Who Initiated / Brought Up Pegging?

Spilock Spilock
I brought it up, though my wife was nervous during the first time. The second went better, and it will hopefully be a staple eventually.
04/04/2011
Fuck it. Fuck it.
I'm a girl and I bring it up fairly often, mostly as a joke now that I get shot down. It's okay.

In the past I've had the guy mention it and I never did, so it evens out.
04/07/2011
stlouisxxx stlouisxxx
It was her idea years ago, after watching a fem domme movie, where the lady pegged the guy. I told her I was curious but reluctant. I recently surprised her with a strap on & she really got into it. I for the most part enjoyed it as well. She really enjoyed the control aspect of pegging.
05/05/2011
newfoundlust newfoundlust
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Originally posted by Brian
Simple question. I know people have answered this before but not in a easy to view pole. I'm curious if it's 50/50 or if it leans one way or the other.
I recently admitted to my wife that it was something I was interested in. We will see what happens now.
05/05/2011
k3 k3
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Originally posted by csweatc
I've brought it up, but it has still yet to happen. I'm not going to force the issue at all, but I would be pretty excited if it ever happened.
Same here. ^_^; I brought it up and continue to bring it up now and then....but it hasn't happened yet, as much as I hope it will. ;]
05/10/2011
robertk2380 robertk2380
The idea to try this was mine. My wife said she was willing to give it a go, but was really nervous. I ordered the harness and dildo that looked like a reasonable size. Still remember her coming out of the bathroom wearing the harness. Very exciting. We went slowly and carefully at first with me on my hands and knees. She commented that thrusting was harder than she expected. Took a bit to get into a rhythm. I loved it. Didn't do as much for her, but she enjoyed seeing my reaction to being pegged. Still does to this day whenever she's giving and I'm receiving.
06/09/2011
kittychilla kittychilla
i brought it up. first, playing around..but the next day he asked if i was serious and i told him that it did sound kind of hot..so as time went on he was more willing to do it. and plus, the thought of me on top and dominating him turns me on..
06/09/2011
oldkinky oldkinky
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Originally posted by kittychilla
i brought it up. first, playing around..but the next day he asked if i was serious and i told him that it did sound kind of hot..so as time went on he was more willing to do it. and plus, the thought of me on top and dominating him turns me on.. ... More
I brought it up the first time, but it turned out that (unknown to me) it had always been on of her fantasies. It is a regular part of our sex life. We do it about once a week.
06/10/2011
CharlieBrown CharlieBrown
I brought it up. At first my wife was a bit hesitant, but now she likes the thought of being in control and I can't get enough!
06/16/2011
CandidKinkster CandidKinkster
Quote:
Originally posted by Brian
Simple question. I know people have answered this before but not in a easy to view pole. I'm curious if it's 50/50 or if it leans one way or the other.
I am fascinated by pegging and have asked my husband several times if he'd be interested. Unfortunately, his response is always a firm "NO".
06/16/2011
froggiemoma froggiemoma
he brought it up, had tryed before me
06/30/2011
Pegaholics Pegaholics
I wish there was an accurated study on how many couples do this. I have a feeling a lot more than society thinks! My wife and I play a game were we'll pick out innocent looking people and then guess with each other whether they've tried it before or not. This is a great game to play at church.
07/02/2011
Big Dman Big Dman
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Originally posted by Pegaholics
I wish there was an accurated study on how many couples do this. I have a feeling a lot more than society thinks! My wife and I play a game were we'll pick out innocent looking people and then guess with each other whether they've tried it ... More
LOL!

I brought it up when I was with my ex. She loved the idea and then we did it.
07/03/2011
Crichton Crichton
It's nice to see a good number of men bringing it up to their partners.

I was the one that brought it up but I think it was one of those situations where he was about to but I beat him to it.
07/27/2011
kinksters kinksters
i brought it up, but she bought the strapon
07/30/2011
PuddlePuppy PuddlePuppy
I brought it up cause I've always strayed towards femdom porn and wanted to experiment.
I've done enough experimenting with guys to know I'm a bottom.
And our strap on should be delivered on Monday or so!
08/26/2011
Ash1141 Ash1141
I brought it up but he was all about it too. Lol!
09/15/2011
Mistress Jezebel Mistress Jezebel
My man brought it up while we were in a fluctuating vanilla relationship
11/10/2011
null null
I brought it up jokingly a few times, eventually we both got comfortable with the idea and tried it. He really enjoyed it after being so opposed to it before.
11/10/2011
Husband and Wife Husband and Wife
I think we both brought it up, I told I would love to dom. Adn we were looking one day for toys and she found a harness and said what if I got this and pounded you in the ass. I almost came right then in there.
12/09/2011
switzerland switzerland
i chose 'i'm a female and i brought it up,' but really i think that both him and i brought it up, or it came up in conversation and we both expressed our desire for it.. we both want it
12/09/2011
SexuallyInteresting SexuallyInteresting
I brought up the concept in passing, but she was the one who suggested we actually do it.
12/15/2011
RonLee RonLee
I did.
12/15/2011
NightKat NightKat
I brought it up, it was definitely one of the hardest questions I had ever asked. I was so happy when she said she'd like to as well ^ ^
01/01/2012
Nobush Nobush
My girlfriend wanted to get a toy for me and had me select one. She was sceptical of my selection at first but she found herself getting so excited she finished first. This is something I completely recommend to everyone- enjoy!!!!!
01/09/2012
jc123 jc123
He brought it up. I couldn't get into it the first several times we did it, but I've started to really like doing it.
01/17/2012
Stinkytofu10 Stinkytofu10
I am male and she brought it up!
01/19/2012
Harpina is gone Harpina is gone
I've asked my guy if he'd let me try it, he didn't bring it up.
03/19/2012
YouAreMyFetish YouAreMyFetish
I'm female, and he brought it up. We're both into bdsm and both of us Switch from time to time. Our most comfortable dynamic is him Domming me, but he is also into submitting. He told me that he would like to submit to me absolutely and completely, and he feels the most ultimate form of submission would be getting pegged. He said he would be willing to try it, to work himself up to it. I was surprised but am definitely intrigued.
04/03/2012
you know you know
Something I have always wanted but never been comfortable with asking after two previous bad experiances with expressing my desire. For the second time she grabbed my hips from behind and started thrusting. "Exclaming I think it would be fun."

Our kit arrives tormorrow.
04/03/2012
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