What are your opinions on a girl using a strap-on on a man? Have you had any interesting experience with this? If so elaborate. Do you feel it is wrong in any way?
Strap-on use on men
Many couples do it, and many guys find anal and prostate play (of many sorts) to be very pleasurable. It is, however, something that needs to be moved into by the couple when they're both OK with trying it out. It requires a level of comfort with anal play and a security in the relationship and and openness to the activity by both partners that can't be decided by a quick poll of people.
There are a number of myths about "pegging" (as the act is currently called). No, it isn't gay (the guy is having sex with a girl- it's no more gay then having oral sex with her), and it doesn't hurt (though you do need to prepare, "train" a bit, and be relaxed). With a bit of care it isn't messy, either.
If you're interested I'd strongly encourage giving it a go - but talk it all out first. Both partners need to be comfortable for it to work. Also start with some other anal play to get him used to the sensations and how to relax his anus.
There are a number of myths about "pegging" (as the act is currently called). No, it isn't gay (the guy is having sex with a girl- it's no more gay then having oral sex with her), and it doesn't hurt (though you do need to prepare, "train" a bit, and be relaxed). With a bit of care it isn't messy, either.
If you're interested I'd strongly encourage giving it a go - but talk it all out first. Both partners need to be comfortable for it to work. Also start with some other anal play to get him used to the sensations and how to relax his anus.
06/22/2011
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In that case I'm all for it. It feels great, and it's a different way to be intimate with your partner.
Originally posted by
Unmarried Honeymooners
We have tried it already..I just wondered what other people's opinions were on the issue. Thanks for your input, we surely are a couple who is open and talks about these sorts of things.
06/23/2011
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I have several strap-ons that I use on my husband, and we've tried several kinds. Some were great, others were failures on one end or the other. It was HIS idea to try them out, and, I admit, I was a bit hesitant, but when I first saw myself with the strap-on with that cock sticking out of "me", I got instantly wet.
Originally posted by
Unmarried Honeymooners
What are your opinions on a girl using a strap-on on a man? Have you had any interesting experience with this? If so elaborate. Do you feel it is wrong in any way?
I recommend it, so long as both parties agree to it.
06/23/2011
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They are fairly rare to come by, I just am super lucky :-D
Originally posted by
ToyBoy
It is just another form of sexual play in my opinion. I think it is a great activity if both parties are willing and comfortable with each other. I would love to try it but have yet to find the right girl.
06/24/2011
No. It is NOT our thing at all and he does not want to do that. Neither of us have ever had ANYTHING inside our butts. I would never put something in his. And he's happy with having sex with my vagina. He doesn't want to try a new hole. Mine works better than fine. I honestly would be totally turned off by doing that to my partner. I like that he's the MAN who puts HIS REAL penis inside my cooter, not my ass. I wouldn't want to be the person with a penis and I certainly would'nt want to put it in a butt.
06/24/2011
This is definitely something we're interested in. My guy is an "ass guy" with a small bi-curious streak. The idea of pegging intrigues me, and he's willing to try it. We've also been looking for a good harness for possible play with a third.
@Kendra - Ass play may not be your thing, but it is plenty of other peoples. You wouldn't want us judging what gets you off, so try and return the favor and not judge others either.
@Kendra - Ass play may not be your thing, but it is plenty of other peoples. You wouldn't want us judging what gets you off, so try and return the favor and not judge others either.
06/24/2011
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That's an odd comment for a website that sells plenty of fake penises and anal toys.
Originally posted by
kendra30752
No. It is NOT our thing at all and he does not want to do that. Neither of us have ever had ANYTHING inside our butts. I would never put something in his. And he's happy with having sex with my vagina. He doesn't want to try a new hole. Mine works
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No. It is NOT our thing at all and he does not want to do that. Neither of us have ever had ANYTHING inside our butts. I would never put something in his. And he's happy with having sex with my vagina. He doesn't want to try a new hole. Mine works better than fine. I honestly would be totally turned off by doing that to my partner. I like that he's the MAN who puts HIS REAL penis inside my cooter, not my ass. I wouldn't want to be the person with a penis and I certainly would'nt want to put it in a butt.
06/24/2011
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The activity is called pegging. There are plenty of discussion threads about it already.
Originally posted by
Unmarried Honeymooners
What are your opinions on a girl using a strap-on on a man? Have you had any interesting experience with this? If so elaborate. Do you feel it is wrong in any way?
