Have you told your friends that you and your partner peg?

SexyySarah SexyySarah
Nope, but we don't do it a lot!
08/23/2010
silversnowleopardess silversnowleopardess
My husband is pretty open about it, if someone asks, he'll tell them. He won't go into minute details about it, but he will say that we peg and that he enjoys it.
09/06/2010
tashadavis tashadavis
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Originally posted by shepegs
Have you told your friends that you and your partner peg? (This is for straight couples using strapon female to male).

Has anyone asked you or it came up in a conversation? If so, did people look at you funny?
his friends already knew. so when we got together then they knew i did i guess.
09/14/2010
Spilock Spilock
That's a definite no for me. Aside from wanting to keep my private life private among acquaintances, the majority of my friends would most definitely freak upon discovery. I doubt I would get abandoned by them, but at the bare minimum things would be awkward and not the same.
10/31/2010
Beaners Beaners
I have a few friends, and by a few I literally mean 2, that I share everything with who I've told. But I don't get into detail.
12/06/2010
clp clp
I don't mind talking about it and I wouldn't deny it, but I also don't bring it up in conversations. It can be hard to gauge how other people are going to take it so its best to just tread lightly.
12/15/2010
ToyingCouple ToyingCouple
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Originally posted by silversnowleopardess
My husband is pretty open about it, if someone asks, he'll tell them. He won't go into minute details about it, but he will say that we peg and that he enjoys it.
Good for him! My husband would never in a million years say anything about our adventures.
12/22/2010
ScottA ScottA
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Originally posted by ToyingCouple
Good for him! My husband would never in a million years say anything about our adventures.
I'd say that it might have to deal with the "male" vs "female" version of sex talk. I generally don't talk sex face to face because "male" sex talk is generally ego-boosting "conquest" type of things, and that doesn't really fit in my relationship. Given that type of sex talk, you can see how "I bend over and let my wife do my butt" doesn't necessarily fit in...
12/23/2010
ReesaAndBrandon ReesaAndBrandon
Quote:
Originally posted by shepegs
Have you told your friends that you and your partner peg? (This is for straight couples using strapon female to male).

Has anyone asked you or it came up in a conversation? If so, did people look at you funny?
My man won't even try it..
01/11/2011
kawigrl kawigrl
lesbians love strap ons....a lot of people just assume it
01/11/2011
idunshire idunshire
It's not something that comes up in normal conversation, but if it DOES come up I don't hesitate to share or give my input. I don't like to feel like I should be ashamed of my sex life.
01/21/2011
PussyGalore PussyGalore
No way in hell! I do not want anyone to get all weird and think less of him because he likes it. It's just not fair and it's super intimate. No different than him not telling other people how I like daddy/daughter roleplay. It's just not something you share with friends. Strangers on the internet is a different story.
02/14/2011
married with children married with children
I do not discuss our sexual activity with my friends. That is between my wife and I. (and here of course)
02/14/2011
Tart Tart
My kinky friends ONLY!
03/18/2011
null null
One of his friends knows, but we don't tell people...
05/14/2011
ac0313 ac0313
we don't make it public knowledge, but we are members on another sex forum and have let it be know what she loves peggging and I have participated.
05/20/2011
Ansley Ansley
Nah, there are some things you just keep to yourself, you know?
07/10/2011
Sinfully Sinfully
I've never done this with a guy but not sure id talk about it with others or not.
07/12/2011
Big Dman Big Dman
I voted no way. IMO what happens in the bedroom...stays there
07/13/2011
stlouisxxx stlouisxxx
No we do not tell anyone that we are into pegging. Our friends have not admitted that they are into any "kinky" activities. Most gals have very few vibrators, 1 or 2 have a small bondage kit, the majority of couples aren't even into anal on the female. It is our little secret & we enjoy it that way. We do make innuendos around others but they haven't a clue.
07/16/2011
Crichton Crichton
I've only told one friend and my sister. My friend knew I wanted to do it, I have wanted to for over years, but my ex was never receptive to it.

Once I started dating my current bf anal stimulation happened within 2 days of us having sex. And within a month I saved up for a harness and a dildo and we started on our path to pegging.

Out of respect to my bf I don't let others that might know us know about this. He is ok with me telling strangers that don't know him, but he isn't too keen on people he knows knowing.
07/27/2011
Rossie Rossie
No way, why would I share my sex life with my friends!
08/09/2011
toysforall toysforall
I think this should be more of a private thing, especially for the guys sake!
08/17/2011
carenautilus carenautilus
Well, sure. But all of these friends were in the kink community, and generally sex positive pervs. My kind of people. Though I should point out that pegging isn't necessarily a D/s thing.
09/22/2011
bdvnt bdvnt
We keep our sexual antics to ourselves.
09/29/2011
CrimsonCat CrimsonCat
I have told four friends (if I recall correctly) which I trust and with whom I have conversed about kinky topics before, mostly because of my desire to share. Of these friends, three are females and one male. Sure, there is no guarantee that they haven't told anyone else.

But one thing is that I don't like anyone who knows about my pegging to mention or even suggest it in the presence of other good, long-time friends. I tend to be selective when sharing personal information (which is kinda weird since I'm openly sharing in this forum).

As an idealist, I dream of pegging being an open and common practice that everyone feels good talking about, and that most couples in this world do it.
10/03/2011
BlackxxxRose BlackxxxRose
No and we probably won't because he doesn't like talking publicly about his sexuality anyways; that and we've only just started experimenting with it.
10/04/2011
PassionCpl PassionCpl
It's not exactly a topic that comes up all that often but we've got some pretty open minded friends (who are active in the GLBT community anyway) so wouldn't feel too awkward letting them know.
11/01/2011
Mistress Jezebel Mistress Jezebel
We didn't tell anyone but someone mentioned we probably dabble, since our friends knew my profession. When neither of us denied it my friends assumed so.
11/10/2011
kfdarling kfdarling
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Originally posted by Shesasexybrat
Haven't told a soul (other than you all of course) the man is terrified of peoples reactions and is quite sure that people will think he is gay. I keep my newest kink behind closed doors and will do so until he gives the go ahead; at which point ... More
That is just the way society makes us guys feel. It is sad. I really want my wife to peg me but I am afraid of the judgement, and we have been married 14 years
12/30/2011
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