Looking for Collar Alternatives...

Tessa Taboo Tessa Taboo
I'm trying to think of something other than a collar to wear. I'm looking for something discreet, but masculine. It can't be too loose because of what he has to do for work. I want it to be something he can wear 24/7. Any ideas?
08/05/2012
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Midnightsun327 Midnightsun327
A wrist band or ring usually works, or restricting underwear to a specific color and/or material and/or style (i.e. red silk boxers or blue boxer briefs, etc..) How casual does he dress for work? If its construction casual (jeans, flannel, etc) a bandanna around his upper arm might work, or a watch you get him to signify a collar would also work for almost any type of work-dress code.
Hope these ideas help.
08/05/2012
Tessa Taboo Tessa Taboo
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Originally posted by Midnightsun327
A wrist band or ring usually works, or restricting underwear to a specific color and/or material and/or style (i.e. red silk boxers or blue boxer briefs, etc..) How casual does he dress for work? If its construction casual (jeans, flannel, etc) a ... More
He's a mechanic, and he can't even wear rings to work. There would be a lot more options if it wasn't for what he was limited to for work. Maybe something that could go underneath his clothing?
08/06/2012
Midnightsun327 Midnightsun327
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Originally posted by Tessa Taboo
He's a mechanic, and he can't even wear rings to work. There would be a lot more options if it wasn't for what he was limited to for work. Maybe something that could go underneath his clothing?
Hmmm... A specific belt? Or limiting him to specific color underwear is a good one, too. Specific color socks works as well. Short of having him get a piercing done, your options are limited. Good luck!
08/06/2012
Zandrock Zandrock
A belt could be good. Maybe an earring. Maybe an ankle bracelet.
08/06/2012
Tessa Taboo Tessa Taboo
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Originally posted by Midnightsun327
Hmmm... A specific belt? Or limiting him to specific color underwear is a good one, too. Specific color socks works as well. Short of having him get a piercing done, your options are limited. Good luck!
Ohhh... he always wears a belt... that's a good idea!
08/06/2012
Midnightsun327 Midnightsun327
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Originally posted by Tessa Taboo
Ohhh... he always wears a belt... that's a good idea!
Glad I was able to help! Any time!

Living smack dab in the buckle of the Bible Belt, I have had to come up with ways to covertly keep my collar on but not something that people would ask too mahy questions about.
08/06/2012
- Kira - - Kira -
I have a Ring of Steel collar on order. If he can't wear jewelry that probably won't work. I like the belt idea!
08/06/2012
Midnightsun327 Midnightsun327
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Originally posted by - Kira -
I have a Ring of Steel collar on order. If he can't wear jewelry that probably won't work. I like the belt idea!
I LOVE my steel collar! They are heavy, but once the wearer gets used to the weight, I have found so many who say they can never think of not wearing the collar!
08/07/2012
Claire-Bear Claire-Bear
While more permanent, what about a tattoo? Like using a slave registry number or something?
08/07/2012
- Kira - - Kira -
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Originally posted by Midnightsun327
I LOVE my steel collar! They are heavy, but once the wearer gets used to the weight, I have found so many who say they can never think of not wearing the collar!
That's what I've heard from people, too. I'm so excited for it to arrive!
08/07/2012
Dear Ruby Dear Ruby
I really like the belt idea - It shouldn't be too hard for find a customized buckle with your name on it, or something personal like that...
08/15/2012
gsfanatic gsfanatic
Like the belt idea, it's discrete but clear
08/15/2012
Midnightsun327 Midnightsun327
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Originally posted by Dear Ruby
I really like the belt idea - It shouldn't be too hard for find a customized buckle with your name on it, or something personal like that...
Doesn't even need to have a name on it, maybe just a distinctive design on a regular buckle or a pattern on the leather of the belt.
08/16/2012
Tessa Taboo Tessa Taboo
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Originally posted by Claire-Bear
While more permanent, what about a tattoo? Like using a slave registry number or something?
Oh man.. that is AWESOME! Maybe the numbers could be like, the date he officially became my sub... lol
08/20/2012
smlove smlove
I've seen dom/sub couples use chainmail necklaces as collars, so they're discreet and fashionable. I've also seen them use fake dogtags or cutesy necklaces that didn't seem like collars at all.
08/20/2012
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