Thinking about trying a strap on scenario...

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Thinking about trying a strap on scenario...

callsignhusker callsignhusker
I'm a guy but I like anal play and my female partner likes to dominate sometimes, have any of you tried girl on guy anal strapon play? Any advice/toy suggestions?
04/06/2011
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Quote:
Originally posted by callsignhusker
I'm a guy but I like anal play and my female partner likes to dominate sometimes, have any of you tried girl on guy anal strapon play? Any advice/toy suggestions?
It's pretty great. We don't really do it for domination, but instead for the appeal of gender role reversals. As for advice, it kind of depends on where you are for anal experience/comfort. I personally don't really like going too deep (uncomfortable feeling) so I only have toys shorter than 6". As for width, it depends on where you are. I have a wide range from 1.5" to 2.5" in diameter, though the largest toys generally aren't so great with thrusting. I've really enjoyed the Vixen Lone Star, it feels great for me and looks amazing on my partner, but it is on the bigger side, at about 1.9" in diameter. But I do like the Vixskin dildos because they are more flexible and sort of more forgiving at the awkward angles you might encounter beginning strap-on play. Feel free to message me if you have any specific questions I can answer.
04/06/2011
Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
I've bought the Fun Factory Share. Hoping to convince my girl to try a little role reversal - we'll see!
04/09/2011
Spilock Spilock
Normally, I would suggest getting a cheaper strap on bundle, like the Bend Over Beginner kit, to see if strap ons work for you. But if you already like anal and she's already got the whole domination thing down, I would suggest skipping that step. I would pick up a double ended toy such as the Feeldoe or the Share, so that she gets as much stimulation out of it as you do. You may still need a harness though, to maintain stability with those toys. Also, check the diameters of any toys you'll be on the receiving end of, and make sure you've worked up to that size to be comfortable.
04/11/2011
Liz2 Liz2
By trial and error, I would suggest a good harness....Aslan Jaguar, Spare Parts Jock or something similiar. For a dil, most of the VixSkin or Tantus line work quite well.
As for double dils; they don't work for me w/o a harness and I have found the Feeldoe to rigid and the angle is off for f/m sex, the Share is better but it is too floppy for f/m sex, the Tango is great but no longer available in the US (patent issues).
04/11/2011
stlouisxxx stlouisxxx
My girlfriend & I were in the same position. We like BDSM play, she enjoys being the domme a lot more than the sub. We recently got into strap-on play & bought the panty style Grll Toyz harness. She didn't like real well as she had to steady the dildo with her hand a lot. We just ordered the Joque harness & will arrive Friday.
05/05/2011
callsignhusker callsignhusker
ty for the replies
05/26/2011
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