Who Initiated / Brought Up Pegging?

Brian Brian
Simple question. I know people have answered this before but not in a easy to view pole. I'm curious if it's 50/50 or if it leans one way or the other.
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
I'm a male and I brought it up
86  (49%)
I'm a female and I brought it up
43  (25%)
I'm a male and she brought it up
16  (9%)
I'm a female and he brought it up
30  (17%)
Total votes: 175
Poll is closed
08/18/2010
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NuMe NuMe
I brought it up because I was showing my husband something on the EF website, not because I wanted to try it. He liked the idea and was the one who wanted to get a harness and dildo and give it a try. I thought he was crazy but I was willing to try it for him. Funny, but I think I've actually ended up enjoying it more than he has.
08/18/2010
Jul!a Jul!a
We kinda both brought it up but I elaborated a little more into it. It was something he had always been curious about but hadn't trusted the women he was with enough to try it.
08/18/2010
Owl Identified Owl Identified
I'm female and he brought it up, but I now love it
08/18/2010
Liz Liz
Same as above-- I'm female and he suggested it, as he'd tried it in a previous relationship and loved it. Now we're both addicted.
08/18/2010
shepegs shepegs
I was curious and she liked anal play so it was almost a natural progression. At first she was not crazy about the idea but now she loves is. She pegs me real good. Did I mention how good she pegs me?
08/18/2010
Envy Envy
I brought it up, and my bf was always curious. Got him his first butt toy and he loooooves it and wants more, haha.
08/19/2010
Timaree Timaree
here's a great column for the first-time or veteran pegger: link
08/19/2010
ToyTimeTim ToyTimeTim
I brought it up after a solo night of prostate play, my arm and hands were tired and I asked her if she would do it for me next time. Pretty much rolled from there.
08/19/2010
ScottA ScottA
I tend to be the more adventurous one sexually in our relationship, so I've brought up pretty much all the anal stuff. It took a while, because she tends to be a bit more conservative sexually (and we're just talking about things to do with me, since neither of us are interested in having other partners), and I didn't want to emotionally force her into doing something she was not comfortable with
08/20/2010
Brian Brian
Quote:
Originally posted by ScottA
I tend to be the more adventurous one sexually in our relationship, so I've brought up pretty much all the anal stuff. It took a while, because she tends to be a bit more conservative sexually (and we're just talking about things to do with ... More
Thanks for that info about your experience Scott. It's definitely something I don't want to force my wife into since that kind of defeats the purpose of it in my opinion. It's always good to hear about situations where one person is more reserved than the other as I think that is the more common scenario but you always hear stories about both parties being totally down for it from the start which isn't as common I don't think.
08/20/2010
Brian Brian
Hmm interesting stats if this poll is right 15 men to 8 women. That's almost 2-1. It's interesting that guys are more into this than woman. Maybe it's because the guy is receiving more of the stimulation? Interesting results.
08/26/2010
ScottA ScottA
Quote:
Originally posted by Brian
Hmm interesting stats if this poll is right 15 men to 8 women. That's almost 2-1. It's interesting that guys are more into this than woman. Maybe it's because the guy is receiving more of the stimulation? Interesting results.
Don't forget to account for sampling errors. "Users who are on EF, peg, and who respond to this poll" is definitely a convenience sample.
08/26/2010
Brian Brian
Quote:
Originally posted by ScottA
Don't forget to account for sampling errors. "Users who are on EF, peg, and who respond to this poll" is definitely a convenience sample.
Very true. It's definitely not the most accurate but then again any poll done on a site like this really won't be because a certain type of people are on this type of site.
08/26/2010
Kindred Kindred
I thought about pegging for awhile. But it was actually my wife that brought it up first while browsing on EF. She saw the dildo/harness sets and and asked if I would be interested. I tried to not act overly anxious but said yes! We ordered that night
09/06/2010
silversnowleopardess silversnowleopardess
My husband brought it up initially, but I had had a long-standing fantasy about doing it prior to meeting him. So, it all worked out great! :}
09/06/2010
ScottA ScottA
Makes me wonder how many men do have a secret interest.
09/11/2010
Beaners Beaners
I hadn't even thought of it until my boyfriend mentioned it to me long before we started dated. Totally love it now.
12/14/2010
Airekah Airekah
I couldn't even vote because I know my beau would not be down for this.
12/14/2010
summer13 summer13
I did and he is willing to try it.
12/18/2010
rdytogo rdytogo
I bought it up and he was willing.
12/18/2010
abntroll58 abntroll58
Quote:
Originally posted by Brian
Simple question. I know people have answered this before but not in a easy to view pole. I'm curious if it's 50/50 or if it leans one way or the other.
I am the one who asked my wife about trying it
01/02/2011
That Guy That Guy
My girlfriend actually jokingly brought it up as a "well how would you like it?" and I responded with, "A lot, probably". She wasn't too keen on the idea at the time, so I guess I won that argument.
01/04/2011
ScottA ScottA
Quote:
Originally posted by That Guy
My girlfriend actually jokingly brought it up as a "well how would you like it?" and I responded with, "A lot, probably". She wasn't too keen on the idea at the time, so I guess I won that argument.
Won the battle but suffered a setback in the war it seems. Hopefully she comes around.
01/09/2011
Mr. & Mrs. Peg Mr. & Mrs. Peg
I brought it up, freaked her out a little bit but she was willing to give it a try. She enjoyed the power and we haven't turned back since.
01/19/2011
MeliPixie MeliPixie
My boyfriend brought it up. actually, he brought it up several months before we starting seeing each other! He decided, because I'm a lesbian (believe it or not!) it would be a great idea to have me do it! We got talking, and a few months later, I gave him my virginity, and a few months after that, I took his
01/27/2011
Cedarlooman Cedarlooman
Quote:
Originally posted by Brian
Simple question. I know people have answered this before but not in a easy to view pole. I'm curious if it's 50/50 or if it leans one way or the other.
I brought it up in conversation a few months ago, and am looking forward to experiencing it this weekend. I never thought it would be something I would be interested in, but have recently become really intrigued about it. After she tossed my salad, I decided I wanted her to go all the way!
03/15/2011
Collodion Collodion
I brought it up to the first boyfriend I did it with, but my next partner brought it up to me. After that, I brought it up to another current partner and we're looking into trying it out sometime. *grin*

Convoluted, but it's basically been a 50/50 split over the years.
03/16/2011
Peg Peg
It was his idea.
03/19/2011
csweatc csweatc
I've brought it up, but it has still yet to happen. I'm not going to force the issue at all, but I would be pretty excited if it ever happened.
03/20/2011
Total posts: 72
Unique posters: 64