Who Initiated / Brought Up Pegging?

ScottA ScottA
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Originally posted by you know
Something I have always wanted but never been comfortable with asking after two previous bad experiances with expressing my desire. For the second time she grabbed my hips from behind and started thrusting. "Exclaming I think it would be ... More
Congratulations on keeping it up and not getting turned off by rejection or forcing it on your partner. If your comfortable a bit more detail on how you asked and built up to it might be helpful for those trying to figure out how to ask themselves.
04/03/2012
you know you know
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Originally posted by ScottA
Congratulations on keeping it up and not getting turned off by rejection or forcing it on your partner. If your comfortable a bit more detail on how you asked and built up to it might be helpful for those trying to figure out how to ask themselves.
It was actually an evolution in the bedroom. I encouraged her hand back there to start. She introduced a toy to start. I introduced a slightly bigger toy which she enjoys using. This last time we were in the shower in which she expressed the desire to shave me back there. Anyway it turned me on while she was shaving me we had sex and as I turned around she started thrusting me from behind. She exclaimed I think I would enjoy doing that to you. Since this was the second time I jumped on it and took the step of looking at them online. I researched which harness would be good for her and came at it from a point where I want the both of us to enjoy the experience. So in the end I took her second casual comment about wanting to try it as a point to just plan it. Think it made us both feel comfortable. I didn't want to jump on it the first time and perhaps scare her off. After the second time i didn't want to not act on it and perhaps send her a message that I wad not interested.

I am going to sit and wait for her to suggest we try it.

Oh as for shaving her playing with it more randomly has convinced me to keep it clean for her.
04/04/2012
TexasBrat TexasBrat
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Originally posted by Brian
Simple question. I know people have answered this before but not in a easy to view pole. I'm curious if it's 50/50 or if it leans one way or the other.
We'd been talking about it for a bit, here & there, but I didn't push it. My hubby's a "manly man cowboy", so I let him bring it up. He'd asked me if I'd ever done anal, and I told him so, and I think that sparked his curiosity. He was the one that took us to a sex toy shop to pick out our first "pegger", which was the blue Feeldoe.
04/05/2012
Bignuf Bignuf
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Originally posted by Brian
Simple question. I know people have answered this before but not in a easy to view pole. I'm curious if it's 50/50 or if it leans one way or the other.
We used to read Penthouse Forum mini mag years ago. It taught us about prostate massage. I was doing this for my hubby years before I saw a strap on and when I did, I bought it after asking if he wanted to try it...with ME doing "him" that way. He said sure and we have been having that kind of fun since, but honestly, he still has NEVER found a toy that gets him off back there...nothing but my finger ever "hits the right spot". All I know is that after pegging him for a while, I love to suck him off...a little front and back door oral, and once he "recovers", he tends to spend a long time pleasuring my tail end with his now "long lasting" toy!!!!
05/16/2012
libbyv libbyv
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Originally posted by Brian
Simple question. I know people have answered this before but not in a easy to view pole. I'm curious if it's 50/50 or if it leans one way or the other.
surprising his idea. although i had played with him a little prior, i was not interested at all at first. i guess i'm more conservative sexually. over time i warmed up to the idea, and we are now looking for our first strap on
11/25/2012
hanjonatan hanjonatan
i think she knew i wanted to (i'm bisexual and have generally bottomed when i've been with men, it wasn't hard to guess i suppose) and we sort of joked about it a little at first because i had a hard time asking about it. so i guess technically she did? i think she's the one who was like "no but seriously, if you want..."
11/27/2012
Kat and Aaron(aaron) Kat and Aaron(aaron)
I(the male) brought it up in a joking manner to gauge her reaction. Luckily, she wasn't opposed!
11/29/2012
spiced spiced
I'm a guy and I brought it up.

I'd seen F>f strap-on in videos and found it a huge turn on. I started imagining what it would be like to be on the receiving end and got turned on even more. Then I actually saw F>m strap-on play in a video and found it to be a HUGE turn-on.

So after my wife (at the time she was my GF) and I had been intimate for a couple of years, we had some post-coital discussions about fantasies and I mentioned strap-on play. She was hesitant at first--she thought I wanted her to 'be a man'--but after I assured her that I loved her just the wonderful, feminine way she is, she agreed to try it.

She was SHOCKED at how much she loved it! Still loves it now, and so do I!
12/04/2012
britanny0620 britanny0620
The last (and only) partner I did it with, he was the one to bring it up. I was more than happy to oblige. I don't remember the exact conversation, though.
12/09/2012
SecretKinksters SecretKinksters
He brought it up, and I'm glad he did!
05/30/2013
twelve13 twelve13
I'm pretty sure he brought it up.
06/07/2013
Yellow Dog Yellow Dog
With us it was kind of a mutual discovery, but I marked "me" in the poll. She said "well, we both have butts; so we should both enjoy it". She was right, and I do.
07/05/2013
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