Best introduction to bondage?

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Best introduction to bondage?

bayosgirl bayosgirl 08/24/2012

I want to experience the feeling of being bound. So far, all we've done is have him hold my wrists together with a belt. What do you guys recommend, rope or tape?

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bayosgirl bayosgirl
Which one is better for a beginner?
Answers (public voting - your screen name will appear in the results):
Master DarkWolf , DreamWolf , Supervixen
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- Kira - , Loriandhubby , Beck , PeaceToTheMiddleEast , padmeamidala , TheirPet , Rawr4483 , SMichelle , Ganconagh , ksparkles16 , Missmarc , brevado , Hallmar82 , deltalima , Stinkytofu10 , XxXxX , Falsepast , sktb0007 , Andrey2052 , GONE! , GirlOnGirl , ellieprobable , PropertyOfPotter , ViVix , Kissy , mpfm , unfulfilled , inkky , skeeterlynn , amazon , panthercat23 , ghent529 , malantha , CaliGirl , stlouisxxx , SecondStory , Lildrummrgurl7
37  (86%)
gsfanatic
1  (2%)
leopardprint , sweetpea12
2  (5%)
Total votes: 43
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I love rope, but it takes some skill to make it work. My husband watches videos like crazy learning knots and such. If you're just starting out, I'd go with the tape. Much easier to use.
08/24/2012
TheirPet TheirPet
The tape would probably be easier to get the hang of the first time.
08/24/2012
Rawr4483 Rawr4483
I like rope the bets, but tape is easier by far.
08/24/2012
Missmarc Missmarc
Quote:
Originally posted by bayosgirl
Which one is better for a beginner?
Fantasy bondage tape (Black)
08/24/2012
brevado brevado
Tapes easy to work with
08/24/2012
Hallmar82 Hallmar82
Rope is far sexier but the tape is much better for beginners.
08/24/2012
gsfanatic gsfanatic
Rope if your partner knows how to tie knots, otherwise tape or comfortable cuffs
08/24/2012
Stinkytofu10 Stinkytofu10
Quote:
Originally posted by bayosgirl
Which one is better for a beginner?
Fantasy bondage tape (Black)
08/24/2012
leopardprint leopardprint
I was introduced with bandannas! But I'd actually recommend a pair of cuffs for easy & extremely hot restraint play! Tape can be too easy to wiggle out of and isn't re-usable, and rope is too easy to pinch/mess up/cause nerve damage if you don't know what you're doing.
08/24/2012
Falsepast Falsepast
The tape I guess.
08/25/2012
bayosgirl bayosgirl
Quote:
Originally posted by leopardprint
I was introduced with bandannas! But I'd actually recommend a pair of cuffs for easy & extremely hot restraint play! Tape can be too easy to wiggle out of and isn't re-usable, and rope is too easy to pinch/mess up/cause nerve damage if ...
Rope can cause nerve damage?! I was actually leaning towards it since it is re-usable and sexy. I might rethink that now. Do you have any cuffs you recommend?
08/25/2012
Andrey2052 Andrey2052
Fantasy bondage tape (Black)
08/25/2012
GirlOnGirl GirlOnGirl
Of the two choices I'd go with the tape but cuffs would be good too.
08/25/2012
ellieprobable ellieprobable
The tape is pretty foolproof. But, simple bondage with ropes isn't hard to learn. Go to Lowe's and get nylon rope and you'll be set.
08/25/2012
Master DarkWolf Master DarkWolf
Rope is better, more versatile.
08/25/2012
DreamWolf DreamWolf
Quote:
Originally posted by Master DarkWolf
Rope is better, more versatile.
I wholeheartedly agree, not to mention that there are shorter ropes out there, for beginners, and obviously you want to do the needed research about BDSM safety before venturing into anything!

So yep, rope is what I would go for, even without a clue about knots you can use simple ones, and find tutorials on tying too of course! ^^
08/25/2012
ViVix ViVix
Quote:
Originally posted by bayosgirl
Which one is better for a beginner?
Rope is far too complicated!
08/26/2012
Kissy Kissy
I like both!
08/28/2012
unfulfilled unfulfilled
Tape for learning and watch youtube videos on how to tie rope.
08/28/2012
inkky inkky
Tape Is Better For Beginners
09/01/2012
Lavendar Lavendar
I like the rope
09/01/2012
sweetpea12 sweetpea12
Quote:
Originally posted by bayosgirl
Which one is better for a beginner?
If I were you I would use something around the house first like a mans tie or maybe a scarf. Because real bondage materials are sometimes painful and not only restricting but really hurt. So be cautions of what you choose. Good luck!
09/07/2012
amazon amazon
The tape is fairly easy to use
09/10/2012
Supervixen Supervixen
Quote:
Originally posted by bayosgirl
Rope can cause nerve damage?! I was actually leaning towards it since it is re-usable and sexy. I might rethink that now. Do you have any cuffs you recommend?
This kind of rope is not like, just regular harsh rope that you get at the hardware store. It's soft and intended specifically be used to tie someone up. You aren't going to cause nerve damage that way. That's silly.

Anyway, the rope. Yeah, the tape might be easier to use, but the rope is very versatile. It can be simple if you want it to be. Then when you're ready to try out knot tying, you'll have the rope you need.
10/18/2012
CaliGirl CaliGirl
I love the tape
11/01/2012
stlouisxxx stlouisxxx
Tape unless he is good at knots that you can escape easily if needed, for intro
01/01/2013
Total posts: 27
Unique posters: 26