I'm trying to decide between the Silk Large, Acute and Bandito for our next dildo. It would primarily be used for pegging. Any experience anyone has beyond what's in the reviews would be helpful. Thanks.
The three dildos are all pretty similar with only minor differences. The Silk Large is the longest but completely smooth, the Acute is the smallest in girth but is the most angled, and the Bandito is the largest in girth and has some texture. The Silk and Acute also have somewhat flimsy bases which don't always work great in a harness. So if the size and texture are not an issue, I would probably go with the Bandito. Personally, I have the Acute and really like it, despite the flimsy base. The angle works great for prostate targeting.
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When you post a question - try to be more specific. Since you want a new toy, I assume you've done it before - so are you looking for more stretch, deeper penetration, better p-spot stimulation? Help us help you!
Thanks for the help. I'm currently using a silk medium. I'd like something slightly larger and a bit of more curve to it for better p-spot stimulation. That being said, I'm leaning towards the bandito, but the reviews that I looked hadn't used it for pegging. If anyone has used the bandito for pegging, I like to hear their thoughts on it.
Thanks for the help. I'm currently using a silk medium. I'd like something slightly larger and a bit of more curve to it for better p-spot stimulation. That being said, I'm leaning towards the bandito, but the reviews that I looked hadn't used it
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Thanks for the help. I'm currently using a silk medium. I'd like something slightly larger and a bit of more curve to it for better p-spot stimulation. That being said, I'm leaning towards the bandito, but the reviews that I looked hadn't used it for pegging. If anyone has used the bandito for pegging, I like to hear their thoughts on it.
We're not into strap-on play - but my wife penetrates me with a number of our glass toys. I love the Silenzio - it's the waves - they aren't too close together but are very noticeable. I'm getting ready to move up a size - so I'm shopping as well!
There are lots of strap-on toys, I'm sure you'll find something you like. We have the Tiger and O2 Revolution (for my wife) - but they don't look butt friendly - unless you're a real experienced player.
The Bandito would probably give you the best prostate stimulation because of the length and curve. I love my Acute for G-spotting but it's hard to reach my partner's prostate with it. Its base is also VERY flimsy and not good for harness use!
All these are nice, but our favorites are Vibrating Mistress(Vixen Creations) and Vibrating Leisure(Tantus). The maximum diameter that is comfortable for me is 1 3/8 inch, but I love the 7 inch long Leisure. I love taking all 7 inches of it.
The Bandito would probably give you the best prostate stimulation because of the length and curve. I love my Acute for G-spotting but it's hard to reach my partner's prostate with it. Its base is also VERY flimsy and not good for harness use!
Babeland carries something called the Slip Not that is great for dils with flimsy bases. It does take a little of the insertable length away which can be an issue for shorter cocks but it's a lifesaver (cocksaver?) for those that are over 5" in insertable length.
I think I'm going to hunt down the 'EF should carry' thread and add it because it's amazing.
I prefer longer dildos for pegging so there is plenty of reach in the harness.
If you are looking for smaller the mistress is nice at about 1 1/4. But the Vibrating Leo is spectacular at just under 1 1/2 inches, slightly firm with a great curve and stable base. It has a great shaped head for easy insertion and is perfect for harness use for the intermediate user. I love it. I am looking to move up to something bigger soon.
I voted for the acute, primarily since I have the Silk Medium. It's a good too, but the complete smoothness of it tends to help lube squeegee itself off.
I really love my Acute and think it's a better dildo for pegging than the Silk Large which is well... Large and best for seasoned users even though it's smooth, and the Bandito has a very sharp curve that may be too rough. The Acute is a nice medium, being on the average or smaller side and having a gentle but worthwhile curve.
For pegging you really want to look for a toy that has 5+ inches of insertable length, and at a minimum 4.5". When you add up the length taken up by the harness, space between the partners, and the cheek-hole distance you loose between 1 and 1-1/2 inches of length. During play you want the dildo long enough that on the outstroke the head is still beyond the anal canal, otherwise it will tend to pop out (that's another inch or so of length). For a 4" dildo that leaves a thrust length of only 2", which isn't much.