First ballgag, take 2!--Asking for advice this time! >_<

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First ballgag, take 2!--Asking for advice this time! >_<

k3 k3 05/11/2011

Soo.... I'd never used a ballgag before, but my fiancé (who is also my Dominant) and I are really interested in the idea of trying one. I fell in love with the "Fresh" series when I saw the collar on another site, and was super excited when I found the whole set here on EF...so, of course, the first purchase from my wishlist was the Fresh ballgag. I knew 2" would definitely be too big for my small mouth/jaw, but the Fresh ballgag was 1 3/4", so I figured I'd go ahead and give it a try since I was so crazy about the pink and blue color scheme. But it turns out my mouth/jaw is even smaller than that...I can force the ball in with a little difficulty, but it hurts my jaw immediately. Because of that, we haven't used it. So now we're looking for a new ballgag to give this another try. A 1 1/2" is the smallest I've found. And these are the 1 1/2" ballgags EF carries that I have been looking at. This is where you all come in!--which do you think would be better? :]

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k3 k3
The beginners ballgag isn't as much the look He would prefer, but I think I could be okay with it. I prefer the look of the white and pink one over the all red, but there are, differences between the two other than color. Therefore.....I leave the suggestions and advice and such up to you! ^_^
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ShadowKitten , Lio , LavenderSkies , Judas Iscars , cujo467 , uu , Alegria , Lady Marmelade , dv8 , zracer , mb , pinkcupcakes , AgnesTrevejo , It's a Hooker! , yoham45 , Dyma , tickle me pink , DustBunny , A Closet Slut (aka nipplepeople) , Pixel , potstickers , SiNn , kelaaa33wish , deletedacct , Shellz31 , Zombie Ghost , liilii080 , Lummox , Jazz , systematicweasel , sktb0007 , Howells , Dawn (Lilac Distraction) , Kkay , Vanessa Weiss , emiliaa , bayosgirl , dezzydezire , toysforall , strawberrystwstd , Miss Nessa , Eva Schwaltz , Jon S , unfulfilled , DreamWolf , GONE! , Ciao. , MeliPixie , Beck , pokefan15 , Master DarkWolf , Defiledpixxy , MissCandyland , Missmarc , SJ88 , Stinkytofu10 , Various , CadmiumKitty , Secret Pleasure , humblepie , DiamondKoala , BlooJay , callsignhusker , MamaDivine , coconut1 , SMichelle
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Red Vinyl Kitty , The Curious Couple , DCorrelle , Ghost , Sinfully , ily , ToyBoy , carenautilus , Bebela , Kitka , hall5885
11  (13%)
MamaBear , stlouisxxx , clp , kawigrl , pinkpottergirl
5  (6%)
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ShadowKitten ShadowKitten
Quote:
Originally posted by k3
The beginners ballgag isn't as much the look He would prefer, but I think I could be okay with it. I prefer the look of the white and pink one over the all red, but there are, differences between the two other than color. Therefore.....I leave ...
I own the black version of both the Beginner's Ball gag and Aslan Silicone Ball Gag and I frankly don't like the beginners (you can read my review of it here: link ) as it doesn't do that great at silencing you or your partner. The Aslan is made of super soft lush comfortable stitched leather and the silicone is firm but has a smidge of give making it too very comfortable. While I don't own the Vegan Silicone Ball Gag its more of less just a animal friendly version of the Aslan (both are made by Aslan) leather one with a longer headband if I remember correctly, my friend did a review on it that is pretty informative and she shows it in her video (both found here: link ) too to give you an idea...if you like I can drop you some quick shots of the Aslan leather (not vegan) one via pm (or over on KP next time I see you) to give you comparison views of both.

I would keep away from lower quality materials if at all possible like rubber/etc, Silicone for the win!

mew mrow mew.
05/11/2011
k3 k3
Quote:
Originally posted by ShadowKitten
I own the black version of both the Beginner's Ball gag and Aslan Silicone Ball Gag and I frankly don't like the beginners (you can read my review of it here: link ) as it doesn't do that great at silencing you or your partner. The Aslan ...
Thankies, Dear! I shoulda known you'd be the first one to reply to this, Shadow. ;] I remember you suggesting the Aslan one earlier today when we were talking in KP. I figure that's the one I plan on going with so far...just thought it wouldn't hurt to get some more opinions before I choose for sure. I'll PM ya on KP next time I see you there. :]

