Strap-on use on men

The Honeymooners The Honeymooners
What are your opinions on a girl using a strap-on on a man? Have you had any interesting experience with this? If so elaborate. Do you feel it is wrong in any way?
06/22/2011
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MaryExy MaryExy
Plenty of couples do this. It's not wrong at all. I haven't had any experience with it personally, though; it's not our thing, we prefer other activities.
06/22/2011
ScottA ScottA
Many couples do it, and many guys find anal and prostate play (of many sorts) to be very pleasurable. It is, however, something that needs to be moved into by the couple when they're both OK with trying it out. It requires a level of comfort with anal play and a security in the relationship and and openness to the activity by both partners that can't be decided by a quick poll of people.

There are a number of myths about "pegging" (as the act is currently called). No, it isn't gay (the guy is having sex with a girl- it's no more gay then having oral sex with her), and it doesn't hurt (though you do need to prepare, "train" a bit, and be relaxed). With a bit of care it isn't messy, either.

If you're interested I'd strongly encourage giving it a go - but talk it all out first. Both partners need to be comfortable for it to work. Also start with some other anal play to get him used to the sensations and how to relax his anus.
06/22/2011
The Honeymooners The Honeymooners
We have tried it already..I just wondered what other people's opinions were on the issue. Thanks for your input, we surely are a couple who is open and talks about these sorts of things.
06/23/2011
ScottA ScottA
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Originally posted by The Honeymooners
We have tried it already..I just wondered what other people's opinions were on the issue. Thanks for your input, we surely are a couple who is open and talks about these sorts of things.
In that case I'm all for it. It feels great, and it's a different way to be intimate with your partner.
06/23/2011
slynch slynch
My wife and I love it!
06/23/2011
TexasBrat TexasBrat
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Originally posted by The Honeymooners
What are your opinions on a girl using a strap-on on a man? Have you had any interesting experience with this? If so elaborate. Do you feel it is wrong in any way?
I have several strap-ons that I use on my husband, and we've tried several kinds. Some were great, others were failures on one end or the other. It was HIS idea to try them out, and, I admit, I was a bit hesitant, but when I first saw myself with the strap-on with that cock sticking out of "me", I got instantly wet.
I recommend it, so long as both parties agree to it.
06/23/2011
ToyBoy ToyBoy
It is just another form of sexual play in my opinion. I think it is a great activity if both parties are willing and comfortable with each other. I would love to try it but have yet to find the right girl.
06/23/2011
The Honeymooners The Honeymooners
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Originally posted by ToyBoy
It is just another form of sexual play in my opinion. I think it is a great activity if both parties are willing and comfortable with each other. I would love to try it but have yet to find the right girl.
They are fairly rare to come by, I just am super lucky :-D
06/24/2011
kendra30752 kendra30752
No. It is NOT our thing at all and he does not want to do that. Neither of us have ever had ANYTHING inside our butts. I would never put something in his. And he's happy with having sex with my vagina. He doesn't want to try a new hole. Mine works better than fine. I honestly would be totally turned off by doing that to my partner. I like that he's the MAN who puts HIS REAL penis inside my cooter, not my ass. I wouldn't want to be the person with a penis and I certainly would'nt want to put it in a butt.
06/24/2011
Rena Rena
This is definitely something we're interested in. My guy is an "ass guy" with a small bi-curious streak. The idea of pegging intrigues me, and he's willing to try it. We've also been looking for a good harness for possible play with a third.

