Does the reward/enjoyment from pegging, for you, focus more on the physical feeling of being penetrated or is it more the psychological experience? If both does it have an order?

Contributor: squire squire
Is my partner and I become more experienced with pegging I have noticed that the reward I get from the experience first comes from the psychological component, but then moves more into the physical pleasure part. It's a blend of both to be sure, but the freedom I get to fully experience the physical come first from acting out the fantasy, thus leading to my question about reward.
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
Physical feeling of being penetrated
7
Psychological experience during play
1
Both
35
Total votes: 43 (42 voters)
Poll is closed
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Contributor: ToyTimeTim ToyTimeTim
While she has not "Pegged" me yet, she does use toys on me quite often. Like you it starts with the psychological component, I get so excited when I know she is going to do me. Once she gets going it is all about the sensation and stimulation.
09/03/2011
Contributor: Ghost Ghost
Psychological. I like to dominate him.
09/03/2011
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
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Originally posted by ToyTimeTim
While she has not "Pegged" me yet, she does use toys on me quite often. Like you it starts with the psychological component, I get so excited when I know she is going to do me. Once she gets going it is all about the sensation and stimulation.
This is our case as well. My wife doesn't like the role-reversal idea, but I like the strong p-spot assisted orgasms and she's OK with that.
09/03/2011
Contributor: robertk2380 robertk2380
It is definitely both for me. The psychological reward is very compelling in the beginning, but then the physical takes over and all I can think about is how she is making me feel (fantastic).
09/04/2011
Contributor: squire squire
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Originally posted by robertk2380
It is definitely both for me. The psychological reward is very compelling in the beginning, but then the physical takes over and all I can think about is how she is making me feel (fantastic).
Quite an amazing experience where one is able to really get into their body but also be driven to states of pleasure that take you to another place
09/06/2011
Contributor: Beaners Beaners
I voted for my boyfriend. It's definitely a both experience for him. There's the whole your-cock-is-slamming- into-my-prostate thing, but there's the psychological me being inside him component to it as well. It depends on what kind of pegging we're doing with regards to which comes first.
09/07/2011
Contributor: The Curious Couple The Curious Couple
I've never been pegged, but when using toys it's definitely a combo of both!
09/08/2011
Contributor: Spilock Spilock
A little bit of both for me. It feels awesome, but it's also awesome to be like t hat with her.
09/10/2011
Contributor: Bottom Boy Bottom Boy
Definitely both -- I love the feeling her being 'inside' me, even if vicariously, and she thrills at the notion of being on top and 'in charge'.
09/12/2011
Contributor: stlouisxxx stlouisxxx
It is both & the order changes each time she pegs me. Sometimes it is 1st the psychological then physical & others it reverses, & 1 way isn't any better or worse than the other
09/25/2011
Contributor: Big Dman Big Dman
I just love how it feels...
09/25/2011
Contributor: ScottA ScottA
Probably a bit of both, but if it didn't feel great I probably wouldn't do it, so the physical is more important.
09/26/2011
Contributor: MR Chickhabit MR Chickhabit
i like being penetrated, she likes experimenting (but not actually following through) with domination.

i get to cumm, thats all i care about when im being pegged by her.
09/26/2011
Contributor: CrimsonCat CrimsonCat
I voted for 'both', but it's mostly psychological for me. I like to be dominated in these cases. And sometimes, if for one reason or another I cannot climax, the psychological reward was enough for being satisfied with the whole act.
10/03/2011
Contributor: poetprincess poetprincess
Quote:
Originally posted by squire
Is my partner and I become more experienced with pegging I have noticed that the reward I get from the experience first comes from the psychological component, but then moves more into the physical pleasure part. It's a blend of both to be sure, ... more
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Contributor: sureYnot sureYnot
I love being penetrated by a woman - the various anal sensations, prostate stimulation and being made love "to" and somewhat "taken" by her. It's all quite sexy and addictive.
10/11/2011
Contributor: PassionCpl PassionCpl
Definitely both. It's amazing fucking him but I also like to get something from it as well.
10/27/2011