Meow-Meowr~<3
05/11/2011
LavenderSkies LavenderSkies
Quote:
Originally posted by k3
The beginners ballgag isn't as much the look He would prefer, but I think I could be okay with it. I prefer the look of the white and pink one over the all red, but there are, differences between the two other than color. Therefore.....I leave ...
Aslan silicone ball gag (Pink / White)
05/11/2011
k3 k3
Quote:
Originally posted by LavenderSkies
Aslan silicone ball gag (Pink / White)
Thanks. :]
05/11/2011
dv8 dv8
The straps on the Aslan gags have buckles but the straps on the Tantus gags use Velcro.
05/11/2011
k3 k3
Quote:
Originally posted by dv8
The straps on the Aslan gags have buckles but the straps on the Tantus gags use Velcro.
Ick, velcro. =/
05/12/2011
yoham45 yoham45
Aslan!
05/12/2011
Pixel Pixel
I'd go with the Aslan one. The Tantus gag was ok, but I wish I had bought a different one after using it for a while.
05/23/2011
clp clp
I love my tantus, though I dont have the beginner. I prefer it because its like a pacifier vs. biting a ball and keeping my mouth open. It doesn't hurt my jaw and I can wear it longer than my normal ballgag.
06/27/2011
liilii080 liilii080
You can't go wrong with aslan products.
06/27/2011
Dawn (Lilac Distraction) Dawn (Lilac Distraction)
Awesome! I was wondering about this, too. I had decided on the Aslan.
08/09/2011
Vanessa Weiss Vanessa Weiss
The Aslan Leather one is likely to be the best quality out of these three. I prefer the simple one I have that is a silicone ball with a silicone strap that tightens around teh head.
08/10/2011
toysforall toysforall
I would say the aslan too, you really can't go wrong with em.
08/11/2011
Rawhide Rawhide
I'm a big fan of ball gags in general and the Aslan gag specifically- the reasons why are in my review: link
09/20/2011
Miss Nessa Miss Nessa
Aslan silicone ball gag! I think that would be the best. I'm currently about to try that one too.
09/20/2011
Eva Schwaltz Eva Schwaltz
Aslan ball gag for sure, it doesn't hurt my jaw at all.
09/21/2011
DreamWolf DreamWolf
Anything but the deeper one... At least I went for a breathable set as the first ball gag...
12/15/2011
Bebela Bebela
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Originally posted by Rawhide
I'm a big fan of ball gags in general and the Aslan gag specifically- the reasons why are in my review: link
Sweet!
I was wondering though, if I want to use it on my partner to make him drool a bit, which would you recommend?
02/10/2012
Kitka Kitka
I don't like pink so I chose the Vegan black/red one.
02/10/2012
pinkpottergirl pinkpottergirl
I suggest this one: link

But out of these? The vegan one
04/05/2012
Defiledpixxy Defiledpixxy
Personally, either of the silicone ones would be great. I recommend silicone as anything else will deteriorate with time and can become gross. I would say the Aslan one only because I know that they make a good quality product and I know nothing about the vegan one as far as quality and durability goes.
04/06/2012
MissCandyland MissCandyland
The white one is interesting.
04/06/2012
Stinkytofu10 Stinkytofu10
Quote:
Originally posted by k3
The beginners ballgag isn't as much the look He would prefer, but I think I could be okay with it. I prefer the look of the white and pink one over the all red, but there are, differences between the two other than color. Therefore.....I leave ...
We been wanting to get Aslan silicone ball gag (Pink / White) forever, it's been out of stock forever too
04/06/2012
CadmiumKitty CadmiumKitty
the asian one
04/14/2012
DiamondKoala DiamondKoala
I've always had better experiences with aslan leather and this ball gag seems pretty fun and well designed as well as effective.
04/14/2012
BlooJay BlooJay
The aslan one looks innocent.
04/14/2012
callsignhusker callsignhusker
Aslan ball gag looks like the best pick!
04/15/2012
Roz W Roz W
I am looking to buy the Aslan at some point in the near future (when they come back into stock, grump).
04/15/2012
Total posts: 29
Unique posters: 26
k3 k3
None of these ones look super uncomfy, like some ballgags I have seen, but what do you think based on personal experience?...
Answers (public voting - your screen name will appear in the results):
ShadowKitten , Lio , Judas Iscars , uu , Lady Marmelade , dv8 , mb , The Curious Couple , AgnesTrevejo , It's a Hooker! , Dyma , tickle me pink , DustBunny , A Closet Slut (aka nipplepeople) , zracer , potstickers , Howells , Ghost , SiNn , dezzydezire , sktb0007 , Jon S , DreamWolf , Missmarc , Stinkytofu10 , DiamondKoala , SMichelle
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Total votes: 27 (27 voters)
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yoham45 yoham45
Aslan!
05/12/2011
SiNn SiNn
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Originally posted by k3
None of these ones look super uncomfy, like some ballgags I have seen, but what do you think based on personal experience?...
silicone ball gag
08/11/2011
DiamondKoala DiamondKoala
Aslan silicone gag.
04/14/2012
Total posts: 4
Unique posters: 4