06/24/2011
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Well it's just not your thing...it's not like that is what I want to do all the time but an occasional romp is always fun. I am more than capable of fucking my girl in HER vagina with MY REAL penis. I didn't think to find such hostilities on a sexual website. Everything aside, Thanks to everyone for the comments! It's fun to see everyone's opinions.
Originally posted by
kendra30752
No. It is NOT our thing at all and he does not want to do that. Neither of us have ever had ANYTHING inside our butts. I would never put something in his. And he's happy with having sex with my vagina. He doesn't want to try a new hole. Mine works
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No. It is NOT our thing at all and he does not want to do that. Neither of us have ever had ANYTHING inside our butts. I would never put something in his. And he's happy with having sex with my vagina. He doesn't want to try a new hole. Mine works better than fine. I honestly would be totally turned off by doing that to my partner. I like that he's the MAN who puts HIS REAL penis inside my cooter, not my ass. I wouldn't want to be the person with a penis and I certainly would'nt want to put it in a butt.
06/29/2011
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agreed.
Originally posted by
ValH
This is definitely something we're interested in. My guy is an "ass guy" with a small bi-curious streak. The idea of pegging intrigues me, and he's willing to try it. We've also been looking for a good harness for possible play with a
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This is definitely something we're interested in. My guy is an "ass guy" with a small bi-curious streak. The idea of pegging intrigues me, and he's willing to try it. We've also been looking for a good harness for possible play with a third.
@Kendra - Ass play may not be your thing, but it is plenty of other peoples. You wouldn't want us judging what gets you off, so try and return the favor and not judge others either.
@Kendra - Ass play may not be your thing, but it is plenty of other peoples. You wouldn't want us judging what gets you off, so try and return the favor and not judge others either.
06/29/2011
kelticshaman
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My girl nd I absolutely love it. She asked me what my fantasies were regardiing pegging and I actually wrote out a brief manual of various scenarios for her and told her she could also freelance. Fortunately she is very innovative and adventurous.
Originally posted by
Unmarried Honeymooners
What are your opinions on a girl using a strap-on on a man? Have you had any interesting experience with this? If so elaborate. Do you feel it is wrong in any way?
06/30/2011
The amount of success you have with this definitely depends on the woman, and I think it only works for a small subset... On one hand, you have to know what it's like to want to be ravished, and on the other, you have to want to be on the other end of that, being the giver, rather than the receiver. I think it's unrealistic to expect men to always be on one end of the deal... It's not an issue with women at all, it's just a matter of anatomy. Kinda tough to "ravish" a flaccid penis with your vagina, so pegging is really all there is to fulfill that type of desire in a man.
06/30/2011
abntroll58
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my wife and I do it a lot, it's not the only thing we do but we do enjoy it
Originally posted by
ValH
This is definitely something we're interested in. My guy is an "ass guy" with a small bi-curious streak. The idea of pegging intrigues me, and he's willing to try it. We've also been looking for a good harness for possible play with a
...
This is definitely something we're interested in. My guy is an "ass guy" with a small bi-curious streak. The idea of pegging intrigues me, and he's willing to try it. We've also been looking for a good harness for possible play with a third.
@Kendra - Ass play may not be your thing, but it is plenty of other peoples. You wouldn't want us judging what gets you off, so try and return the favor and not judge others either.
@Kendra - Ass play may not be your thing, but it is plenty of other peoples. You wouldn't want us judging what gets you off, so try and return the favor and not judge others either.
06/30/2011
My Man and I don't peg, but it doesn't work with our personal dynamic.
I think that when it works for a couple, its a great way of yet an other variation on the pleasures that any consensual type of sex may bring! I wholly support peggers. (Is there a T Shirt?)
We have a variation of a D/s relationship, so I don't penetrate him. We engage in a lot of anal play with me as the receiver and we both LOVE it, but that's what works in our relationship. I really wish I hadn't been so resistant to anal sex for as long as I was. What an amazing thing! But, that is only what works for us. I know many many people who have very different dynamics and I think whatever works for each couple is great, as long as they both are happy...and tolerant of the enjoyed activities of other people, who might be quite different than you are.
How could anything that both partners consent to be "wrong?" It can't be.
I think that when it works for a couple, its a great way of yet an other variation on the pleasures that any consensual type of sex may bring! I wholly support peggers. (Is there a T Shirt?)