@Kendra - Ass play may not be your thing, but it is plenty of other peoples. You wouldn't want us judging what gets you off, so try and return the favor and not judge others either.
06/24/2011
dv8 dv8
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Originally posted by kendra30752
No. It is NOT our thing at all and he does not want to do that. Neither of us have ever had ANYTHING inside our butts. I would never put something in his. And he's happy with having sex with my vagina. He doesn't want to try a new hole. Mine ... More
That's an odd comment for a website that sells plenty of fake penises and anal toys.
06/24/2011
dv8 dv8
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Originally posted by The Honeymooners
What are your opinions on a girl using a strap-on on a man? Have you had any interesting experience with this? If so elaborate. Do you feel it is wrong in any way?
The activity is called pegging. There are plenty of discussion threads about it already.
06/24/2011
RonLee RonLee
Love it!
06/24/2011
The Honeymooners The Honeymooners
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Originally posted by kendra30752
No. It is NOT our thing at all and he does not want to do that. Neither of us have ever had ANYTHING inside our butts. I would never put something in his. And he's happy with having sex with my vagina. He doesn't want to try a new hole. Mine ... More
Well it's just not your thing...it's not like that is what I want to do all the time but an occasional romp is always fun. I am more than capable of fucking my girl in HER vagina with MY REAL penis. I didn't think to find such hostilities on a sexual website. Everything aside, Thanks to everyone for the comments! It's fun to see everyone's opinions.
06/29/2011
The Honeymooners The Honeymooners
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Originally posted by Rena
This is definitely something we're interested in. My guy is an "ass guy" with a small bi-curious streak. The idea of pegging intrigues me, and he's willing to try it. We've also been looking for a good harness for possible ... More
agreed.
06/29/2011
kelticshaman kelticshaman
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Originally posted by The Honeymooners
What are your opinions on a girl using a strap-on on a man? Have you had any interesting experience with this? If so elaborate. Do you feel it is wrong in any way?
My girl nd I absolutely love it. She asked me what my fantasies were regardiing pegging and I actually wrote out a brief manual of various scenarios for her and told her she could also freelance. Fortunately she is very innovative and adventurous.
06/30/2011
Rub My Ducky Rub My Ducky
The amount of success you have with this definitely depends on the woman, and I think it only works for a small subset... On one hand, you have to know what it's like to want to be ravished, and on the other, you have to want to be on the other end of that, being the giver, rather than the receiver. I think it's unrealistic to expect men to always be on one end of the deal... It's not an issue with women at all, it's just a matter of anatomy. Kinda tough to "ravish" a flaccid penis with your vagina, so pegging is really all there is to fulfill that type of desire in a man.
06/30/2011
abntroll58 abntroll58
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Originally posted by Rena
This is definitely something we're interested in. My guy is an "ass guy" with a small bi-curious streak. The idea of pegging intrigues me, and he's willing to try it. We've also been looking for a good harness for possible ... More
my wife and I do it a lot, it's not the only thing we do but we do enjoy it
06/30/2011
lanky lanky
i dont think i would feel wrong about. Sex is supposed to be fun. Who cares. I dont have any interest in it though.
06/30/2011
Love&War Love&War
Nothing wrong at all. we've done it several times and he looks forward to it
07/05/2011
robertk2380 robertk2380
Definitely nothing wrong with it. We enjoy it on occasion, but I have to be in the mood for it as does she. Can be very pleasurable for the man. Go for it.
07/07/2011
Tori Rebel Tori Rebel
My ex and I did it frequently and he loved it. I am concerned though, as he was the first I tried it with, how to go about introducing it into a new relationship. Should be interesting!
07/07/2011
P'Gell P'Gell
My Man and I don't peg, but it doesn't work with our personal dynamic.

I think that when it works for a couple, its a great way of yet an other variation on the pleasures that any consensual type of sex may bring! I wholly support peggers. (Is there a T Shirt?)

We have a variation of a D/s relationship, so I don't penetrate him. We engage in a lot of anal play with me as the receiver and we both LOVE it, but that's what works in our relationship. I really wish I hadn't been so resistant to anal sex for as long as I was. What an amazing thing! But, that is only what works for us. I know many many people who have very different dynamics and I think whatever works for each couple is great, as long as they both are happy...and tolerant of the enjoyed activities of other people, who might be quite different than you are.

How could anything that both partners consent to be "wrong?" It can't be.
07/07/2011
Big Dman Big Dman
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Originally posted by Tori Rebel
My ex and I did it frequently and he loved it. I am concerned though, as he was the first I tried it with, how to go about introducing it into a new relationship. Should be interesting!
It should be too difficult. Us guys are pretty simple creatures. Just give a few hints and he'll get the idea.
07/09/2011
The Honeymooners The Honeymooners
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Originally posted by Big Dman
It should be too difficult. Us guys are pretty simple creatures. Just give a few hints and he'll get the idea.
I agree, and some guys may be embarassed at first to tell the girl what he likes. I was a little at first...now its something we do now and then and we both love it.
07/11/2011
The Honeymooners The Honeymooners
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Originally posted by P'Gell
My Man and I don't peg, but it doesn't work with our personal dynamic.

I think that when it works for a couple, its a great way of yet an other variation on the pleasures that any consensual type of sex may bring! I wholly support ... More
Actually, my girlfriend doesn't like anal at all, so I am not able to do her :-(
07/11/2011
stlouisxxx stlouisxxx
It works for us, & she gets off on it more ways than just the O she gets. She also enjoys the fantasy part of it.
07/11/2011
Spilock Spilock
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Originally posted by Tori Rebel
My ex and I did it frequently and he loved it. I am concerned though, as he was the first I tried it with, how to go about introducing it into a new relationship. Should be interesting!
Hopefully, not too difficult. That said though, a lot of guys have masculinity complexes and fear the 'gay implications' of pegging. In a strong relationship though, couples can talk through it and crush those false implications.

On topic now, of course it's not wrong. Various people groups are always going to point at some particular act and accuse it of something, so there are those who will say it is. But two lovers enjoying what they do can never be wrong.
08/03/2011
The Honeymooners The Honeymooners
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Originally posted by Spilock
Hopefully, not too difficult. That said though, a lot of guys have masculinity complexes and fear the 'gay implications' of pegging. In a strong relationship though, couples can talk through it and crush those false implications.

On ... More
Absolutely brilliant response.
08/03/2011
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