New to strap-ons

Anne Anne
My boyfriend and I are just trying out a strap-on and I'm a little nervous. I've never done it before, but I've always been interested in the thought of it, so I'm not scared. He's also new, and I'm worried if I penetrate him, I might be too rough, or the anal starter by Doc Johnson might be too flimsy or big. What would you suggest for me starting out?
07/15/2012
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Start out slow. Make sure you check in with him to see how he's doing, if you're going too slow or fast, etc. Has he done any anal play before? If not, either have him do some experimenting on his own with fingers or toys or play together with fingers as a warm up. Don't just start out with pegging only to find out that he hates things in his ass, you know? Plus if he plays some on his own, he'll be better able to communicate with you how he likes it.

We started with the Silk Medium which is a bit on the floppy side, but a good starter size. He outgrew it quickly and we moved on the to Acute. He outgrew that one fast, too.
07/15/2012
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Originally posted by Anne
My boyfriend and I are just trying out a strap-on and I'm a little nervous. I've never done it before, but I've always been interested in the thought of it, so I'm not scared. He's also new, and I'm worried if I penetrate ... More
My wife fucks me with a strap on about once a week and she has been for several years. The most important is dildo diameter. The maximum diameter that is comfortable for me is 1 3/8 inch,but 7 inches long is fine. Use lots and lots of lube-put lube on the dildo and on his opening. When you think you have enough lube put more on. Also we like vibrating dildos. It is very important to use a harness that has small vibrators to stimulate her clitoris. Our favorite position is with me on my back with my legs drawn up. She gets between my legs and inserts the dildo in me. In this position she can easily reach my dick. She puts lube on my dick and gives me a handjob while she fucks me. We usually cum together. Our favorite dildo are Vibrating Mistress and Vibrating leisure. We also like Silk small, medium and large. We also like Pro Touch.

Good luck and enjoy.
07/16/2012
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