We have a variation of a D/s relationship, so I don't penetrate him. We engage in a lot of anal play with me as the receiver and we both LOVE it, but that's what works in our relationship. I really wish I hadn't been so resistant to anal sex for as long as I was. What an amazing thing! But, that is only what works for us. I know many many people who have very different dynamics and I think whatever works for each couple is great, as long as they both are happy...and tolerant of the enjoyed activities of other people, who might be quite different than you are.
How could anything that both partners consent to be "wrong?" It can't be.
07/07/2011
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It should be too difficult. Us guys are pretty simple creatures. Just give a few hints and he'll get the idea.
Originally posted by
Tori Rebel
My ex and I did it frequently and he loved it. I am concerned though, as he was the first I tried it with, how to go about introducing it into a new relationship. Should be interesting!
07/09/2011
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I agree, and some guys may be embarassed at first to tell the girl what he likes. I was a little at first...now its something we do now and then and we both love it.
Originally posted by
Big Dman
It should be too difficult. Us guys are pretty simple creatures. Just give a few hints and he'll get the idea.
07/11/2011
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Actually, my girlfriend doesn't like anal at all, so I am not able to do her :-(
Originally posted by
P'Gell
My Man and I don't peg, but it doesn't work with our personal dynamic.
I think that when it works for a couple, its a great way of yet an other variation on the pleasures that any consensual type of sex may bring! I wholly support peggers. ...
I think that when it works for a couple, its a great way of yet an other variation on the pleasures that any consensual type of sex may bring! I wholly support peggers. ...
My Man and I don't peg, but it doesn't work with our personal dynamic.
I think that when it works for a couple, its a great way of yet an other variation on the pleasures that any consensual type of sex may bring! I wholly support peggers. (Is there a T Shirt?)
We have a variation of a D/s relationship, so I don't penetrate him. We engage in a lot of anal play with me as the receiver and we both LOVE it, but that's what works in our relationship. I really wish I hadn't been so resistant to anal sex for as long as I was. What an amazing thing! But, that is only what works for us. I know many many people who have very different dynamics and I think whatever works for each couple is great, as long as they both are happy...and tolerant of the enjoyed activities of other people, who might be quite different than you are.
How could anything that both partners consent to be "wrong?" It can't be.
I think that when it works for a couple, its a great way of yet an other variation on the pleasures that any consensual type of sex may bring! I wholly support peggers. (Is there a T Shirt?)
We have a variation of a D/s relationship, so I don't penetrate him. We engage in a lot of anal play with me as the receiver and we both LOVE it, but that's what works in our relationship. I really wish I hadn't been so resistant to anal sex for as long as I was. What an amazing thing! But, that is only what works for us. I know many many people who have very different dynamics and I think whatever works for each couple is great, as long as they both are happy...and tolerant of the enjoyed activities of other people, who might be quite different than you are.
How could anything that both partners consent to be "wrong?" It can't be.
07/11/2011
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Hopefully, not too difficult. That said though, a lot of guys have masculinity complexes and fear the 'gay implications' of pegging. In a strong relationship though, couples can talk through it and crush those false implications.
Originally posted by
Tori Rebel
My ex and I did it frequently and he loved it. I am concerned though, as he was the first I tried it with, how to go about introducing it into a new relationship. Should be interesting!
On topic now, of course it's not wrong. Various people groups are always going to point at some particular act and accuse it of something, so there are those who will say it is. But two lovers enjoying what they do can never be wrong.
08/03/2011
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Absolutely brilliant response.
Originally posted by
Spilock
Hopefully, not too difficult. That said though, a lot of guys have masculinity complexes and fear the 'gay implications' of pegging. In a strong relationship though, couples can talk through it and crush those false implications.
On topic now, ...
On topic now, ...
Hopefully, not too difficult. That said though, a lot of guys have masculinity complexes and fear the 'gay implications' of pegging. In a strong relationship though, couples can talk through it and crush those false implications.
On topic now, of course it's not wrong. Various people groups are always going to point at some particular act and accuse it of something, so there are those who will say it is. But two lovers enjoying what they do can never be wrong.
On topic now, of course it's not wrong. Various people groups are always going to point at some particular act and accuse it of something, so there are those who will say it is. But two lovers enjoying what they do can never be wrong.
08/03/2011
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