing question to ask...whoops) but he answered "I was wondering if you've got a strap-on. You seem like the kind of chick who knows how to peg a guy."

I told him I didn't, and had him explain what it was to me ... and then we quickly went and picked out a harness together. And it turns out I loved it. I wish I had more opportunities to do some pegging now...
07/09/2011
Kristerk72 Kristerk72
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Originally posted by P'Gell
None for me. In our relationship, (which is mildly to moderately D/S) penetration is for My Man to do.

I think it's really great whatever people get into, it's just not something I have ever wanted to do.

I'm kind of a ...
To bad for him.
03/13/2012
Mia.The.Wonder.Slut Mia.The.Wonder.Slut
I have only pegged my partner, but I have plans to peg another guy from the couple we swing with.
03/18/2012
TexasBrat TexasBrat
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Originally posted by shepegs
How many men have you pegged and how did you approach him about this? Did he resist and how was it?
Only one, my hubby.
04/05/2012
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